So another poster said that shoes on vs shoes off in the house isn't an issue that people feel strongly about. Not my experience at all!
When my partner took me to his parent's house, he told me at the door to take off my shoes and he did the same. I'd never been in a shoes off home before that.
One day, much later on, his mum was talking about how disrespectful someone was for just walking in her house with shoes on and how it was her looking down on them.
I explained that I never would have done it either if partner didn't say so as I wasn't raised doing it. Her other kids piped up and said they reminded all their friends to do it if they knew they didn't at their own house or wasn't sure.
Since then, I've seen that some people do feel really strongly about it for respect and/or hygiene reasons. Some equally defend not doing it, and not visiting homes who have that rule.
Are you a shoes on or shoes off home? Have you experienced it as a divisive subject?
Not unreasonable: I know people feel strongly either way
Unreasonable: This isn't an issue anyone really cares about.