I work in a nursery and I’m starting to get concerns about a member of staff. I never see her interacting with the children really or doing very much. When they are crying she tells them ‘you can have a cuddle but only if you stop that crying, I don’t want to hear it’. She is quite harsh with them. She’s also quite rough when trying to steer them away from something, just pretty much grabs them and pushes them away and I’ve heard her raise her voice quite a lot at them, pretty much shouting. When of the little boys today was upset and she said his cry was ‘pathetic’. She seems to have no sense of wanting to comfort them or see what’s wrong, she just gets frustrated at them. Aibu to feel she is being harsh and have concerns?