I went to visit my Mum last week
Whilst there, she mentioned that her and my two siblings (along with their partners and kids) had booked a xmas meal
I was then invited - in her words- ''if we can change the booking''
Me and OH have made very loose plans that involve staying home and would have loved to have gone, but the fact we are an afterthought has pissed me off to such an extent I have said no
AIBU? - clearly it matters not to anyone if me and my husband are there or not?