Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

DH pancreatic lesion with symptoms

189 replies

Ebabllisstggoffor · 24/11/2024 02:16

So we’re half way to our U.K. holiday break. This morning an appointment came through for my DH to see a consultant surgeon. This is an urgent appointment on the back of a recent MRI. It’s on Tuesday morning. He says he’s going to call them on Monday to rearrange it. My gut reaction is to head home and keep the appointment but he’s having none of it. He wants his holiday. I’m currently wide awake worrying about all this. What if he rings on Monday and can’t get a quick appointment? Should I try and persuade him that we should head home. What would be reasonable. I’m so very worried about him.

OP posts:
BlondeMamaToBe · 27/01/2025 22:06

I’m sorry 😔

Balloonhearts · 27/01/2025 21:45

This reply has been deleted

We've deleted this as the poster hadn't seen the OP's very sad update.

You should read the ops updates. Her DH passed away. Might want to edit.

caringcarer · 27/01/2025 21:40

This reply has been deleted

We've deleted this as the poster hadn't seen the OP's very sad update.

nancyastor · 27/01/2025 21:30

I am so very sorry to read this. I remember seeing your post. Sending my condolences to you and your family.

Azandme · 27/01/2025 21:28

I'm so sorry 😞.

Threeandahalf · 27/01/2025 21:27

I'm so sorry op. What a tragic thing to happen. Look after yourself x

NameChanges123 · 27/01/2025 21:25

Thinking of you... xx

ZoeyBartlett · 27/01/2025 21:14

What an horrendous shock. I'm so sorry for you all. Xx

MuchuseasaChocolateTeapot · 27/01/2025 20:15

Ah @Ebabllisstggoffor I am so sorry to hear about your DH. I really hoped being offered the Whipple was an encouraging sign for the future. He died so quickly, your head must be in a whirl. Sending love x

notapizzaeater · 27/01/2025 19:44

I'm so sorry to read this. Cancer is a really horrible disease.

GinandGingerBeer · 27/01/2025 18:49

Oh I am so very sorry to hear this. What a terrible shock. Xx Flowers

blizymitzy · 27/01/2025 18:15

I'm so very sorry Op

ChristmasPudd1990 · 27/01/2025 16:30

Ebabllisstggoffor · 27/01/2025 12:07

He died after having the procedure.

I'm so sorry 😞

whatisforteamum · 27/01/2025 16:29

OP So sorry to read this.
I know from my parents cancer is dreadful.Pancreatic is so quick.

Jabtastic · 27/01/2025 16:19

Dear OP I'm so sorry ❤️ We lost a much loved family member to this cruel cancer. I'm so very sorry for your loss and I send you and your family circle love x

Photodilemmas · 27/01/2025 15:46

Ebabllisstggoffor · 27/01/2025 12:07

He died after having the procedure.

I'm so sorry OP - I had been wondering how you were getting on. Sending hugs 🫂

heldinadream · 27/01/2025 15:41

Oh gosh. I'm so sorry OP. Thank you so much for updating.
I hope you and your family are surrounded by love and support.
💔

Takeoutyourhen · 27/01/2025 15:01

So sorry to hear this OP 🌷

Ebabllisstggoffor · 27/01/2025 14:46

Thank you all, for your kind words. We are still reeling from the shock, quite honestly.

OP posts:
MounjaroOnMyMind · 27/01/2025 14:39

Oh how terrible. I'm so sorry. Flowers

SweetSakura · 27/01/2025 14:36

I am so so sorry to hear this Flowers

mindutopia · 27/01/2025 13:59

I’m so very sorry. How are you doing through all of this?

WalterdelaMare · 27/01/2025 13:49

So sorry, OP. What a terrible thing.

Lanzarotelady · 27/01/2025 13:43

I am so very sorry to hear this, xx sending love x

LushLemonTart · 27/01/2025 13:28

@Ebabllisstggoffor that's awful. So sorry you're going through this and so sudden.