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DH and DS plans

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WindyMillerSmith · 23/11/2024 18:21

AIBU to feel a bit hurt that DH and DS have made plans tonight to game together and haven’t talked to me about whether that’s ok. I’m on my own, yet again while they play together. Feeling a bit sad.

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WindyMillerSmith · 23/11/2024 18:42

shellyleppard · 23/11/2024 18:40

Get an extra controller and join in?? Otherwise I'd enjoy the peace and quiet. Unless they are hogging the television.....

I dont want to game. It’s fine that they are, I just think it would be nice to do something as a family once in a while. It’s just not nice to be completely left out without so much as a ‘we were thinking of gaming, do you mind?’ I feel like I wasn’t even considered.

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TheChosenTwo · 23/11/2024 18:41

Is this a 7 nights a week plan?

WindyMillerSmith · 23/11/2024 18:40

Mylovelygreendress · 23/11/2024 18:38

If they are in the same house you aren’t exactly alone ! Find something else to do or open a bottle of wine and watch a film.
I actually think it’s nice that a Dad and his son share a hobby .

I’m also not stupid. But thanks.

OP posts:
WindyMillerSmith · 23/11/2024 18:40

Pleasegetchristmasoverwith · 23/11/2024 18:36

I take it this is a regular occurance OP?
How old is your DS?

Yes. It is. He’s 12.

OP posts:
shellyleppard · 23/11/2024 18:40

Get an extra controller and join in?? Otherwise I'd enjoy the peace and quiet. Unless they are hogging the television.....

Mylovelygreendress · 23/11/2024 18:38

If they are in the same house you aren’t exactly alone ! Find something else to do or open a bottle of wine and watch a film.
I actually think it’s nice that a Dad and his son share a hobby .

Pleasegetchristmasoverwith · 23/11/2024 18:36

I take it this is a regular occurance OP?
How old is your DS?