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Christmas things not worth doing

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charlieinthehaystack · 23/11/2024 12:49

you know the things you think you have to do then after you think why on earth did i bother?
many a time i have spent hours carefully putting the stickers on toys bikes etc to complete it then two minutes after kids open it all the stickers are ripped off!
you risk life and limb not to mention driving miles to get that toy that your youngster has begged for along with most of the kids in the UK but on Christmas day its played with for 2 minutes then discarded never to be seen again
similar to above you have that one guest you want to impress/who is awkward so you spend ages finding food you know they like at great expense then find out when they visit they no longer like it!

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pinksheetss · 23/11/2024 12:59

Christmas Eve boxes

I think a 1st Dec box is a bit better to get use out of it. Xmas pjamas for Xmas Eve... should be given earlier in the month I think

Eyresandgraces · 23/11/2024 12:58

I would skip Christmas dinner in favour of cold meat with bubble and squeak.

CastleTulipCake · 23/11/2024 12:58

Secret Santa.
I never get anything I like/need/want. Usually sits in a cupboard for months until I take it to a charity shop.
Yet I spend weeks and weeks stressing about what to buy for my person because I want to get them something nice.

Iloveeverycat · 23/11/2024 12:57

I don't get why people do it and didn't do Christmas pj's. Christmas eve boxes, elf on the shelf, inviting people over then complaining they have to do it every year. Loved spending every Christmas with just me hubby and kids. Didn't go visiting others either. You don't HAVE to do anything you don't want to

3luckystars · 23/11/2024 12:56

I never send cards either.

Mince pies, Christmas cake, Christmas pudding ugh!! No thanks, I hate them all.

What is worth doing though is being nice.

Soubriquet · 23/11/2024 12:54

I agree with Elf on the shelf….but at the same time, I actually enjoy seeing what parents come up with! Would never do it myself cos I think it’s a waste of time but still

FanofLeaves · 23/11/2024 12:53

You’ll get some grinch come along and say ‘all of it. We don’t bother anymore’ 🤣🤣

mine would be, Elf in the Shelf. Bloody tedious thing to do every day, I nanny and I’ve lost count of the times I’ve been asked to do this ‘fun’ activity for other people’s children. I refuse to even do it for my own 🤣 I hate that Elf’s stupid face. No child remains excited by it after a week or so.

NagathaCrispy · 23/11/2024 12:52

Sending cards to all and sundry. This year my list is down to 6 (from dozens!!) and the rest are getting a greeting on FB or Watsap.

Needmorelego · 23/11/2024 12:51

Christmas Dinner.
I'd rather have a sandwich and go back to doing more interesting things than a meal.