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To think it is 100% this runner’s fault that I almost hit him?!

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AngeloMysterioso · 22/11/2024 18:45

On my way to pick DS2 up from nursery with DS1 and DS3 up, around 20 past 5 so it’s already dark. There’s a queue to turn at a T junction and a small cul-de-sac on the left so I’d stopped just before the cul-de-sac to let people out/in. A few cars have pulled out so I’m slowly moving forward after checking mirrors when a runner goes diagonally across the road from behind my right, directly in front of another car going the other way and then in front of my car and I have to stamp on my brake so I don’t hit him. He is wearing:

  • trainers- I didn’t see what colour but they definitely weren’t white or anything particularly bright or visible
  • black running leggings and shorts
  • a dark green long sleeved tshirt
  • black gloves
  • a dark grey beanie
  • literally no bright or reflective items of clothing or accessories whatsoever.

After narrowly avoiding him I beeped my horn, at which point he turned around, swore at me and carried on running. I saw him running up and then around the corner, and further down that road I witnessed him running straight across a zebra crossing without pausing at all to make sure there were no cars approaching.

I didn’t hit him. But AIBU to think if I had, it would not have been my fault, given that he was wearing dark clothing and nothing reflective so he was barely visible, and ran straight in front of my car? I mean how fucking stupid can you be?

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Butterworths · 22/11/2024 18:52

All pedestrians should wear hi-vis

Really!?

rockstep · 22/11/2024 18:50

He's an idiot yet they seem to survive!

HappyMuma · 22/11/2024 18:48

The club I run with is constantly reminding people to wear high vis for this very reason, it’s impossible to see people who are dressed in black.

sharpclawedkitten · 22/11/2024 18:48

All pedestrians should wear hi-vis and some runners are really stupid, despite being one myself I get the rage when they run on the roads when there is a pavement!

But beeping your horn doesn't achieve anything and may have annoyed other drivers and pedestrians in the area who start wondering who's beeping who. If you have time to beep you have time to brake. Which you did.

He was a prat - just chalk it up to experience.