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A jury had found Conor McGregor guilty of assault

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Cartwrightandson · 22/11/2024 18:44

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clyrxl00151o

Nikita had such terrible bruising, a paramedic hasn't seen such extensive bruising, she had to have a tampon removed from her cervix, she's had her house/car attacked, mum threatened, intruders broke into her home and tried to stab her bf/ threatening her and her bf he tried to pay her off in 2019 for a million, she said no I want justice.

Conor McGregor wearing a blue shirt, white shirt and black tie. He has light brown short hair and a beard

Woman wins civil rape case against Conor McGregor

A civil action was taken by Nikita Hand who had accused McGregor of raping her in a Dublin hotel in 2018.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clyrxl00151o

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Whothefuckdoesthat · 22/11/2024 21:59

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Right, so your definition of her having power is that she’s unlikely to lose her life? Well that’s a high bar you’re setting right there. She should be happy with that. Never mind that you’ve lost your children, they’re now in the sole care of a violent rapist, you have no home, everyone you know is too afraid to help you and you run the risk of being beaten by an unknown number of violent thugs if they can find you. You’re alive. What more do you want?

Fuck me, some of you have absolutely no idea.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 22/11/2024 21:57

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There's quite a lot a violent rapist with essentially infinite money can do that falls short of murder, but is still very unpleasant.

I've no idea how Dee feels about any of this. Maybe she's fine with it. But it must surely be obvious that she might not be free to leave if that was what she wanted.

almay · 22/11/2024 21:57

AConcernedCitizen · 22/11/2024 20:38

They didn't have enough evidence to take it to trial, and she'd have made a very bad witness in a criminal prosecution.

There was some very incriminating video of her at the hotel immediately after the alleged rape, pestering his friend to go back up to the room with her, which he then did, and they had sex.

She also accused that man of rape, but the jury found that this did not happen.

Likely he'd have gotten off and harmed her chances in a civil case.

No, there was evidence during the trial that his DNA was not found on Nikita so she didn’t have sex with him.

He claimed that to muddy the waters for his mate

SabinaSteele · 22/11/2024 21:54

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Whothefuckdoesthat · 22/11/2024 21:53

LuluBlakey1 · 22/11/2024 20:59

She is not powerless.

What power does she have?

Serious question. If she wants to keep herself and her children safe, what power does she have?

Whothefuckdoesthat · 22/11/2024 21:49

Isittimeformynapyet · 22/11/2024 21:30

@LuluBlakey1 is not a misogynist. You and she have differing opinions, both of which are valid.

I wouldn't be surprised if Dee feels unable to leave him, but she clearly rated him somewhere along line.

Really? The man does something absolutely horrific and puts a rape victim through all sorts of trauma. Yet @LuluBlakey1 writes a single sentence about him and the rest of her post is dedicated to how the women around him are in the wrong. What would you call that if not internalised misogyny? The women didn’t rape anyone. The women didn’t threaten anyone. The women didn’t break anyone’s jaw. They aren’t responsible for what that creature did.

Lallydallydune · 22/11/2024 21:39

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I can't speak for the man but I'd say he'd be the type that would say :
If you leave me you'll never see the kids again - at best
Or
If you leave me I will kill you - at worst.

Nikita hand said that he threatened to kill her if she told anyone.

Lallydallydune · 22/11/2024 21:34

Havalona · 22/11/2024 21:31

There are rumours (rumours I said!) swirling around all over the place about payoffs left right and centre. Amongst other things. People are finding the courage to say things now it seems.

Could get interesting.

Yes that's what I've seen online too. People are finding more courage to speak out about him.
Once one person speaks out, other people will get courage too

DoYouReally · 22/11/2024 21:33

Lallydallydune · 22/11/2024 21:29

Or maybe the DPP was paid off by the multi millionaire...

Not the DPP but the witnesses perhaps.

The other lady who was in the hotel was described as a reluctant witness in court and the other guy was his friend. The security there worked for him.

Evaka · 22/11/2024 21:32

Guy is a fucking lowlife. Watch the statement she made after the verdict. She astonishingly brave.

Havalona · 22/11/2024 21:31

There are rumours (rumours I said!) swirling around all over the place about payoffs left right and centre. Amongst other things. People are finding the courage to say things now it seems.

Could get interesting.

Mebebecat · 22/11/2024 21:30

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Keep the kids, assault her and her parents or who ever she flees to, tarnish her name, impoverish her, rape her, break into her safehouse or pay others to do so, pay her friends to take his side, poison the children against her.... would be my guess for starters.

Lallydallydune · 22/11/2024 21:30

DoYouReally · 22/11/2024 21:27

In Ireland, a criminal case has to be proven beyond reasonable doubt.

A civil case doesn't have as high a threshold and is more akin to judgement on the balance of probability.

The Director of Public Prosecutions (DPP) didn't feel the case would likely meet the threshold required.

I think there's a lot of naivety in relation to his partner Dee. It's not inconceivable to think that she's afraid of a man who has proven to have temper, and history of voilence. He also thinks he is above the law.

She has been with him since her teens, he's all she's ever know and if she leaves him he will be eligible for 50/50 of their 4 kids. Maybe she's thinks she is protecting the kids.

Maybe her self esteem is gone. Maybe it's fear. All I know is that given how he behaves publicly, he's probably worse privately. She knows his associates. She knows he wouldn't take her leaving lightly. I suspect her life isn't an easy one.

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I don't think it's naivety. I think it's that people on here are posting from the UK and just maybe don't have the same knowledge about him that some irish people do.

I live in dublin. I've heard a lot of things about him.

I can see why Dee doesn't leave him, as she is probably afraid for her life.

Isittimeformynapyet · 22/11/2024 21:30

Whothefuckdoesthat · 22/11/2024 20:56

I thought my point was obvious, but your internalised misogyny is obviously so deep that clearly you’re not willing to see anything past his partner.

If you had four children with a frightening and violent man who had enough money to pay for the best lawyers out there, would you leave him and run the risk that your precious babies would be spending 90% of their time being brought up around him and his associates? Would you want them to be pulled out of any private school system so they could go to the local comp and be battered by other kids because of who their dad is? Or would you want to stay so you could protect them as much as possible and minimise any harm he could do?

And she’d be entitled to child support at most; if you think that would be enough to find a home, feed, clothe and educate her children and pay for a lawyer capable of taking on a big city firm, then I don’t know what to say to you other than you don’t have a clue what you’re talking about. And that’s great for you. May you never find yourself in a situation where you have to find out. But you have no idea what’s going on in her head and no room to judge her.

@LuluBlakey1 is not a misogynist. You and she have differing opinions, both of which are valid.

I wouldn't be surprised if Dee feels unable to leave him, but she clearly rated him somewhere along line.

padampada · 22/11/2024 21:30

What a brave woman

Lallydallydune · 22/11/2024 21:29

DoYouReally · 22/11/2024 21:27

In Ireland, a criminal case has to be proven beyond reasonable doubt.

A civil case doesn't have as high a threshold and is more akin to judgement on the balance of probability.

The Director of Public Prosecutions (DPP) didn't feel the case would likely meet the threshold required.

I think there's a lot of naivety in relation to his partner Dee. It's not inconceivable to think that she's afraid of a man who has proven to have temper, and history of voilence. He also thinks he is above the law.

She has been with him since her teens, he's all she's ever know and if she leaves him he will be eligible for 50/50 of their 4 kids. Maybe she's thinks she is protecting the kids.

Maybe her self esteem is gone. Maybe it's fear. All I know is that given how he behaves publicly, he's probably worse privately. She knows his associates. She knows he wouldn't take her leaving lightly. I suspect her life isn't an easy one.

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Or maybe the DPP was paid off by the multi millionaire...

DoYouReally · 22/11/2024 21:27

In Ireland, a criminal case has to be proven beyond reasonable doubt.

A civil case doesn't have as high a threshold and is more akin to judgement on the balance of probability.

The Director of Public Prosecutions (DPP) didn't feel the case would likely meet the threshold required.

I think there's a lot of naivety in relation to his partner Dee. It's not inconceivable to think that she's afraid of a man who has proven to have temper, and history of voilence. He also thinks he is above the law.

She has been with him since her teens, he's all she's ever know and if she leaves him he will be eligible for 50/50 of their 4 kids. Maybe she's thinks she is protecting the kids.

Maybe her self esteem is gone. Maybe it's fear. All I know is that given how he behaves publicly, he's probably worse privately. She knows his associates. She knows he wouldn't take her leaving lightly. I suspect her life isn't an easy one.

Zebedee999 · 22/11/2024 21:27

greengreyblue · 22/11/2024 18:51

Stupid girlfriend draped over him at court. Wake up love!

Yep you can see his sort a mile off but still women are like bees around a honeypot with them. I don't get it. Just a matter of time til the DA starts then they act all surprised. Men like that should be shunned by all women.

Lallydallydune · 22/11/2024 21:23

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Get someone to stab her?

Did you see how Nikita brought conor to court, and then someone broke into nikitas house and stabbed her partner. A bit of a coincidence.

The people that he hangs around with are violent gang members.

SabinaSteele · 22/11/2024 21:20

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Lallydallydune · 22/11/2024 21:20

Patienceinshortsupply · 22/11/2024 21:19

It will be interesting to see if more women come forward now. And it's disgusting that even with her injuries there was no criminal case to answer to.

I felt most concerned for his partner, in truth. He'll be taking this out on her tonight and she looked shellshocked leaving that court today.

I don't think she is free to leave.

Did you see the way he pulled her along roughly on the way into court.

Patienceinshortsupply · 22/11/2024 21:19

It will be interesting to see if more women come forward now. And it's disgusting that even with her injuries there was no criminal case to answer to.

I felt most concerned for his partner, in truth. He'll be taking this out on her tonight and she looked shellshocked leaving that court today.

Flux1 · 22/11/2024 21:16

The DPP didn't progress with a criminal case as it would have required them to prove the allegation to a jury beyond reasonable doubt. The only two witnesses to what happened in the hotel penthouse were supporting McGregor's account - I'm not saying they were paid off......but.....

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 22/11/2024 21:16

Sampler · 22/11/2024 20:01

He’ll keep on going and earning money - look at all the other rich incels about now, surprised Dior haven’t offered him an ad yet 🙄

I'm not. He's got an incredible ability to make the most expensive clothing look like something off the market. Hopefully that'll keep them away from his door!

EdgeofSeventy · 22/11/2024 21:16

I watch ufc. I watched Saturday night. Rapey Mcgregor was mentioned, but not in any way to do with this case.
I highly doubt the commentator didn't know Rapey was in court.
Seemed in really bad taste imo.
Nobody but Dee knows why she stays. But I can see why she may be afraid to leave.
He's a savage.