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To think something has gone wrong in schools? https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cz0m2x30p4eo

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RebelBabybel · 21/11/2024 17:34

From the BBC : school exclusions have doubled in the last 10 years.

I’ve worked in schools for 30 years : KS1/Early Years.

When I first started I was expected to do : hand written, detailed plans. Assessments. Handwritten reports. I had no TA. I had a blackboard. Children had books. I had to be firm with behaviour, schools had very clear behaviour policies in place, and the head would have an overview, was visible, check classes, be the ‘go to’ person if anything was difficult to manage.

Over the years, particularly in the Early Years things have changed massively.
My latest role has involved a manager who is mostly on the computer and rarely interacts with the children. No planning, no assessment. Resources are put out, but there is an ethos that it’s ‘wrong’ to show the children how to use them. Therefore children don’t use jigsaws as puzzles, they take the pieces out and transport them round the classroom. A doctors role play is set up, but with no input as to what the resources are there are for or how to role play ‘being a doctor’.

There is an expectation, a ‘box’ of what constitutes ‘normal’ behaviour : even with very young children. Any child who is outside this box, is often labelled ‘I think they’ve got autism, I think they’ve got ADHD’ without a formal assessment. These children - rather than getting to know them, or putting clear strategies in place, are quickly labelled as difficult : and fall into a stereotype that causes a negative cycle. There seems to be little ‘fault’ addressed to the teaching style, and the ‘fault??’ is centred on the child, I’d also argue that it is NOT a fault. It’s called being a child.

Children seem to be very readily excluded from schools without the adults fully questioning their teaching style and whether that might be at fault.

To be completely honest, teaching was far easier 30 years ago. Children were better behaved, and there was far better, stronger support from senior management. It felt more like a team, rather than:

an SLT who are in meetings, on a computer, off to conferences, in the staff room, pushing ‘new’ initiatives and criticising their staff.

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RebelBabybel · 23/11/2024 12:06

I’m just following the reports that exclusions are at an all time high. And relating to my experience.

And I think rose tinted specs are better than the black, negative, nothing can be done, doom specs worn by a lot of educators.

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RebelBabybel · 23/11/2024 12:02

1.7% per 10000 in 90’s to 4.3% per 10000 most recent data??

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anonymoususer9876 · 23/11/2024 11:59

"This is true, but being more likely to diagnose won't, on its own, have changed things in schools. If these kids still existed 30 years ago, but undiagnosed (I was one of them!), why is it causing issues in the classroom now we know why they're struggling?" @ThoughtfulSchooldays

I have a small class of 22. In that class I have two highly dyslexic who must use a laptop to write or I can't read their writing. I have two EAL (of which one I suspect is autistic but undiagnosed). I have three with life threatening conditions where they could need an ambulance and be blue lighted to hospital, so their health needs have to be met. They obviously have gaps in their knowledge due to absence related to their conditions. I have a GRT child who also has significant gaps. I have three with diagnosed with ADHD, one is medicated, but meds in short supply so not consistent. I have one child with C&L needs.

I ensure I adapt my classroom as much as possible (task management board, wobble cushions, brain breaks, dyslexia font for displays, coloured paper, seating plan, Zones of emotion...I could keep going!). I buy biscuits for those that need a snack but don't have one. I buy cups for those that don't have drinks bottles.

Two thirds of my class are currently working behind age related expectations. I've had this class since Sept. I feel the pressure from Govt and Ofsted who want more children to leave primary at expected level. I cannot work miracles, I can only try my best, but the pressure on teachers to get children to these levels on a curriculum that isn't suited to all is tough even on the good days. And the bad days, well that's when stuff happens outside of my control where a child is in distress over things at home, or friendships and can become verbally and physically abusive. And that's another day that can set back learning not just for that child but also the class that witness the abuse and need time to settle after.

Sherrystrull · 23/11/2024 11:56

RebelBabybel · 23/11/2024 10:54

I do wonder if we’ve created an us and them mentality over the years.

The rise of SENCO’s, labels for children, plus the EHCP process leads to a siphoning off of the ‘difficult’ children.

Schools want to shine with their results and reputation.
Children with needs are met with negativity from schools and other parents. And it creates a downward spiral.
I think my DC has been more ‘accepted’ because he is fine academically and otherwise quiet and well behaved,

But it absolutely shouldn’t be this way.
30 years ago, we differentiated for children - but there wasn’t this clear segregation in the class of : those are the ‘insert label here’ ones.

They were considered a child worthy of education in a school as much as any other child.

I'm sorry but this is missing the point spectacularly and looking at past schooling with rose tinted glasses. When's the last time you taught?

It's easy to differentiate for one child with additional needs in a class of 24. It's far from easy in a class of 34 when there's 10 children with additional needs.

FrippEnos · 23/11/2024 11:33

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Children today are digital natives and to them it is kind of pointless to learn facts to regurgitate for an exam to then be able to look it up again in a split second. I’m not saying all learning is pointless in school today but certainly the way we measure it has to be modernised. I’d go as far to say this information accessibility is partly what is disengaging young people.

A lot children don't progress "digitally" beyond search engines and games.
Most will just give you the first thing that they find, just a swift copy, paste and done with no critique or thought behind it.
With AI its even worse as the just type in the question and hand in what they get back.

noblegiraffe · 23/11/2024 11:20

BlueSilverCats · 23/11/2024 11:14

And yet 30 years ago there were 12k perm ex children compared to the numbers today. You don't seem to grasp the concept that your experience isn't universally valid or backed by actual numbers or statistics.

Your initial premise is wrong. I actually bothered to research and post the numbers on here and you've ignored that post and keep banging on about the good old days.

You're in a crappy school. Move jobs and you'll probably find what you need.

Yes, odd, isn't it?

ThoughtfulSchooldays · 23/11/2024 11:19

Reugny · 22/11/2024 14:25

There is better diagnosis of conditions - I spoke to a consultant paediatrician about this - and more parents are willing to allow their child to be diagnosed with ND conditions.

I've volunteered on and off with kids since I was a teen, and only in the last decade, give or take a few years, have children or their parents willing have come forward and said they/their child has x. There as before I had my suspicions but the parent has acted like their child was really badly behaved with everyone, when they weren't. I also know a couple of people who didn't get an official diagnosis at primary school as their parents didn't want them "labelled". They subsequently screwed up at secondary school where there was no help for them. Now everyone is trying to get their kids diagnosed asap and particularly before secondary school.

The consultant paediatrician when she just got her role with the team she was in approached primary schools in in the area she worked in to make it easier for them to get pupils get assessed. The schools refused to engage. (This was under Blair's government.) Over a decade later there were large waiting lists for children to see the team she worked in for any reason.

This is true, but being more likely to diagnose won't, on it's own, have changed things in schools. If these kids still existed 30 years ago, but undiagnosed (I was one of them!), why is it causing issues in the classroom now we know why they're struggling?

BlueSilverCats · 23/11/2024 11:14

RebelBabybel · 23/11/2024 10:54

I do wonder if we’ve created an us and them mentality over the years.

The rise of SENCO’s, labels for children, plus the EHCP process leads to a siphoning off of the ‘difficult’ children.

Schools want to shine with their results and reputation.
Children with needs are met with negativity from schools and other parents. And it creates a downward spiral.
I think my DC has been more ‘accepted’ because he is fine academically and otherwise quiet and well behaved,

But it absolutely shouldn’t be this way.
30 years ago, we differentiated for children - but there wasn’t this clear segregation in the class of : those are the ‘insert label here’ ones.

They were considered a child worthy of education in a school as much as any other child.

And yet 30 years ago there were 12k perm ex children compared to the numbers today. You don't seem to grasp the concept that your experience isn't universally valid or backed by actual numbers or statistics.

Your initial premise is wrong. I actually bothered to research and post the numbers on here and you've ignored that post and keep banging on about the good old days.

You're in a crappy school. Move jobs and you'll probably find what you need.

RebelBabybel · 23/11/2024 11:08

I’ll also give another example.

A friend of mine teaches a specific activity in a school.
A child with additional needs Mum asked if her DC could join the activity.
School staff said : she won’t be able to do it.
Friend researched possible adaptations.

Child now joins the activity and enjoys it.

To me that just illustrates the enormous difference a positive, let’s try, can do attitude makes. Yet : my friend was in the minority opinion in the school.

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wellington77 · 23/11/2024 10:56

BlueSilverCats · 23/11/2024 10:04

@wellington77 I didn't ask you to justify yourself, or specific details on that incident.

I was replying to this comment of yours.

Exactly! My parents were the same! I wouldn’t even think the teacher would have marked it wrong. They are the expert not the kid

My comment stands

RebelBabybel · 23/11/2024 10:54

I do wonder if we’ve created an us and them mentality over the years.

The rise of SENCO’s, labels for children, plus the EHCP process leads to a siphoning off of the ‘difficult’ children.

Schools want to shine with their results and reputation.
Children with needs are met with negativity from schools and other parents. And it creates a downward spiral.
I think my DC has been more ‘accepted’ because he is fine academically and otherwise quiet and well behaved,

But it absolutely shouldn’t be this way.
30 years ago, we differentiated for children - but there wasn’t this clear segregation in the class of : those are the ‘insert label here’ ones.

They were considered a child worthy of education in a school as much as any other child.

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noblegiraffe · 23/11/2024 10:48

Also this. Local Authorities deliberately break the law and deny children their legal right to education in order to save money. They are losing 98% of tribunals for EHCPs so it's quite clear that they are denying them to children that they know should have one: that is far above the level that could possibly result from genuine error

And this is because councils are going bankrupt over the costs. It's not just to 'save money', it's because they don't have it.

In the meantime everyone else is paying shedloads of council tax and wondering where it is all going because public services like libraries are closing down, potholes aren't being filled and bin collections are being reduced.

Something drastic needs to happen about SEN funding because the current system is failing everyone.

RebelBabybel · 23/11/2024 10:43

@LemonadeCrayon

Agree, and I quite often see that Animal Farm mentality at the top. They ‘avoid’ the difficult situations, the discipline, the cohesiveness, the actual teaching - while swiftly avoiding any elephants in the room. If a teacher was out, the head used to cover the class. Now heads get their TA’s to do it. Their focus seems to be on new initiatives, meetings, computer based activities and discussions in their SLT huddle.

I was totally shocked by the negative cloud that hit my DC with a EHCP before he’d even started reception. Not from preschool, but from mainstream schooling.

And you are completely right about LA’s breaking the law and saving money. It causes a situation where the persistent parents win, and those who don’t fight lose.

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LemonadeCrayon · 23/11/2024 10:23

Her ego was more important than the child’s well being.

This has been exactly my experience as a parent with a SENCO and Headteacher. The class teachers and TAs are fantastic but the SENCO and Head are toxic and incompetent and not fit to have children in their care.

And things are also utterly toxic at Local Authority level where the rhetoric seems to be to apply incredible financial burdens on schools, fail to meet their duties both to schools and to children, and then blame the parents.

Also this. Local Authorities deliberately break the law and deny children their legal right to education in order to save money. They are losing 98% of tribunals for EHCPs so it's quite clear that they are denying them to children that they know should have one: that is far above the level that could possibly result from genuine error. It is a deliberate policy to save money knowing the catastrophic harm this causes both to the children with SEN and to the other children whose learning is disrupted. And then they try to blame the child or the parent for the entirely predictable outcome of their behaviour.

It is a complete shitshow and education funding needs to be doubled, class sizes halved. This would pay for itself given the long-term costs that will be incurred as a direct result of the shambles that pretends to be an education system.

BlueSilverCats · 23/11/2024 10:04

@wellington77 I didn't ask you to justify yourself, or specific details on that incident.

I was replying to this comment of yours.

Exactly! My parents were the same! I wouldn’t even think the teacher would have marked it wrong. They are the expert not the kid

Pussycat22 · 23/11/2024 10:03

No discipline either. The kids know this and have the 'You can't touch me mindset.'Spills over into adult life and creates adults who think they can do as they like without cconsequences.

wellington77 · 23/11/2024 09:55

BlueSilverCats · 22/11/2024 16:35

@wellington77 sometimes teachers do get it wrong though.

DD had two questions marked wrong on her test. I encouraged her to POLITELY talk to the teacher and ask for clarification. She got the one mark and the other the teacher agreed that while technically right, it didn't match the scheme so she couldn't award it to her and explained how to get that particular answer. Now she knows for next time, whereas if she hadn't asked she would've kept getting it wrong.

Teachers are humans , they will make mistakes. They're not infallible and they don't actually know everything. No one does.It happens, it's not the end of the world. As for experts, given the cuts, you'll find the expert being a TA or the PE teacher teaching Maths or English or Science.

She wrote 5 lines for the whole test. I scored it 0. I am her teacher and I always polite thankyou. Can’t even believe I’m having to justify myself!

BlueSilverCats · 23/11/2024 09:31

IdylicDay · 23/11/2024 04:28

Lack of discipline, the removal of physical discipline especially. A very predictable result of a failed social experiment to remove it. France where physical discipline is still very much a thing don't have this problem and the behavioural difference (children sitting quietly at the table in restaurants etc, silent, no speaking back or tantrums in public) is a complete 180. Clutch your pearls at this all you want, I am not arguing for or against, just saying the facts are there, and it is what it is.

The most unmanageable kids at my school are the ones who get hit at home.

OonaStubbs · 23/11/2024 08:14

Schools and parenting need to go back to basics. Chalk and talk, and the 3 Rs at school, and sending kids out to play, and giving them the slipper at home.

Superhansrantowindsor · 23/11/2024 06:25

IdylicDay · 23/11/2024 04:28

Lack of discipline, the removal of physical discipline especially. A very predictable result of a failed social experiment to remove it. France where physical discipline is still very much a thing don't have this problem and the behavioural difference (children sitting quietly at the table in restaurants etc, silent, no speaking back or tantrums in public) is a complete 180. Clutch your pearls at this all you want, I am not arguing for or against, just saying the facts are there, and it is what it is.

Lack of discipline yes but I have never used physical punishment on my kids and they always behaved very well. I was smacked as a child. I think it was very damaging to me emotionally. Good behaviour can be achieved without resorting to physical punishment. Most important is having sanctions you follow through imo.

IdylicDay · 23/11/2024 04:28

Lack of discipline, the removal of physical discipline especially. A very predictable result of a failed social experiment to remove it. France where physical discipline is still very much a thing don't have this problem and the behavioural difference (children sitting quietly at the table in restaurants etc, silent, no speaking back or tantrums in public) is a complete 180. Clutch your pearls at this all you want, I am not arguing for or against, just saying the facts are there, and it is what it is.

JMSA · 23/11/2024 02:06

It's nuts. I work in a secondary school (there's pretty much a zero exclusion policy here in Scotland). There's a minority of kids who don't attend class but wander about the school, sometimes causing havoc. Nothing we can do.
We have swung SO far the other way in our treatment of children and will live to regret it.

ChaChaChooey · 23/11/2024 01:29

NeelyOHara1 · 22/11/2024 19:12

On a sidenote, I was just thinking the other day that the age old question of 'what's the point of my learning about x,y,z', has been made even harder to answer, by children having a source of information about pretty much everything, in a small device in their hands...

I usually answer ‘brain development!’

Works for most subject areas including stuff that a lot of teens see as a waste of time (eg Algebra or musical instrument practice or PE or a MFL from a country they have no interest in ever visiting).

When I was a kid I knew maybe 10 or 15 different phone numbers off by heart so I could use a telephone kiosk or a friend’s parent’s landline. I’d get 6 books from the library on Saturday morning (while my mum shopped in Prestos) and read them all by Sunday, I’d listen to 5 -6 whole tracks on a record or cassette before turning it over and listening to the 5-6 more on the B side. We used to watch an episode of a live show at the scheduled time and be able to discuss it with our class mates next day.

I observe kids and teens now and they listen to three quarters of a Spotify track before skipping to the next random track, no one remembers more than 2 or 3 phone numbers and reading a whole book chapter by chapter has been replaced by doomscrolling snippets of opinion. The Netflix algorithm (and many others) serves up what it anticipatee you will like and it may well be right but it’s likely completely different to what it’s serving up to your sister and your best friend.

It must be changing the way kids brains develop - how could it not? Best keep learning the Algebra and memorising French vocab lest our brains become incapable of simple adulting tasks, like making a phone call or walking to a friend’s house without Siri telling us when to take a left turn.