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To ask you about your partner's pants

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TheTwirlyPoos · 20/11/2024 21:53

Right. DH has asked me to ask this

Does you DH/ partner whatever go commando when they are in normal everyday clothes?

YABU - yes they do and it's normal
YANBU - no that's odd

Totally lighthearted!

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RockyFowlboa · 21/11/2024 21:50

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 21/11/2024 13:05

You could wash one or two pairs of trousers a week plus seven pairs of knickers, or seven pairs of trousers. Seven pairs of trousers is a lot more by volume and weight so is more washing.

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You wear the same two pairs of trousers a collective total of 7 times a week!? Don't you sweat in them?

I could never. For me, it's 7 bottoms and 7 pairs of undies, or 7 bottoms and no undies (unless needed)

Futurethinking2026 · 21/11/2024 21:49

SmalllChange · 20/11/2024 22:05

They'd have to be some heavy duty pants to protect him from that.

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This made me laugh wayyy more than it should have.

RockyFowlboa · 21/11/2024 21:47

KStockHERO · 21/11/2024 13:19

Because vaginas leak juices.
Because having trouser material rubbing on your minge isn't ideal.

JFC.

OP - My DP wears boxers in the day. Specifically Saxx boxers which tuck all the gubbins in a nice little pouch. He sleeps naked.
No pants = instant ick. Pervert vibes.

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I guess my vaginal secretions aren't as precipitous as others', because I don't leak through my skirts/trousers. (With the exception of times when I'm bleeding/ovulating, but then of course I don undies and a sanitary pad.) I wash bottoms in between wears.

With looser bottoms, it feels better to go without fabric against the coochie. but to each their own, I guess.

RockyFowlboa · 21/11/2024 21:43

sweetpickle2 · 21/11/2024 16:59

Does that mean you don't wash your trousers every day even though you have your genitals on them?

I'm not clean freak but that is minging sorry.

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I usually wear my trousers/skirts once and then I wash them in between, with the exception of jeans (with which I wear underpants.)

thiswaypleasethankyou · 21/11/2024 17:05

DH would be horrified by this idea!

Stickthatupyourdojo · 21/11/2024 17:03

Porcelainpig · 21/11/2024 16:54

His balls go commando, judging by the holes in the gusset. Best of both worlds I guess. 😂

GrinGrinGrin

My ex didn't wear pants. In hindsight I should have taken that as the first red flag.

sweetpickle2 · 21/11/2024 16:59

RockyFowlboa · 21/11/2024 12:58

They just aren't necessary except in certain situations. That's just more laundry to do. Plus if you're wearing even moderately tight trousers, then you get panty lines.

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Does that mean you don't wash your trousers every day even though you have your genitals on them?

I'm not clean freak but that is minging sorry.

Porcelainpig · 21/11/2024 16:54

His balls go commando, judging by the holes in the gusset. Best of both worlds I guess. 😂

Jazz7 · 21/11/2024 16:51

DH is ex commando and says they wear pants in the field for hygiene reasons. Have to stay well. Also wears them day to day for same reason. No idea where expression came from

YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 21/11/2024 16:51

No!! 🤢

Bigearringsbigsmile · 21/11/2024 16:47

KStockHERO · 21/11/2024 13:19

Because vaginas leak juices.
Because having trouser material rubbing on your minge isn't ideal.

JFC.

OP - My DP wears boxers in the day. Specifically Saxx boxers which tuck all the gubbins in a nice little pouch. He sleeps naked.
No pants = instant ick. Pervert vibes.

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This!

KStockHERO · 21/11/2024 13:19

RockyFowlboa · 21/11/2024 13:02

People keep saying that but not why

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Because vaginas leak juices.
Because having trouser material rubbing on your minge isn't ideal.

JFC.

OP - My DP wears boxers in the day. Specifically Saxx boxers which tuck all the gubbins in a nice little pouch. He sleeps naked.
No pants = instant ick. Pervert vibes.

randomchap · 21/11/2024 13:19

Absolutely not

Going commando is just fucking odd

Dangerous too with zip flies

BeensOnToost · 21/11/2024 13:11

This makes me think of those repulsive men who wear jogging bottoms with no pants and you can see their cocks through their trousers. It's like getting an unwanted dick pic 🤮

Even worse when you see them rummaging down there.

Mischance · 21/11/2024 13:11

Post pee dribbles and skid marks - on his TROUSERS!! What can he be thinking of? It is gross - I'd divorce him.

fantasmasgoria1 · 21/11/2024 13:10

My husband wears trunk boxers. He said he would never go commando as he says it would be uncomfortable . He likes to feel supported!

nam3c4ang3 · 21/11/2024 13:07

ewwww his trousers must smell of bum and willy. GROSS op. 😂😱

BarbedButterfly · 21/11/2024 13:07

He does go commando on occasion. I only wear undies if I am wearing a skirt. It is a sensory thing for me, can't stand the feeling under trousers. We both sleep naked.

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 21/11/2024 13:05

RockyFowlboa · 21/11/2024 12:58

They just aren't necessary except in certain situations. That's just more laundry to do. Plus if you're wearing even moderately tight trousers, then you get panty lines.

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You could wash one or two pairs of trousers a week plus seven pairs of knickers, or seven pairs of trousers. Seven pairs of trousers is a lot more by volume and weight so is more washing.

RockyFowlboa · 21/11/2024 13:02

Bigearringsbigsmile · 21/11/2024 13:00

Knickers/pants absolutely are essential and not wearing them is an abomination

People keep saying that but not why

StrawberryWater · 21/11/2024 13:01

No.

My husband says he hates his wang touching the seam of his trousers. He likes to wear undies.

MrsSkylerWhite · 21/11/2024 13:01

No

Bigearringsbigsmile · 21/11/2024 13:00

Knickers/pants absolutely are essential and not wearing them is an abomination

RockyFowlboa · 21/11/2024 12:58

sweetpickle2 · 21/11/2024 10:55

Aside from being caught short (all your pants are in the wash, you have an accident while out and about) I can't imagine why on earth anyone would choose to go commando, let alone on a regular basis.

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They just aren't necessary except in certain situations. That's just more laundry to do. Plus if you're wearing even moderately tight trousers, then you get panty lines.

RockyFowlboa · 21/11/2024 12:56

Bigearringsbigsmile · 21/11/2024 10:22

You don't wear knickers? 🤢

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Why the nauseated emoji? It's not like I'm walking around without any bottoms entirely. There's fabric between my body and the places I sit.

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