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To use Hot Chocolate as my main drink instead of coffee?

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DayInTheLifeOfaMum · 20/11/2024 18:25

For background I don’t like coffee, I can’t stand the taste of it unfortunately, I wish I liked coffee but I just don’t. Since being a mum I’ve ended up drinking Hot Chocolate in the same way that some people drink Coffee, multiple times a day, at both home and work. I feel like my hot chocolates make me more awake and more alert in the same way that coffee does that for some people, I just can’t stand the taste of coffee though. DH reckons I should stop drinking hot chocolate like this, but he drinks multiple coffees a day which is not much different as I’m using hot chocolate to feel more alert and more awake which is the same thing that he uses coffees for! AIBU to use hot chocolates as my main drink instead of coffees?

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SnowLeopard5 · 20/11/2024 20:19

Probably quite a lot of sugar like others have said. You could try wean yourself off needing it. Easier said than done I know but I weaned myself off coffee (just one a day now) and feel so much better for it, although it was hard initially. Your body will get used to not having the high amounts of sugar in it eventually and you may feel better for it. Drink lots of water and get some fresh air to feel awake if you can. If that fails maybe go see your GP about any deficiency if you're feeling as tired as you said you feel.

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 20/11/2024 20:18

Cacao powder in the purest form is great. Quite nutritious has a lot of good minerals in. I use organic cacao powder and milk and it is delicious. Proper hot chocolate I'd say is this, not that processed crap full of sugar. Although it's possibly still quite high in carbs so not that great for you in that respect.

Wonderi · 20/11/2024 20:18

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Baby adult doesn’t even make sense.

I hope there are no babies drinking hot chocolate anyway.
Maybe yours did.

As an adult you can drink and eat whatever you want and unless you’re drinking it out of a baby’s bottle, then it’s not babyish.

I wouldn’t drink hot chocolate all day because of the calories and it would make me feel sick but if I wanted to then I would.

Your attitude is the most childish thing on this thread.

ReadWithScepticism · 20/11/2024 20:18

I often have hot chocolate made with just cocoa powder, a dash of salt, and water topped up with milk.

The salt makes all the difference and means that you don't feel the need for sugar.

Once you take sugar out of the equation, cocoa is a great coffee alternative. Not otherwise.

NoneGiven · 20/11/2024 20:17

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Schleep · 20/11/2024 20:16

saraclara · 20/11/2024 20:15

Forgot to add this

And those stats are for a small/regular cost drink - the large ones are 500ml, so add another 30%

Schleep · 20/11/2024 20:15

PeloMom · 20/11/2024 18:56

Whatever works for you. People saying it’s high in sugar and fat- what about those who drink at least one of those Starbucks ‘coffees’ daily that are full of syrups, cream and what not, many over 3-400 cal per drink?

That's the point - a hot chocolate is the equivalent to one of those drinks and she's having multiple a day

saraclara · 20/11/2024 20:15

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To use Hot Chocolate as my main drink instead of coffee?
saraclara · 20/11/2024 20:14

Hot chocolate is as unhealthy as it gets. It's full of sugar and saturated fat, which is the worst kind. Your basically eating a bar of chocolate when you have a hot chocolate.

Three medium Costa hot chocolates take you to 150% of your recommended daily intake of sugar and 120% of your saturated fats RDA - without any other food or drink being consumed all day.

So yes, you need to find another pick me up if you don't want diabetes and high cholesterol leading to furred up arteries.

PinotPony · 20/11/2024 20:14

Sounds like a great way to get diabetes

LBFseBrom · 20/11/2024 20:10

It doesn't matter what you drink but multiple times.a day is not doing you any good, far too sugary.

Why worry about not liking coffee? You can have tea or a soft drink - even water.

Schleep · 20/11/2024 20:10

One hot chocolate is more sugar than is advised for an adult to consume in a day.

It's going to be a bitch of a habit to give up unfortunately - multiple a day means your body is now reliant on the stuff.
Stock up on paracetamol for the headaches and start weaning yourself off.

SisyphusDad · 20/11/2024 20:10

How can you possibly be unreasonable?

bruffin · 20/11/2024 20:09

StormingNorman · 20/11/2024 18:52

The awake feeling is probably a sugar rush. As others have said, hot chocolate is typically higher in calories and sugar.

Lots of coffee shop coffees are hundreds of calories too so I wouldn’t necessarily think that’s why it’s seen differently.

I think of hot chocolate as a child’s drink. Maybe that’s why he sees it as being different to coffee?

Sugar rush does not exist, there is no mechanism in the body for that to happen.its like expecting a car with a full tank of petrol to go faster than a car with a quarter tank. If anything sugar makes you feel tired and sleepy.

GroovyChick87 · 20/11/2024 20:08

It's got way more calories in it than standard tea or coffee so it wouldn't be for me. If you only drink a couple of hot drinks a day then it's fine.

pooballs · 20/11/2024 20:08

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Agree with this! (I know I’m BU)
It reminds me of when little kids drink ribena from a wine glass pretending it’s alcohol. Just have a tea or coffee like an adult or drink something cold. Drinking multiple hot chocolates a day isn’t normal.

DeanElderberry · 20/11/2024 20:08

For my mid morning hot drink I have cocoa, made with hot water and topped up with the same quantity of milk I'd put in tea. No sugar. So it has a little more fat that tea or coffee, but lots of flavonoids from the cocoa solids.

I do drink a lot of tea, but like you I dislike coffee.

Unless your hot chocolate is having any bad effects on your general health, drink what you enjoy.

Mostlyoblivious · 20/11/2024 20:08

DayInTheLifeOfaMum · 20/11/2024 18:36

Because he doesn’t believe it helps keep me awake/alert like coffee does for him. And also he says it’s apparently “different” to how he and other people have multiple coffees a day!

Blood sugar dips?

Schleep · 20/11/2024 20:07

34g of sugar in a 300ml cadbury's hot chocolate (more in a costa/starbucks)

30g in 300ml of red bull
33g in 300ml of coca cola
32g in 300ml of lemonade
12g in 300ml of ribena
14g in 300ml of irn bru

RedToothBrush · 20/11/2024 20:07

DayInTheLifeOfaMum · 20/11/2024 18:36

Because he doesn’t believe it helps keep me awake/alert like coffee does for him. And also he says it’s apparently “different” to how he and other people have multiple coffees a day!

Kombucha?

I hate coffee. Don't like tea. Don't like coke.

Plenty of flavours to pick from.

Lidl had some cheap bottles on offer last week for their Japanese week which they will probably still have in stock. Two flavours.

Netcam · 20/11/2024 20:06

Friendofdennis · 20/11/2024 20:00

If you can wean yourself off the sugary hot chocolates and make one with proper cacao powder and milk it is much better and tastes amazing

Exactly

Sleepysleepycoffeecoffee · 20/11/2024 20:06

DayInTheLifeOfaMum · 20/11/2024 18:25

For background I don’t like coffee, I can’t stand the taste of it unfortunately, I wish I liked coffee but I just don’t. Since being a mum I’ve ended up drinking Hot Chocolate in the same way that some people drink Coffee, multiple times a day, at both home and work. I feel like my hot chocolates make me more awake and more alert in the same way that coffee does that for some people, I just can’t stand the taste of coffee though. DH reckons I should stop drinking hot chocolate like this, but he drinks multiple coffees a day which is not much different as I’m using hot chocolate to feel more alert and more awake which is the same thing that he uses coffees for! AIBU to use hot chocolates as my main drink instead of coffees?

I think you’re probably guzzling hot chocolate because you’re addicted to the sugar in them. I could drink several a day too, because some are so tasty, but I don’t simply because of the amount of sugar (which I’d rather have in an actual chocolate bar!). I definitely don’t think you are being unreasonable though, just picked up a bad habit ☺️

Netcam · 20/11/2024 20:05

It depends on the hot chocolate. I make hot chocolate with skimmed milk and a teaspoon of cacao powder. I make it in our induction milk heater/frother. No added sugar and I don't feel I need it, plus the skimmed milk means it's low in saturated fat. I like coffee too, but sometimes hot chocolate is nice.

crostini · 20/11/2024 20:05

Yeah if you want to gain a ton of weight?

And I think it probably a placebo anyway. I doubt hot chocolate actually keeps you alert or awake. If anything it's known as a bedtime drink.

geoger · 20/11/2024 20:03

That’s a lot of sugar in one day. I rarely drink hot chocolate as I don’t like sweetened drinks . I love a cup of tea with just a splash of milk.
Could you not have green tea instead? I also find drinking lots of water keeps me alert and awake