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To use Hot Chocolate as my main drink instead of coffee?

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DayInTheLifeOfaMum · 20/11/2024 18:25

For background I don’t like coffee, I can’t stand the taste of it unfortunately, I wish I liked coffee but I just don’t. Since being a mum I’ve ended up drinking Hot Chocolate in the same way that some people drink Coffee, multiple times a day, at both home and work. I feel like my hot chocolates make me more awake and more alert in the same way that coffee does that for some people, I just can’t stand the taste of coffee though. DH reckons I should stop drinking hot chocolate like this, but he drinks multiple coffees a day which is not much different as I’m using hot chocolate to feel more alert and more awake which is the same thing that he uses coffees for! AIBU to use hot chocolates as my main drink instead of coffees?

OP posts:
MrsForgetalot · 20/11/2024 20:41

If you need multiple hot beverages to feel alert then it’s worth trying to address the problem. Are you getting enough sleep? Getting outside into sunlight in the morning will help your circadian rhythm if you find it hard to get to sleep at night. Get the mobile out of the bedroom!
Are you drinking enough water? Try having a glass of water before each hot chocolate, for a week. You’ll probably find you’re thirstier than you realise and you can’t really satiate thirst with sugary milk.
Cutting back on sugar and white carbs will do wonders for your energy levels. That’s a big step, but something to bear in mind. Try increasing the water consumption first though because it makes it easier. Then try having a healthier snack too before the hot chocolate, and gradually ease back.

I weaned myself off a 7 coffee a day habit and found I stopped having fatigue and energy slumps - caffeine contributes to some of the problems it’s supposed to fix.

GinForBreakfast · 20/11/2024 20:40

Sounds like you're drinking about 1000 calories a day. Unless you're an Ironman triathlete you're going to get quite fat quite quickly.

NerdWhoEatsMedlar · 20/11/2024 20:40

ShinyPebble32 · 20/11/2024 20:31

Bloody hell, it’s hot chocolate, not cocaine! 🤣🤣 your post made me chuckle as it did sound like you were talking about something much naughtier. Yes it’s very sweet, but it won’t do you any more harm than a coffee with sugar in, which I’m sure many people have throughout the day. Drinking more than one or two coffees a day is bad for the hormones anyway, so it’s no worse as it has less caffeine.
I don’t have sweet tooth, but I must admit I’m becoming very partial to the Cadbury’s choc orange pods that you can get for the Tassimo. Try those, you won’t regret it! 😊

Is coke high carb / cal ?

Op probably just needs to communicate with her DP and work out that awful shift pattern that many parents use to allow for enough sleep.
Ultimately sleep beat caffeine.

Bogginsthe3rd · 20/11/2024 20:40

DayInTheLifeOfaMum · 20/11/2024 18:33

For those asking what type of hot chocolates, I drink a mix of Costa hot chocolates, hot chocolates from other coffee shops. Instant hot chocolates at home/powder hot chocolates and hot chocolates from the machine that we have at work.

This is a huge daily sugar load. Risking diabetes really (and tooth decay). I would agree with your DH

Pickles001 · 20/11/2024 20:37

Hot Chocolate
Health Benefits:

  • Mood Booster: Cocoa contains compounds like theobromine and phenylethylamine, which can improve mood and relaxation.
  • Milk: Adds valuable calcium and protein.
Potential Concerns:
  • Sugar Content: Many hot chocolate mixes are high in added sugars and calories. A typical serving could contain 15–25 grams of sugar, which is close to or exceeds the recommended daily limit (25 grams for women, 36 grams for men, according to the American Heart Association).
  • Low Nutritional Value: Commercial hot chocolate often lacks the nutrients found in pure dark chocolate or raw cocoa.
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ShinyPebble32 · 20/11/2024 20:36

PS there’s a fantastic Instagrammer called Healthy Family Food ideas who does a fantastic, no-nasties healthy hot chocolate recipe that contains collagen etc, so you could have that for your home ones at least!

Pickles001 · 20/11/2024 20:35

My Drinks

Tea , milk no sugar (primary) average 8-10 cups a day
Coffee milky 2/3 sugars (now and then) average one every 3-4 days
Hot chocolate (usually a rarity or once a week as and when) usually once a week

Schleep · 20/11/2024 20:35

Could you drink hot milk with some nutmeg/cinnamon instead?

Dita73 · 20/11/2024 20:35

Have a glass of water and a pro plus. Way too much sugar and fat

recipientofraspberries · 20/11/2024 20:34

ShinyPebble32 · 20/11/2024 20:31

Bloody hell, it’s hot chocolate, not cocaine! 🤣🤣 your post made me chuckle as it did sound like you were talking about something much naughtier. Yes it’s very sweet, but it won’t do you any more harm than a coffee with sugar in, which I’m sure many people have throughout the day. Drinking more than one or two coffees a day is bad for the hormones anyway, so it’s no worse as it has less caffeine.
I don’t have sweet tooth, but I must admit I’m becoming very partial to the Cadbury’s choc orange pods that you can get for the Tassimo. Try those, you won’t regret it! 😊

The type of hot chocolates OP is drinking contain a hell of a lot more sugar and calories than a coffee/tea with a tsp of sugar in.

Schleep · 20/11/2024 20:34

ShinyPebble32 · 20/11/2024 20:31

Bloody hell, it’s hot chocolate, not cocaine! 🤣🤣 your post made me chuckle as it did sound like you were talking about something much naughtier. Yes it’s very sweet, but it won’t do you any more harm than a coffee with sugar in, which I’m sure many people have throughout the day. Drinking more than one or two coffees a day is bad for the hormones anyway, so it’s no worse as it has less caffeine.
I don’t have sweet tooth, but I must admit I’m becoming very partial to the Cadbury’s choc orange pods that you can get for the Tassimo. Try those, you won’t regret it! 😊

A hot chocolate has 8.5 times as much sugar in it than a tea with a spoon of sugar. So yes, it will do more harm.

peekaboopumpkin · 20/11/2024 20:33

DayInTheLifeOfaMum · 20/11/2024 18:36

I don’t really like tea much either unfortunately.

You can get chocolate flavoured "teas", Pukka do one, they are nice with milk.

I treat hot chocolate more as a dessert than a drink so I would find it weird to drink more than one a day.

WinterBones · 20/11/2024 20:31

i used to LOATHE coffee, would drink tea but could take it or leave it (still the same now) but love hot chocolate.

I wouldn't recommend drinking it like you would coffee, the sugar/fat content in it isn't great.. if you use a high quality cocoa powder with semi skimmed milk it is a little better, but not much.

You'd be better off finding a tea you like the flavour of, like green tea, or a fruit tea. There's companies like Bird & Blend that do some lovely blends with chocolate and fruit flavours in!

My other go-to is i like blackcurrant, so i sometimes just drink hot ribena

I LOVE coffee now, i came to it by way of liking iced caramel latte, then trying hot caramel latte, then adjusting the syrup. I can now drink coffee black/no sugar but don't do it often i must admit!!

BunnyLake · 20/11/2024 20:31

saraclara · 20/11/2024 20:15

Forgot to add this

That’s a lot of sugar 😬

ShinyPebble32 · 20/11/2024 20:31

Bloody hell, it’s hot chocolate, not cocaine! 🤣🤣 your post made me chuckle as it did sound like you were talking about something much naughtier. Yes it’s very sweet, but it won’t do you any more harm than a coffee with sugar in, which I’m sure many people have throughout the day. Drinking more than one or two coffees a day is bad for the hormones anyway, so it’s no worse as it has less caffeine.
I don’t have sweet tooth, but I must admit I’m becoming very partial to the Cadbury’s choc orange pods that you can get for the Tassimo. Try those, you won’t regret it! 😊

Hunglikeapolevaulter · 20/11/2024 20:30

What is the difference between cacao powder and cocoa powder (other than the stonking price markup)?

With cacao the beans are sun dried not roasted, and the powder isn't dutched (alkaliser added) so they're considered a bit less processed.

Notcontent · 20/11/2024 20:30

DayInTheLifeOfaMum · 20/11/2024 18:33

For those asking what type of hot chocolates, I drink a mix of Costa hot chocolates, hot chocolates from other coffee shops. Instant hot chocolates at home/powder hot chocolates and hot chocolates from the machine that we have at work.

That’s a huge amount of sugar on a daily basis (and fat).

most people who drink coffee are not having multiple lattes with sugar.

WimpoleHat · 20/11/2024 20:30

And also he says it’s apparently “different” to how he and other people have multiple coffees a day!

I agree with him (at least, I am if he’s talking about filter coffee rather than pumpkin spice latte with cream on top). Hot chocolate is very nice - but it contains a lot of sugar and calories. It’s the difference between several Diet Cokes and several ice cream milkshakes; they’re both drinks which aren’t the healthiest, but drinking one is going to make you put on a lot of weight.

whynotwhatknot · 20/11/2024 20:29

i think its too much an im a chocoholic i feel bad if i have 2 bars of someting a day le alone drinking hot choolate multiple times a day

Blarn · 20/11/2024 20:25

Having multiple a day is a lot of sugar and calories (and I do not shy away from sugar!) I enjoy coffee but when dc were very little I added pro-plus into my day.

whatkatydid2014 · 20/11/2024 20:24

Littlemisscapable · 20/11/2024 18:39

Again tea ? Don't think multiple hot chocolates is a good idea. Hot water and lemon ? Hot water and add some cordial (those little squeezy bottles you can carry about )

This - I don’t like tea or coffee. Hot squash is a decent alternative.

viques · 20/11/2024 20:21

Why do you feel you need to keep “awake and alert”, and need drinks to keep you feeling that way? Are you doing 15 hour shifts in a nuclear processing facility! You would be better off making sure you had enough sleep and taking regular short fresh air breaks to keep yourself awake and alert.

Blondeshavemorefun · 20/11/2024 20:20

Ah gotcha. The other couple are 2013

Def more interesting then 2021 couple

ReadWithScepticism · 20/11/2024 20:20

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 20/11/2024 20:18

Cacao powder in the purest form is great. Quite nutritious has a lot of good minerals in. I use organic cacao powder and milk and it is delicious. Proper hot chocolate I'd say is this, not that processed crap full of sugar. Although it's possibly still quite high in carbs so not that great for you in that respect.

What is the difference between cacao powder and cocoa powder (other than the stonking price markup)?