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For asking colleague to stop clipping his nails in the office?

36 replies

MillenialAvocado · 20/11/2024 16:31

Just that, really.
I don't think I was rude, just said something along the lines of, "Joe, can you please not do that here?" He ignored me and carried on, saying, "I'm only cutting my nails". I then said, "Can you please do that in the bathroom? It's really antisocial to do that here." He then walked out in a bit of a huff.
Was I BU?

OP posts:
username358 · 20/11/2024 16:59

What is wrong with some people? If he's so desperate to clip his nails, why can't he wait till lunch time?

fivebyfivebuffy · 20/11/2024 16:43

I've filed a nail at my desk when it's broken but that somehow seems different
Maybe as it's like a 5 second job rather than doing all my nails?

tinydynamine · 20/11/2024 16:42

Why doesn't he do it at home?

MothToAnInferno · 20/11/2024 16:37

Unless it was his toenails I actually don't see the big deal. I've seen women filing their nails in public and no body has keeled over on shock, I don't see how this any different.

Mumofgirls24 · 20/11/2024 16:35

Revolting.

Moveoverdarlin · 20/11/2024 16:34

It’s vile.

AgnesX · 20/11/2024 16:34

Jeez. Some people beggar belief 🙄
You were polite given the circumstances.

quirkychick · 20/11/2024 16:34

Er no, it's really inappropriate. The bathroom (preferably at home) is the best place.

Poggishairtufts · 20/11/2024 16:33

Eugh. Sackable offence.

rubyslippers · 20/11/2024 16:32

That is GRIM
YANBU

I hate the noise of it
yuck

Furrydogmum · 20/11/2024 16:32

No, you weren't!