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Preemptively blocking old friend

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BiscottiToffee · 20/11/2024 04:53

Best friend of 7 years dropped off face of planet last year, overnight. She had lots of MH stuff going on.

I tried to support for years before. Was asked for space, which I duly gave. Specifically told phone calls unwelcome. Out of the blue.

In the summer, I had sad news. I know she heard, I had no contact from her.

About 3 months ago, I culled facebook. Deleted her as, for me, friendship was dead.

This evening I get a random message asking why I'm not in contact? No apology, nothing. Just asking why I haven't been in touch. It's been over a year.

I felt nothing. At first I actually thought it was a wrong number until I realised who it was.

I've blocked her. I don't want that drama again. I've moved on. I never replied.

I feel like I've been hurtful and mean.
Am I wrong to use block? I figured that was only for scammers etc.

OP posts:
MumChp · 20/11/2024 04:54

Leave it. It's fine. Don't spend more time in it.

Fraaahnces · 20/11/2024 04:54

She knows…

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