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Trainees no longer ready for workplace

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Kukcoo · 18/11/2024 21:12

I used to love having trainees allocated to us. They were so enthusiastic, hardworking and a breath of fresh air. It was great to see them develop.

The last few have acted like they're doing us a favour if they turn up by lunchtime because they could have called in sick for nothing. Seriously can't be bothered doing the basics and expect everything to be done for them. Little respect for anyone else and the huge support they're being given. Won't meet a deadline, because this would affect their mental health and basically impinges on their human rights.

They all still expect to qualify and will be passed by the provider unless they do something truly dangerous, but they won't have the real experience or skills to join the workplace and get on with a job.

I'm barely even a different generation, but wouldn't have dreamed of acting the way they do when I was learning and felt I had to prove myself. AIBU to expect standards to be the same?

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gcsedilemma · 19/11/2024 16:34

@AbigailBCD
Well yes for GCSEs, as she will be compared to those who have been spoon fed and her results won't be as good as theirs.

KindlyOldGoat · 19/11/2024 16:31

fitzwilliamdarcy · 19/11/2024 15:37

I have co-morbid disabilities (all diagnosed) which aren't visible, and I never tick the box. Partly out of a concern that it won't be 'visible' enough (appreciate you're not saying that, but I worry) and partly out of a concern that because it isn't 'visible', I'll be lumped in with people who use mental health terminology to describe themselves where it's not appropriate.

I don't sit on interview panels but I've heard from colleagues who do that being unable to interview anyone who hadn't ticked the box, due to time constraints, is something that's increasingly common over the past couple of years.

I have a non-visible disability and I don’t tick the box on job applications because I don’t completely trust that in some cases, this scheme isn’t abused by employers as a means of identifying and not employing those who HR/management perceive as difficult/high maintenance/requiring costly adjustments and time off. While some employers are undoubtedly well-intentioned, many are not. I’ve only disclosed my condition at work when I’ve been reasonably confident I can trust my manager and they’ve seen I can do my job well.

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 19/11/2024 16:13

fitzwilliamdarcy · 19/11/2024 15:37

I have co-morbid disabilities (all diagnosed) which aren't visible, and I never tick the box. Partly out of a concern that it won't be 'visible' enough (appreciate you're not saying that, but I worry) and partly out of a concern that because it isn't 'visible', I'll be lumped in with people who use mental health terminology to describe themselves where it's not appropriate.

I don't sit on interview panels but I've heard from colleagues who do that being unable to interview anyone who hadn't ticked the box, due to time constraints, is something that's increasingly common over the past couple of years.

It’s not tick the box and you’re guaranteed an interview though, it’s if you meet all the requirements for the role and you’ve ticked the box, you’ll be interviewed. So if there are 8 people over the line, you want to interview 5, and 3 of your 8 ticked the box, you’ll see them plus the best 2 who didn’t. There might have been another 20 applicants ticking the box, but you don’t interview them if the application didn’t pass.

C8H10N4O2 · 19/11/2024 15:42

sharpclawedkitten · 19/11/2024 15:27

I agree there's also a laziness in employers. There is apparently a skills shortage - there might be, but instead of all chasing the same employees with the skillset there's no will (or desire to spend money on) training people.

Entry level roles demand 2-5 years experience. Not exactly entry level.

That may be the case for some but we invest very heavily in training and development and pay well. We have still seen the issues described in this thread.

For SMEs the cost of training someone who then immediately leaves is a real problem. Its a big investment to recruit and train a graduate or school leaver for them to promptly leave to go to someone recruiting the "ready baked" article.

However the issue of this thread is not an expecting juniors to come fully able to do the job in question from day 1. Rather the issue is the basic work ethic and social practices in a shared workplace such as turning up on time, not letting people down, being considerate of others in the workforce, etc etc

ElaborateCushion · 19/11/2024 15:38

sharpclawedkitten · 19/11/2024 15:27

I agree there's also a laziness in employers. There is apparently a skills shortage - there might be, but instead of all chasing the same employees with the skillset there's no will (or desire to spend money on) training people.

Entry level roles demand 2-5 years experience. Not exactly entry level.

We have a skills shortage in our office. I would like nothing more than to hire a school leaver and train them up to do things the correct way (unlike many of our competitors nowadays).

Unfortunately it takes a few years to train people to the level that I need now. Candidates in my industry don't have the right level of experience we need and if we take someone on that has the right amount of experience in terms of years, the work they've been given isn't compatible with what we do.

My firm hasn't changed in what we do and how we do it, it just seems that all of our competitors have dumbed down and relied on software to do most of the work (and the output they produce has dropped in quality and accuracy also).

It's a massive struggle at the moment, but I'm hoping either our of our work experience students will become permanent to at least work on getting the future sorted.

Doesn't help my skills gap right now unfortunately, but it's not for the want of trying.

fitzwilliamdarcy · 19/11/2024 15:37

PennyCrayon1 · 19/11/2024 10:33

On recruitment, my friend works for a public sector body and there is a guaranteed interview scheme for people with disabilities. Which is definitely as a policy a positive thing.

However, in their last round of graduate recruitment so many applicants had ticked the disability box that they only had the time to interview all of them. Almost all of the ones who didn’t, did not get an interview.

When the candidates arrived for interview, there was in the vast majority of cases no visible disability - which obviously does not mean that it doesn’t exist - but you can’t help but wonder how many of them are self-diagnosing as disabled? My friend said they weren’t allowed to ask about it or anything.

if this is the case, that really is damaging to people with actual and serious disabilities.

I have co-morbid disabilities (all diagnosed) which aren't visible, and I never tick the box. Partly out of a concern that it won't be 'visible' enough (appreciate you're not saying that, but I worry) and partly out of a concern that because it isn't 'visible', I'll be lumped in with people who use mental health terminology to describe themselves where it's not appropriate.

I don't sit on interview panels but I've heard from colleagues who do that being unable to interview anyone who hadn't ticked the box, due to time constraints, is something that's increasingly common over the past couple of years.

sharpclawedkitten · 19/11/2024 15:28

Clarinet1 · 19/11/2024 15:25

So is lip filler.

And it's dangerous. Shouldn't even be allowed in my view.

There was an article in the Times at the weekend about the cost to the NHS of people going overseas for cosmetic treatment and it going wrong. I digress but it's kind of linked to this discussion - people so obsessed with social media that they can't cope in real life.

sharpclawedkitten · 19/11/2024 15:27

SharpOpalNewt · 19/11/2024 12:19

Also surely trainees are by their nature in training?

Employers seem to want to have their cake and eat it these days.

They want the education system to churn out perfectly formed automaton workers at 21 and don't seem to want to bother to train them up or pay for it in the sort of taxation required to have a very good state education system.

When in the past they'd have already been training them from the age of 14.

I agree there's also a laziness in employers. There is apparently a skills shortage - there might be, but instead of all chasing the same employees with the skillset there's no will (or desire to spend money on) training people.

Entry level roles demand 2-5 years experience. Not exactly entry level.

Clarinet1 · 19/11/2024 15:25

hadenoughofplayinggames · 19/11/2024 14:35

This is unnecessary.

So is lip filler.

KindlyOldGoat · 19/11/2024 15:15

hadenoughofplayinggames · 19/11/2024 15:10

Ah dear. Needless nastiness is only popular here.

Just as taking everything very seriously seems to be... And I think most people would agree that someone taking time off for an “urgent medical appointment” that turns out to be for lip filler is fair game!

hadenoughofplayinggames · 19/11/2024 15:10

KindlyOldGoat · 19/11/2024 15:03

I’m not sure it is 😁

Ah dear. Needless nastiness is only popular here.

KindlyOldGoat · 19/11/2024 15:03

hadenoughofplayinggames · 19/11/2024 14:35

This is unnecessary.

I’m not sure it is 😁

taxguru · 19/11/2024 14:45

@Another2Cats

The trouble is, the number of graduate level jobs didn't double over the same timescale.

Whilst the "level" of jobs didn't increase, the entry qualifications certainly did, with more and more jobs "requiring" a degree even though there was no actual need for that level of qualification, but used just as a "weeding out" tool to reduce the number of applications the organisation had to sift through, or just because the organisation wanted the "glory" of claiming they had a better educated work-force, even if there was no actual need for it.

hadenoughofplayinggames · 19/11/2024 14:35

sharpclawedkitten · 19/11/2024 09:20

I'd sack anyone who was stupid enough to get lip filler!

This is unnecessary.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 19/11/2024 14:32

I agree about not having part time jobs at a young age - they are vital

So do I, but that concepts another that's greeted with horror by some whose narrative is "They need to focus on their studies and are too tired anyway after a full week at school"

Considering these are often the same kids who expect to be spooned everything you have to wonder what they're doing to make them so tired

Another2Cats · 19/11/2024 14:31

CutthroatDruTheViolent · 19/11/2024 13:41

I graduated from school in 1999 and uni in 2006. All I was ever told by careers advisors was get a good degree and it's a stepping stone to middle management.

That definitely was NOT the case!

I'm 16 years older than you (left school in 1983), it seems that your careers advisors were probably recalling their own youth. Back in my day, around 15% of people went to either a university or polytechnic. By 2006 I think it was likely double that number.

The trouble is, the number of graduate level jobs didn't double over the same timescale.

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 19/11/2024 14:25

gcsedilemma · 19/11/2024 12:47

Gosh I wish they taught like this at my daughter's (very academic) school. She's not as academic and struggles with the university type learning style of it all!!
I think she'd get really good GCSEs if she knew exactly what to write and simply had to learn it

Genuine question - why would this be better for your DD than finding a more vocational path that she could thrive in? If she got really good GCSEs this way, she’d want and expect really good A Levels. Then perhaps degree. Eventually she’s going to be really out of her depth, which seems like setting her up for failure.

User37482 · 19/11/2024 14:16

Missamyp · 19/11/2024 12:54

Has it ever occurred to some adults that authoritarian working styles, commonly associated with boomers, may be ineffective? Instead of harsh discipline, we should focus on collaboration and cooperation. Just because we stood in a corner as children and it didn’t seem to harm us doesn’t mean it’s the best approach..🙄

Boomerness is being rejected by the younger cohorts. Get over it.

It’s not authoritarian to expect someone to turn up on time, not wander off during work hours and do the work they are paid to do. I’m seeing a lot of people frustrated by employees being unable to do the minimum which would have been required to actually not be fired 15years ago. The examples are just extremely poor

What you describe is how I sometimes get my 5yr old to do stuff, because she’s five and still learning the rules. The point is to take the training wheels off at some point and hand her more and more responsibility for herself and the expectation that she will take responsibility for and own her own actions.

When you are learning you start by taking instruction, you get to collaborate once you understand how to do the task. No-one is so special that their words are treated with weight until they have demonstrated some ability. I love my DD, I want her to be treated kindly and with respect by people. BUT I expect her to learn from people who are willing to teach her and do so with humility and grace.

User37482 · 19/11/2024 14:08

ChaoticCrumble · 19/11/2024 13:15

It's book 4 in the Bobiverse universe - Heaven's River, best on Audible. But also, only worth a read if you love a mix of comedic and hard SF. Book 1 is about someone whose mind gets uploaded to a replicating spaceship and makes clones of himself. Book 4 is a long way to go for the idea!

(the dilemma in the book is whether to interfere or not with a species that is sliding backwards because no one has to think anymore to have a nice life)

Sounds interesting! The whole thing reminds me of the time machine and the Eloi

Pusheen467 · 19/11/2024 14:01

OneGreenOrca · 19/11/2024 08:10

I've noticed this too in my area of work too. Not all but some act like they're doing you a favour turning up and have an immediate list of things they don't want to do or be expected to do.

We recently had a newly qualified too who seemed at first to be great, really enthusiastic and personable then very quickly lots of last-minute requests to WFH or take leave. At the end of the first month they complained they hadn't been paid correctly and it transpired they didn't know what pro-rata meant and hadn't bothered to ask or look it up so thought they were going to get paid full-time for working part-time. Then seemed to think they were being magnanimous by saying they weren't blaming anyone but going forward, they recommended it should be made clearer on the job spec that you wouldn't get FT pay for PT work.

They 'worked' but didn't actually do much for 2 months then put their notice in, then withdrew it. Then put it in again and were arguing that they wanted to take A/L for all of their notice period because they had x amounts of hours entitlement when the x amount of hours was their entitlement for the year and they were only working a few months and had already taken a lot of leave.

We let them go early in the end, we just wanted rid.

Oh my god, I want to smack them in the face even just reading this.

AbigailBCD · 19/11/2024 13:58

gcsedilemma · 19/11/2024 12:47

Gosh I wish they taught like this at my daughter's (very academic) school. She's not as academic and struggles with the university type learning style of it all!!
I think she'd get really good GCSEs if she knew exactly what to write and simply had to learn it

You wish your daughter was spoon fed stock paragraphs and denied the opportunity to think for herself?!

MoMhathair · 19/11/2024 13:50

EuclidianGeometryFan · 19/11/2024 13:42

Okay, all of that may be true.
But it doesn't explain the issues found in female-dominant, low-paid work.

Such as a supermarket employee who is lazy, often late, often sick, eye-rolls at her supervisor, and has no work ethic.
Or a young teacher or nurse whose Mum phones up when they are "too ill to work today".

As many others have said, I think there is something fundamentally wrong with a lot of parenting in recent years.
Plus I think it makes a huge difference that youngsters don't routinely get part-time jobs from the age of 14.

I agree about not having part time jobs at a young age - they are vital for building skills IMO.

I also think expectations play a big part. In my mum's generation it was perfectly fine to blag your way through school and then to go to work in the local factory. The money wasn't great but it was enough to get by on and there was no pressure to have a high-flying job. You did your work and you went home.
Everyone's expectations seem to be higher these days, including employers. There are so many bullshit promises out there about efficiency and doing more with less that I think a lot of employers now don't accept a person who comes in, does what they need to do and goes home. High expectations push people into jobs they are not suited for. I've seen it happen quite a few times - people trying to succeed in a career they simply can't manage, because no one would accept their level of ability is lower than what's required. Combined with higher employer expectations it's a recipe for disaster.

Photodilemmas · 19/11/2024 13:43

Kukcoo · 18/11/2024 21:12

I used to love having trainees allocated to us. They were so enthusiastic, hardworking and a breath of fresh air. It was great to see them develop.

The last few have acted like they're doing us a favour if they turn up by lunchtime because they could have called in sick for nothing. Seriously can't be bothered doing the basics and expect everything to be done for them. Little respect for anyone else and the huge support they're being given. Won't meet a deadline, because this would affect their mental health and basically impinges on their human rights.

They all still expect to qualify and will be passed by the provider unless they do something truly dangerous, but they won't have the real experience or skills to join the workplace and get on with a job.

I'm barely even a different generation, but wouldn't have dreamed of acting the way they do when I was learning and felt I had to prove myself. AIBU to expect standards to be the same?

GenZ! It's such a shame.

EuclidianGeometryFan · 19/11/2024 13:42

MoMhathair · 19/11/2024 13:34

I think a large part of it is a culture shift that's still in progress.
Once upon a time, not that long ago, if you were going to have a responsible job, you were a white man probably of a particular background. Expectations and norms were very clear - you wore a suit, you shook hands, you turned up on time - these were more than likely instilled in you by your private school. You very quickly picked up the culture and the boundaries and you stuck to them, to get ahead.
Now the working world is far more open, but the norms aren't as clear. I research medical training and older doctors keep complaining about a 'lack of professionalism' in younger trainees, but when you delve deeper it's clear that the older doctors had very rigid expectations explicitly taught to them and enforced at all costs, whereas newer doctors don't have that. The trainees are trying to learn a very difficult job while also navigating and very unclear and confusing culture that is often contradictory - for example they are told their workplaces are inclusive and welcoming and yet they see certain people being treated differently (usually by older doctors who had racism and sexism built into their training). They are assured that their work life balance is important while also being told they can't take time off for a sibling's wedding.
If there's a very dominant culture (white men) then it's pretty easy to pass that culture on, and to exclude people who don't fit it. Things should open up but if there isn't clarity around what's expected, or there are no real role models, then of course younger people get lost. Mixed messages (women are 'valued', but no women get promoted) also don't help.

Okay, all of that may be true.
But it doesn't explain the issues found in female-dominant, low-paid work.

Such as a supermarket employee who is lazy, often late, often sick, eye-rolls at her supervisor, and has no work ethic.
Or a young teacher or nurse whose Mum phones up when they are "too ill to work today".

As many others have said, I think there is something fundamentally wrong with a lot of parenting in recent years.
Plus I think it makes a huge difference that youngsters don't routinely get part-time jobs from the age of 14.

BlueMediterranean · 19/11/2024 13:42

Kukcoo · 18/11/2024 21:20

The university provider sends them for placements as trainee primary teachers. They want their fees so let them get away with the bare minimum. We can try to coach, write reports and flag up concerns with performance, but nothing changes because they know they can get away without trying, letting everyone down in the meantime.

I'm a teacher in a secondary school and we are having exactly the same experience. Universities are accepting anyone as they just want the money and don't care if they are suitable or not.