The gym DH and I go has this thing called an "angel tree," which is a Christmas tree decorated with little angel ornaments, which have children's age ranges and genders on the back of them. Members are invited to take ornaments from the tree and purchase gifts aligning with the info on the back, and bring them to the reception desk to be distributed to families in need.
Yesterday, DH took two angels from the tree, and said he plans on taking another two from the tree at the other gym location to which we go. I thought that was very kind and generous of him, and I know we can afford it no problem... It's just that, on the way home, he was musing about what to purchase, and said "Might as well just every kid a tablet and be done with it." Which just felt like a really.... tasteless? thing to say because our own child is having behavioral issues that we both agree are probably related to her tablet usage.
I have this worry that he won't actually shop for appropriate toys, or purchase anything at all, and then I'll have to be the one who goes out and gets the gifts in addition to the ones I already have to get for our family members. I feel really stressed about it, but I'm not sure where that worry is coming from. I know I haven't even given him a chance yet, but the closer it will get to Christmas without him doing it, the less time I'll have to get it done if I have to step up...
AIBU?