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To think more should be made of our local myths, folklore and traditions

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Feelingathomenow · 17/11/2024 11:00

Britain, and indeed the whole of the western world, seems to be becoming increasingly divided. Political ideologies v political ideology, Religion against religion, race against race, sex against sex.

For a society to be strong, it needs common values, common beliefs and common rituals. It needs shared stories we can relate to and make reference to.

This is where myths and traditions have always played a vital part. Britain is full of local stories that people have all eagerly shared, stories everyone knew that brought people together. story telling is so very important to humanity and always has been. Traditions where everyone played their part either as participator or spectator, either way it brought a community together, these kinds of rituals have proven benefits for all.

People in Devon and Cornwall always knew about the pixies and people round here often blame/thank the Pixies for good/bad luck. We have the Tar barrels every November which provides a focus for people, newer traditions referencing the old, like the pirate festival, celebrations around the landing of William of Orange etc. People talk about hairy hands grabbing the steering wheel of your car on a certain road, people know about Kitty Jays grave where fresh flowers appear on the grave of a suicide victim buried at cross roads even if your back is turned for a second or the Devil riding out across the moors with his hell hounds.

Many of these myths and legends have made it into some of the most popular stories, The hell hounds on Dartmoor made it into the hounds of the Baskerville (thanks to Doyle’s coach driver (a mr Baskerville) when he visited Dartmoor.obviously the Fantastic JK Rowling has introduced Dobies and Boggarts to children far beyond Scotland/East of England respectively. People across the world read these stories

So should we be talking about these things more, esp in schools to give common stories of Britain (or wherever you live) not so tied to the big religions or political ideologies, things that do however, fulfil the need for common stories and rituals based in the landscape of where people live? Should more be done to encourage everyone to take part in local traditions to bring communities together? Also interested to hear of any local legends/traditions etc.

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Purplebunnie · 17/11/2024 22:46

Pearmain · 17/11/2024 22:25

yes I love folklore and our heritage and traditions but no matter what I try it always seems out of reach. I live in Nottinghamshire and I daydream about cosy pubs with a fire in the hearth, horse brasses hung up around the bar, real ale and folk music and traditional storytelling, wassailing, celebrating the seasons etc but where is this stuff?

i definitely think there’s a connection between the mental health issues in this country and how much we’ve become severed from our roots.

I think the lyrics to ‘Roots’ by Show of Hands sums it all up perfectly.

Roots actually sums it up very well

Notification came up today on FB was watching Show of Hands this time last year. I can't remember what they said but I think they're not touring together this year, maybe some solo stuff.

Pearmain · 17/11/2024 22:25

yes I love folklore and our heritage and traditions but no matter what I try it always seems out of reach. I live in Nottinghamshire and I daydream about cosy pubs with a fire in the hearth, horse brasses hung up around the bar, real ale and folk music and traditional storytelling, wassailing, celebrating the seasons etc but where is this stuff?

i definitely think there’s a connection between the mental health issues in this country and how much we’ve become severed from our roots.

I think the lyrics to ‘Roots’ by Show of Hands sums it all up perfectly.

TempestTost · 17/11/2024 22:18

Feelingathomenow · 17/11/2024 21:57

Have you seen worth watching if only for the exploding sex doll

Good Lord!

DaphneFlower · 17/11/2024 22:11

I enjoyed the Charlie Cooper series about British folklore recently

TheHateIsNotGood · 17/11/2024 22:08

Oooh blimey you can open a can of worms if you're not too careful; apparently there were still 'cannibals' around Hartland, wreckers maybe, but I don't really (want) to think they also ate the people too. Easy to get things wrong though when even the BBC's "Coast" locates Hartland in Cornwall.

Slavery has been written out in the local history although some credence is given to the Spaniards who marauded but that wouldn't completely explain 'everything' evident in the local population.

But totally true, the last 'witches' burned in England was just up the road; and I feel the heat from that 'fire' to this day. Wrapped up into the existent male mysogyny that still prevails to this day.

Feelingathomenow · 17/11/2024 21:57

quantumbutterfly · 17/11/2024 21:51

I feel the same about Dickens, took me several goes to read Great Expectations.

I like Pratchett's characterisations and the way you recognise familiar places and cultures and stories. The Tiffany Aching/ Ramtop witches books are very much about folklore, spirituality and people's connection to nature and place. They even have Morris dancers.

They have everything I love - mist give them another go

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Feelingathomenow · 17/11/2024 21:57

TempestTost · 17/11/2024 21:30

I had a huge fear of spontaneous combustion for years after seeing an episode of Ripley's Believe It or Not.

Have you seen worth watching if only for the exploding sex doll

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quantumbutterfly · 17/11/2024 21:51

Feelingathomenow · 17/11/2024 18:57

Oh now that’s interesting - I’ve tried so hard to like his books, just can’t for some reason

I feel the same about Dickens, took me several goes to read Great Expectations.

I like Pratchett's characterisations and the way you recognise familiar places and cultures and stories. The Tiffany Aching/ Ramtop witches books are very much about folklore, spirituality and people's connection to nature and place. They even have Morris dancers.

SarahAndQuack · 17/11/2024 21:46

Feelingathomenow · 17/11/2024 21:13

I’m not sure exactly what you’re getting at here!

I think it's nasty to say that people who want to protect folklore against what they see as frightening racist incursions, somehow have less right to invest in folklore.

In my view, everyone has the same rights to identify with folk myths. You don't get to gatekeep and say it's only for people who agree with you. And you don't get to say that folklore can only be interpreted one way.

TempestTost · 17/11/2024 21:44

WessexWanderer · 17/11/2024 19:07

I love folklore and love hearing about local legends and superstitions. The Folklore Podcast is fab if anyone is looking for somewhere to find out more.

I really should attend the tar barrels one year as I'm not very far away (waves at fellow Devonians!). I do go to a Wassail each year. Some English folklore is popular - Robin Hood. And King Arthur, although he's shared with the Welsh, Scots and Cornish!

I think a strong cultural identity is a good thing and can result in the opposite of racism and fascism. If you love and appreciate your own culture, you can be similarly fascinated and appreciative of other people's. I know my own love of folklore means I enjoy finding out about the legends and superstitions of other cultures.

I do think that's true, and in fact as much as certain people seem to scoff at the idea of English culture and traditions say they appreciate other culture's traditions, in my experience they often don't really respect the substance of those traditions much either.

Feelingathomenow · 17/11/2024 21:41

MasterBeth · 17/11/2024 21:30

Well, the original post makes a lot of societal and political claims which are a lot more questionable and provocative than just "anyone know any fun local myths and legends?"

I’m sorry you read it that way, no one else has. We often see reflections of our own desires and become fixated on them to such an extent reality no longer matters - no if only there was a myth about that

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Plastictrees · 17/11/2024 21:41

MasterBeth · 17/11/2024 21:30

Well, the original post makes a lot of societal and political claims which are a lot more questionable and provocative than just "anyone know any fun local myths and legends?"

It seems to have provoked you, yes. I recommend reading up on the contemporary struggles of indigenous populations before adopting a condescending position and making claims such as conversations about indigenous peoples and traditional cultures are quaintly redundant. It is ironic you came into this thread making thinly veiled accusations of xenophobia and racism, when you yourself have shown outstanding ignorance of other cultures! Projection much.

PyreneanAubrie · 17/11/2024 21:39

Feelingathomenow · 17/11/2024 21:36

I think, unfortunately, you have taken a thread and read into it things you have a bee in your bonnet about.

Seeing the numerous downsides of globalisation( and there are so many most noticeably mental health issues) is not “right wing”. Humans are a tribal species, there’s nothing wrong with that. Trying to fudge calling someone racist by saying you share views with right wingers is so thinly veiled as to be laughable.

We can all appreciate cross cultural influences, it’s not an either/or situation. I really deplore the modern perchant for black and white thinking like that.

Given your comments, this thread probably isn’t something that you’re interested in. Might I suggest starting your own to discuss the matters that concern you rather than derailing such a positive feel good thread with your misplaced political agenda. Thank you.

Well said!

Feelingathomenow · 17/11/2024 21:36

MasterBeth · 17/11/2024 21:22

Firstly, your case isn't helped by raising straw man arguments.

I haven't called you racist. I've been very careful not to. I have no reason to think you are.

Some of your arguments and language are shared by right-wing xenophobes, ethno-nationalists and racists, though. That includes phrases including "globalisation is a danger to humanity" and "we are a tribal species", as well as accusing others of "shouting you down". No-one's shouting. We are having a polite and civil conversation. And no-one is shouting down anyone who "mentions" British traditional stories. Where has that happened? I don't think it has.

To respond to your questions of substance:

Of course the world isn't entirely homogeneous. But it's more homogenous than it was 100 or 50 or 10 years ago. Technology makes further homogeneity inevitable to every society that embraces capitalist modernity. Which is every society.

The most significant cultural imposition that Britain made on the world is industrialisation. Modern global trade. And that's the thing we've left behind in India and Africa and the Americas. You can't uninvent it.

So, no, Peruvian culture is not Thai culture is not British culture, but all are affected and changed by the modern interactions of global trade, movement and communication. Where we differ is that you seem to fear this and I see the value in it.

I'm very British. Mostly English. And recognise that some of the richest areas of historic British cultural achievement are a directly result of cross-cultural pollination, whether that's Victorian architecture being influenced by the Italian renaissance, The Beatles (a British take on US RnB) or Anglo-Indian cuisine (a British takeaway on sub-continental cooking).

These British things are more interesting and relevant to me as a 21st century Briton than Morris dancing.

I think, unfortunately, you have taken a thread and read into it things you have a bee in your bonnet about.

Seeing the numerous downsides of globalisation( and there are so many most noticeably mental health issues) is not “right wing”. Humans are a tribal species, there’s nothing wrong with that. Trying to fudge calling someone racist by saying you share views with right wingers is so thinly veiled as to be laughable.

We can all appreciate cross cultural influences, it’s not an either/or situation. I really deplore the modern perchant for black and white thinking like that.

Given your comments, this thread probably isn’t something that you’re interested in. Might I suggest starting your own to discuss the matters that concern you rather than derailing such a positive feel good thread with your misplaced political agenda. Thank you.

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PyreneanAubrie · 17/11/2024 21:32

MasterBeth · 17/11/2024 21:26

I haven't called you a racist either.

Not me personally, no. But people with my interests, certainly, you have implied would be right wing and nationalistic.

TempestTost · 17/11/2024 21:30

Arlanymor · 17/11/2024 16:20

Same! We had that and it was great. We also had Mysteries of the Unexplained. I spent about a year thinking I was going to be a victim of human combustion.

I had a huge fear of spontaneous combustion for years after seeing an episode of Ripley's Believe It or Not.

MasterBeth · 17/11/2024 21:30

Well, the original post makes a lot of societal and political claims which are a lot more questionable and provocative than just "anyone know any fun local myths and legends?"

Plastictrees · 17/11/2024 21:27

MasterBeth · 17/11/2024 21:22

Firstly, your case isn't helped by raising straw man arguments.

I haven't called you racist. I've been very careful not to. I have no reason to think you are.

Some of your arguments and language are shared by right-wing xenophobes, ethno-nationalists and racists, though. That includes phrases including "globalisation is a danger to humanity" and "we are a tribal species", as well as accusing others of "shouting you down". No-one's shouting. We are having a polite and civil conversation. And no-one is shouting down anyone who "mentions" British traditional stories. Where has that happened? I don't think it has.

To respond to your questions of substance:

Of course the world isn't entirely homogeneous. But it's more homogenous than it was 100 or 50 or 10 years ago. Technology makes further homogeneity inevitable to every society that embraces capitalist modernity. Which is every society.

The most significant cultural imposition that Britain made on the world is industrialisation. Modern global trade. And that's the thing we've left behind in India and Africa and the Americas. You can't uninvent it.

So, no, Peruvian culture is not Thai culture is not British culture, but all are affected and changed by the modern interactions of global trade, movement and communication. Where we differ is that you seem to fear this and I see the value in it.

I'm very British. Mostly English. And recognise that some of the richest areas of historic British cultural achievement are a directly result of cross-cultural pollination, whether that's Victorian architecture being influenced by the Italian renaissance, The Beatles (a British take on US RnB) or Anglo-Indian cuisine (a British takeaway on sub-continental cooking).

These British things are more interesting and relevant to me as a 21st century Briton than Morris dancing.

That’s fine. But you are on a thread about local myths and legends, which you blatantly have no interest in and instead seem keen to create argument and ill feeling on a thread that was quite joyful. Bravo.

MasterBeth · 17/11/2024 21:26

PyreneanAubrie · 17/11/2024 20:04

It's interesting, having grown up in an educated, middle class, Communist family to now be called a racist, right winger. My parents always voted Socialist or Labour (as do I), we've always had multicultural friends, mostly left wing, teachers, doctors and lawyers, a lot of them Eastern European, Jewish, although my family is not.

I grew up on a diet of American folk; Bob Dylan and Pete Seeger. But also a lot of British Folk music and history, traditional tales and myths. My family has Irish and Orcadian blood and we feel deeply rooted in these lands.

I'm guessing that if that Peruvians and Thais chose to embrace their own culture rather than The Beatles or Benjamin Britten, they would not be accused of racism or xenophobia. I suspect that this reverse snobbery is something reserved for the British, or more specifically the English.

I haven't called you a racist either.

MasterBeth · 17/11/2024 21:22

Feelingathomenow · 17/11/2024 19:39

Surprisingly my view does vary. You seem to view the world as one giant homogeneous blob. Just because you have been exposed to other cultures doesn’t mean that those cultures aren’t distinct. The very fact that you talk about someone in Peru being exposed to British culture indicates there is something distinct about British culture.

Globalisation is a danger to humanity, we are a tribal species, There’s a phrase about ADHD and associated depression. “Feels like they fit in everywhere but they belong no where” globalisation removes tribes and removes the sense of belonging.

Im interested (assuming your British why you are so desperate to move away from anything that might hint at your Britishness. Do you describe yourself as a global citizen rather than British.

“Empire” has existed practically from the moment man sat on a horse or elephant. Interested people have often used this to try and spread their own cultures, but often these attempts have not succeeded whole scale. Indeed, often people’s objections (esp re the British Empire is that it attempted to displace local cultures which indicates people still see local cultures as very important

You see, no one can take away the stories but they can try and kill them off by shouting down people who mention them bu calling them racist/far right etc. The Left have always been far more “Brave New World” with their Dystopia.

Firstly, your case isn't helped by raising straw man arguments.

I haven't called you racist. I've been very careful not to. I have no reason to think you are.

Some of your arguments and language are shared by right-wing xenophobes, ethno-nationalists and racists, though. That includes phrases including "globalisation is a danger to humanity" and "we are a tribal species", as well as accusing others of "shouting you down". No-one's shouting. We are having a polite and civil conversation. And no-one is shouting down anyone who "mentions" British traditional stories. Where has that happened? I don't think it has.

To respond to your questions of substance:

Of course the world isn't entirely homogeneous. But it's more homogenous than it was 100 or 50 or 10 years ago. Technology makes further homogeneity inevitable to every society that embraces capitalist modernity. Which is every society.

The most significant cultural imposition that Britain made on the world is industrialisation. Modern global trade. And that's the thing we've left behind in India and Africa and the Americas. You can't uninvent it.

So, no, Peruvian culture is not Thai culture is not British culture, but all are affected and changed by the modern interactions of global trade, movement and communication. Where we differ is that you seem to fear this and I see the value in it.

I'm very British. Mostly English. And recognise that some of the richest areas of historic British cultural achievement are a directly result of cross-cultural pollination, whether that's Victorian architecture being influenced by the Italian renaissance, The Beatles (a British take on US RnB) or Anglo-Indian cuisine (a British takeaway on sub-continental cooking).

These British things are more interesting and relevant to me as a 21st century Briton than Morris dancing.

Waaahbaby · 17/11/2024 21:22

As teachers we should really be linking our curriculum to the local area. My class are reception and we love a local folk story and song. We also go wassailing! I was questioned about it but because I knew the links, I was ‘allowed’ to do it.
@Feelingathomenow I am the same as you. I’ve lived in many places and now I’m here, I finally feel home! We really do have some amazing local legends and some wonderful local musicians! The Lakeman’s are superb and have many links with some of my favourite artists.

LegoVsFoot · 17/11/2024 21:21

sel2223 · 17/11/2024 11:21

I'm British but live overseas and there is a real sense of pride here which is missing in the UK and a lot of the western world.

Stories, traditions, folklore are all shared in an inclusive way here so foreigners like me can learn and enjoy.

I've always been interested in this kind of thing wherever I have travelled in the world, it's fascinating.

The UK has such a long and varied past and so many stories and tales to tell which a lot of people would be interested in, why do we seem almost ashamed of it all now?

Agree, it feels like all cultures can be proud and share except this one, there's an idea that it's nothing to be proud of or that it's shameful or carries with it some dark history. I am from an immigrant family myself and notice this. It's important to have a cultural pride, knowledge and identity.

Feelingathomenow · 17/11/2024 21:13

SarahAndQuack · 17/11/2024 21:08

I find it sad that there are so many people who think folklore is only for them, not for anyone who feels differently - even if those others enjoy folklore and feel a deep connection to it. Such sad and small-minded gatekeeping.

I’m not sure exactly what you’re getting at here!

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SarahAndQuack · 17/11/2024 21:08

Feelingathomenow · 17/11/2024 20:55

Great post. I find it sad that this has been such a lovely thread that seems to have evoked lots of lovely memories for so many yet there still seems to be people who want to make unkind comments and try to insinuate xenophobic intentions.

I find it sad that there are so many people who think folklore is only for them, not for anyone who feels differently - even if those others enjoy folklore and feel a deep connection to it. Such sad and small-minded gatekeeping.

Saschka · 17/11/2024 21:06

StrongandNorthern · 17/11/2024 11:59

The National Curriculum has effectively put a stop to teaching/exploring local history (it's incredibly prescriptive).
I remember (at primary school)learning so much about our local area (including going out of school, finding landmarks/buildings etc all with stories attached). We made maps, did research in the local library.
The opportunity to do this, combined with the sheer enthusiasm of a couple of great teachers, left me with a fascination for local history, traditions etc both where I lived and further afield.
Parents can still introduce kids to all this though ...

Our primary manages it. We’re in London, so they focus on Roman London, the Great Fire of London, the Blitz, Windrush etc. Always related back to the local area in one way or another.