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To ask for things that you believe have declined in quality

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JMSA · 17/11/2024 10:40

I'll kick it off with Fairy Liquid!
Has anyone else noticed this? I have a dishwasher but often wash certain things, eg my big frying pan, by hand. You'd certainly need a mighty big squeeze these days, for a proper foamy lather.
Anything else? If nobody mentions Cadbury's chocolate, I will eat the Oodie I'm currently wearing Grin

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lightsandtunnels · 17/11/2024 15:19

TV shows. I'm thinking the fabulous family and comedy shows we used to have - everything from The Generation Game to Only Fools & Horses, Blackadder, Men Behaving Badly, Ab Fab etc. I also loved Dallas! Pure escapism. I find it hard to watch current comedy TV - just not my thing - showing my age I suppose! And don't get me started on the soaps today. Corrie used to be a fab half hour of escapism but I find all the soaps now are desperately trying to show so many diverse and current issues that are often violent and depressing. I'm sure many will argue that they are relatable and showing current issues is important and I don't disagree but I do miss the old shows when life seemed so much more simple!

betterangels · 17/11/2024 15:16

Life. I can't remember the last time I felt good about where things are heading.

AInightingale · 17/11/2024 15:13

Cherrysoup · 17/11/2024 15:07

I got some mens’ trainer socks recently, they’re crazy thick, stretchy, just brilliant. Think it was Lidl.

I don't think I'll ever buy a 'women's' umbrella again either. Got so fed up with these things made out of willow twigs and moth wings that 'look nice' that I went into M&S having thrown mine in a litter bin and bought a men's folding one. It's a revelation, it's like, weather-resistant. Amazing.

EverythingElseIsTaken · 17/11/2024 15:09

Soft drinks - incredibly hard to find any without artificial sweeteners these days and, apart from the awful taste, they actually make me (and many others) very ill.

The same applies to things like yogurts, crisps and some condiments.

Cherrysoup · 17/11/2024 15:07

PinkribbonBonnBonn · 17/11/2024 14:39

Try using men's unscented deodorant. Much stronger . Also men's socks are much thicker . They can be on the wide side though .

I got some mens’ trainer socks recently, they’re crazy thick, stretchy, just brilliant. Think it was Lidl.

SmudgeButt · 17/11/2024 15:04

ifIwerenotanandroid · 17/11/2024 12:49

Also, isn't it better to NOT get right up close to someone & then stop because the car beeps? Frightening for the pedestrian, even though you don't hit them? (If it picks them up at all.)

My bugbear with driving is that on the country roads round here, increasing numbers of oncoming cars are driven too far over towards the centre of the road, forcing me into the edge of the road or the hedge. Why is this? There've always been a few drivers who don't want their precious car in the mud at the side of the road or being scratched by the hedge (ironic when they're 4x4s), but it seems to be about 50% now. It's tiresome, infuriating & dangerous.

Not helped by speed limits in some areas!! I was in Wales recently and on a country road and there was a sign for 40 mph and 20 feet later a sign to say "national speed limit" which would have been 60 mph. This was a few feet in front of a humped back stone bridge just wide enough for our car (literally about 3 inches either side of the wing mirrors) and there was no clear view of the road on the other side. Not only would you likely damage your car going over that at full speed, you'd likely go flying off the far side into the hedge just beyond where the road turned 90 degrees.

I could tell when I was driving there that the regulars were likely so familiar with their roads that they could happily and possibly safely take them at a great speed. But being a tourist and not knowing what was around the next twist or turn I had to drive slowly. So easy to suddenly come up on a tractor taking up too much room or having to take a wide turn into a lane.

Angelofmycoins · 17/11/2024 14:58

DisabledDemon · 17/11/2024 14:44

Definitely Cadbury's chocolate. It changed when they were taken over by Mondelez who replaced the more expensive items with palm oil, making the product greasy rather than rich.

It had already changed before mondelez too.
I still remember getting a fruit and nit bar from a wall vending machine - with the purple foil on. It was the best taste ever

spanieleyes22 · 17/11/2024 14:55

Quality street!!! Wrappers are awful and they honestly taste rank. Most of them. They taste a bit like calpol! To me...

ButterMints · 17/11/2024 14:54

The same people that brought us shrinkflation are now giving us enshittification.

It's not enough that they have made everything smaller / thinner / containing less. That hasn't increased their profit margins anywhere near enough. So now they are making everything poorer quality.

Butchyrestingface · 17/11/2024 14:53

dancerdog · 17/11/2024 14:15

Bowfin' is West of Scotland.

Yes, I know. Person I know who routinely uses howfin' is also West (Coast) though. But I hear bowfin' a lot more generally.

Tiddlywinkly · 17/11/2024 14:52

Most things tbh.

Phones, white goods, chocolate, clothes.

Shout out for Cos. Their cashmere jumpers are a bit pricer at £155+ but no pilling, good thickness and no shrinkage after hand washing. Genuinely impressed after a recent re-order (and subsequent return) from Boden. Also Everlane (latter is American, but you can order online). Very transparent pricing and fantastic quality clothes. Lots of reviews help you to accurately guess sizing.

spanieleyes22 · 17/11/2024 14:51

Werecat · 17/11/2024 14:48

Restaurants are also variable. Some have become so soulless.

Yes agreed. It's such a lot of money to go out and eat and the food is just not good quality unless you pay mega bucks. Last time I went out wit family was about 2 years ago and we went to pizza express. But everything was shoddy. No atmosphere. Bad service. Rearaurant half empty and actually. Cold!! Expensive. Just not worth it when you can buy a frozen pizza or make one for less than half the price . It's a shame. Used to love going out for food. But just can't find anywhere nice. That does good clean food with nice service and a good atmosphere.

EvilsElsasPetSnowman · 17/11/2024 14:49

spanieleyes22 · 17/11/2024 14:48

Did you notice that cadburys are not allowed to call their bars chocolate as the cocoa solids are such a low percentage it doesn't qualify as real chocolate. They call the bars "dairymilk"🤣

They always called their bars dairy milk

spanieleyes22 · 17/11/2024 14:48

Did you notice that cadburys are not allowed to call their bars chocolate as the cocoa solids are such a low percentage it doesn't qualify as real chocolate. They call the bars "dairymilk"🤣

PinkribbonBonnBonn · 17/11/2024 14:48

@EvilsElsasPetSnowman

Yes last much much longer

Werecat · 17/11/2024 14:48

Restaurants are also variable. Some have become so soulless.

EvilsElsasPetSnowman · 17/11/2024 14:48

sharpclawedkitten · 17/11/2024 14:44

So you drive with a camera as well? Who knew - all those people who have been told they can't drive because of poor eyesight just need a camera.

No wonder driving standards have slipped if people are using cameras instead of their eyes.

No but my car beeps when I reverse. If I didn’t have that I’d judge myself. But to claim people with reverse cameras are dangerous drivers is utterly insane.

Do you think that cameras are something people with poor eyesight get installer?

Think about it - if you have cameras that show all areas why would you avert your eyes to look at LESS than that?

Or are you one of these people who hates progress and thinks things were better when life was harder

theDudesmummy · 17/11/2024 14:47

Oh, and Waitrose shops. Gone down awfully (I noticed this more as I don't live in the UK so when I visit I notice changes more than if you live with them every day). Last time I went into one (West End Lane West Hampstead) I didn't buy anything as the shop just felt dingy/dirty/downmarket.It even had a funny smell. Just left feeling faintly depressed. Waitrose used to be a guilty pleasure/treat.

LuluBlakey1 · 17/11/2024 14:46

Everything manufactured in the UK or bought in from abroad to be sold to the general public is absolutely shit quality. Clothes, food, furniture, bedding, other fabric goods, electrical and mechanical goods, toys, IT, cars, jewellery. Vast majority of services too- building, plumbing whatever. Standards here are expensive, shoddy and shit unless you are very wealthy.

Werecat · 17/11/2024 14:45

Clothing is a big issue. Quality is down (weight of fabric, stitching, cut, etc). I don’t buy much these days and refuse to pay much as more money doesn’t equal quality now.

Customer service is very variable. I find it ok in places like the cinema where I am greeted cheerfully and receive actual service. Bookshops are good too.

But I’ve realised that in shops like H&M im pissed off as a customer before I even meet a shop worker, because I can never find the right size and because I know that they’ll try to both get me to use self service and try to get my email address. So I go into any interaction now expecting confrontation. So I imagine I look pretty unhappy and pissed off. And they know the customers aren’t happy so they also expect confrontation. So they are spiky too…

So now I don’t go to shops. Saves all the aggro.

OliviaRodrighost · 17/11/2024 14:45

Nando68 · 17/11/2024 14:32

Full Fat Coke- still as good as ever!

You’re very very correct. I drink way more of that stuff than is healthy. But I hate and cannot drink anything with sweeteners so my options are very limited. Also (full fat) Cherry Coke is delicious.

I feel so sad that proper Irn Bru no longer exists.

sharpclawedkitten · 17/11/2024 14:44

EvilsElsasPetSnowman · 17/11/2024 14:29

Eh? Why would you use a resource (your eyes) that see much less than another resource (a camera)?!

So you drive with a camera as well? Who knew - all those people who have been told they can't drive because of poor eyesight just need a camera.

No wonder driving standards have slipped if people are using cameras instead of their eyes.

DisabledDemon · 17/11/2024 14:44

Definitely Cadbury's chocolate. It changed when they were taken over by Mondelez who replaced the more expensive items with palm oil, making the product greasy rather than rich.

XxSideshowAuntSallyx · 17/11/2024 14:43

SmudgeButt · 17/11/2024 14:28

Jeans. If I'm buying jeans I want them to be denim which is a decent weight and at least 95% cotton not lightweight pale blue polyester.

I've just bought a pair from Superdry 100% organic cotton. They feel sturdy and heavy just like jeans should. Even on the 91% cotton skinny jeans you can feel the difference from my cheap jeans with about 70% cotton.

Lucywithout · 17/11/2024 14:41

This is listed as a "pure cotton sweat" in M&S online.
Is that pure cotton polyester in the 34%?

"66% cotton, 34% polyester (exclusive of trimmings) , Ribbing - 95% cotton, 5% elastane"