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Have people forgotten about covid and what's really important?

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Beautifulweeds · 16/11/2024 23:04

Just this really.

Covid...working or non working parents had to have online teaching at home (for working so much more difficult). Teachers had to do these lessons online while supervising their own kids being taught online.
It showed how many parents found it difficult teaching their own and so sad some suicides of single parents having no escape.

Supermarkets...
In fear of covid but worked through, online delivery went through the roof, all working. A close relative with parent on chemo hadn't got the official document through so had to keep working and go home to a highly vulnerable person. Took several weeks to sort, otherwise woukd have lost job if refused to go in.

NHS, I remember the days just before it was announced and A and E staff having a more than full waiting room of coughing before mandatory mask wearing.

The impact...stay at home, if you could. Celebrities showing off, non essential things like false eyelashes, fake nails, any form of plastic surgery etc stopped.

The world realised what was important. Now it has too easily gone back to the superficiality it was before and people complaining about everything.

Thank you for reading my long post, just needed to put it out there.

I, for one, as a frontline worker and human being, am so disappointed at how so many people have gone back to being so rude and entitled, when they were relying on us at thay time to help them live. X

OP posts:
HippoCamping · 17/11/2024 08:44

To those saying it was a light cold…

Covid was a new virus belonging to the same set of viruses as SARS. NOT the same set of viruses as flu.

People have experienced colds/flu etc before so your body has some learnt immunity.

As this was a new virus, it was difficult to say how different people would react and how the virus could mutate.

So before the vaccine, a lot of people had serious complications and hospitals couldn’t cope across all their services.

Curtainqueen · 17/11/2024 08:43

It has not really gone anywhere. I mean people aren't catching it at the same rates but they are still getting it. I had a contractor cancel last week after testing positive. I had a booster last month as I'm vulnerable and at risk but I still worry in crowded places and public transport when I hear someone spluttering and coughing. It made me so unwell when I got it that I never want to catch it ever again. That was 6 months after a booster so I wasn't fully protected anymore but I'm definitely more wary.

Barrenfieldoffucks · 17/11/2024 08:41

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 17/11/2024 00:16

OP, that is some self-indulgent, finger-wagging cringe-fest but I hope it was at least cathartic for you.

Ha, exactly what I thinking.

Differentstarts · 17/11/2024 08:38

Firstly as someone with long covid I absolutely remember covid. Unfortunately what your remembering is not what I'm remembering. I worked in a supermarket before being shielded so I got of easy but I remember the beginning which was people fighting over loo roll, refusing to wear face masks, not being capable of keep their distance. People coughing in my face without covering their mouth, licking their fingers before passing money over and the abuse to staff going up.

LlynTegid · 17/11/2024 08:38

I agree with you OP. An aspect of 2020 and 2021 that has been forgotten was those who used the pandemic to their advantage, especially corrupt procurement and fake businesses. I want justice for that to be served.

RedRiverShore5 · 17/11/2024 08:35

There was a lot of arseholes traipsing over fields with their shitting lockdown dogs

Spuddling · 17/11/2024 08:34

TTPDTS · 16/11/2024 23:06

Hmm I don't really remember that being a side of covid that I saw!

I don't think it was ever going to change how the world was, a lot of people were incredibly unhappy during covid and couldn't wait to get back to normality - I'm not sure it really did any good for society.

Exactly. The lockdown killed my mother. She became mentally unwell, abandoned by the NHS and was given a powerful drug that likely killed her. The inquest was inconclusive.

My child's education was ruined.

I'll never get over the effects of lockdowns.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 17/11/2024 08:34

There are people who were able to remain fairly oblivious to the nastiness going on during the pandemic, because they weren't easy targets.

Arcrisp · 17/11/2024 08:33

Superworm24 · 17/11/2024 08:26

People were arseholes during covid, just like they are at any other time. Do you not remember all the supermarkets being stripped bare? Or people calling the police on their neighbours for exercising too much? Just have a look at some of the thread on here from the time.

Yes. It really opened my mind to how petty some people could be. I had many middle-class friends happy with their comfortable stockpiles, judging anyone who didn’t do the pandemic the exact way they did. An eye-opener.

SilverGlitterBaubles · 17/11/2024 08:31

Amyknows · 17/11/2024 08:04

Are people still going on and blaming Covid? It was one year of your life. If there were problems, it was there long before. Yes there are some extreme cases, but according to Mn it's the root of society today! When kids got back to school a few months in and it was all back to normal. Sorry but it's been 4 years now, time to get over it.

It was not back to normal a few months in. DCs were still being sent home to isolate if one class member tested positive. The whole household had to isolate and contacted by test and trace. They locked down again pre Christmas. GCSEs and Alevel exams were cancelled. The disruption to education was more than a few months.

Superworm24 · 17/11/2024 08:26

People were arseholes during covid, just like they are at any other time. Do you not remember all the supermarkets being stripped bare? Or people calling the police on their neighbours for exercising too much? Just have a look at some of the thread on here from the time.

VivianLea · 17/11/2024 08:25

The world realised what was important. Now it has too easily gone back to the superficiality it was before and people complaining about everything.

I experienced the exact opposite. I had a newborn and was suddenly cut off from spending precious days with my family. I missed my friends and their children, I missed the little community I'd carved out for myself in my town 200 miles from my family. I missed my best friend, whose mental health was getting worse and worse until she eventually moved back to her home country and hasn't come back. Friends had elderly relatives left alone in care homes, some of them dying alone. Funerals in isolation, weddings cancelled.

I know what's important. Family, friends, community, caring for each other. Lockdown obliterated that, it didn't suddenly make me realise that it mattered

blackheartsgirl · 17/11/2024 08:24

pumpkinpillow · 17/11/2024 00:25

I'm sure there were twats as there have always been, but I thought it was a positive thing that suddenly many jobs which are low paid and often looked down on as unskilled and unimportant suddenly got more respect e.g. carers, supermarket workers, food provision, bus drivers.

Cleaners too especially hospital domestics. I was one in covid. Many of us lost our lives to working on covid wards.

we are the worst treated amongst NHS staff.

Ill never forget a comment that a colleague told me about a nurse who rudely told her to clean down a bed next to a Covid patient in a room full of Covid patient, she said that’s your next job, that’s what your there for, you get Covid so we don’t have to.
unfortunately for her a consultant overheard her and absolutely wiped the floor with her, said that if it wasn’t for us there wouldn’t be a hospital to work in and for patients to get better.

there were a lot of twats around before covid, twats in covid and even bigger twats around now.

and as for all the saucepan banging and hand clapping on a Thursday ugh

CheeseyOnionPie · 17/11/2024 08:16

Attelina · 16/11/2024 23:08

It was mostly all nonsense and lies.

Ok Doctor

Tina159 · 17/11/2024 08:14

I loved it, the weather was amazing, ds was home for a few months, we spent loads of time in the garden and it was so quiet and peaceful with hardly any cars on the road. I could do that for a few months every year tbh.

FridayFeelingmidweek · 17/11/2024 08:13

I understand. I also agree that entitlement has increased. Teaching as a profession has certainly changed post covid in a negative way (children's behaviour and especially parents' attitudes to learning, absence and teachers in general). Sorry you're feeling this way as a front line worker. We shoukd be grateful there are any of you left working after the conditions you faced.

Freysimo · 17/11/2024 08:11

SwanRivers · 17/11/2024 00:37

The funny thing was, every fucker and his wife was a keyworker by the time the second lockdown came around.

Mostly because their firms wanted them working.

I'm a volunteer dog walker and even I was designated "key worker" at the time!

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 17/11/2024 08:11

theresabluebirdinmyheart · 17/11/2024 08:08

Trust me, many of us were far from “safe and cosy” in our homes. You have no idea what others had going on or how lockdown negatively affected them. I think you need to check your own attitude actually.

This.

The post you quote was fair enough until that point. But there's no excuse for not knowing, in 2024, how lockdown also meant trapping some people in the home with their abusers. Don't recall those people volunteering to put their lives at risk for the benefit of wider society.

LittleBitAlexisLaLaLaLaLa · 17/11/2024 08:09

I swear I’ve read this exact OP word for word at least once before. Is it just copied and pasted every few months or something?

theresabluebirdinmyheart · 17/11/2024 08:08

olympicsrock · 17/11/2024 06:50

That’s a bit what it felt like actually. Your attitude stinks .
We were seeing patients with Covid with no PPE. I looked after young people having strokes losing limbs on ventilators and dying . Every day involved telling relative their loved ones were dying or dead.
I felt very angry driving to work on deserted roads to the hospital in the summer of 2020.
I had not volunteered to risk my life or put my family at risk.
The rest of the country was safe and cosy in their homes while key workers were required to put ourselves at risk. And yes I did become very ill from Covid ( pre vaccines) .

Trust me, many of us were far from “safe and cosy” in our homes. You have no idea what others had going on or how lockdown negatively affected them. I think you need to check your own attitude actually.

Yalta · 17/11/2024 08:06

MrsSkylerWhite · 16/11/2024 23:35

Attelina · Today 23:08
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It was mostly all nonsense and lies

Not if you had a vulnerable loved one. How nasty are you?

vulnerable loved ones all got Covid and faired better than ds,dd, and myself.

Covid for them was a light cold.

For the rest of us it was a horrible infection that lasted weeks and the post viral fatigue was something that wiped us out

Motheranddaughter · 17/11/2024 08:06

I hated every minute of it and couldn't wait to get back to normal
Some people seemed to love it,IME people who didn't go out or go on holiday and enjoyed everyone being in the same boat

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 17/11/2024 08:06

When I see the word 'sheep' in discussions about covid, it makes me switch off. Same with selfish and clot shot.

DieStrassensindimmernass · 17/11/2024 08:06

Amyknows · 17/11/2024 08:04

Are people still going on and blaming Covid? It was one year of your life. If there were problems, it was there long before. Yes there are some extreme cases, but according to Mn it's the root of society today! When kids got back to school a few months in and it was all back to normal. Sorry but it's been 4 years now, time to get over it.

What an uninformed and uneducated comment.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 17/11/2024 08:05

Amyknows · 17/11/2024 08:04

Are people still going on and blaming Covid? It was one year of your life. If there were problems, it was there long before. Yes there are some extreme cases, but according to Mn it's the root of society today! When kids got back to school a few months in and it was all back to normal. Sorry but it's been 4 years now, time to get over it.

Sorry, but if you think it all went back to normal when kids went back to school a few months in, you don't know what you're talking about.

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