Need a hand hold -Part 3

How big was their hedge?xx

It’s beautiful isn’t it @Munchyseeds2 . He’s definitely got a space waiting for him in heaven although I hope thats a long time away.
Thank you so much , I’m not going to worry about Monday I’ve been through worse things and I’ll get through it . Being positive makes such a difference to my life.
Tv and internet is sorted , although I was in the kitchen and went white because someone in the living room was saying my name so I went in and it was the flipping tv! It talks to you!
You’ll be full of goodness with your tea, I’ve never tried liver. But I do love a home cooked meal .
I hope you have a lovely week @Munchyseeds2 . Big hugs xxx

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣my daughter just asked me what I’m laughing at . Oh I do sometimes wish I could be a fly on the wall xx

Hi @Nottogetapenny , how are you this evening?
My daughter has just made us pasta and garlic bread and she’s had a long bath. So we both relaxing now.
Sometimes in life I think you meet people that have a profound impact on you and he was definitely one of them. He didn’t grumble or moan , was thankful to still be here, was so grateful for these new drugs they are giving him and was just a lovely kind person.
Ohhh that kit sounds lovely , where do you get them from? At the garden centre yesterday they had a slice section and they had ‘curry crackers’ so basically a slice mix and recipe in a cracker they was so cute . I’m so pleased you had a lovely yummy dinner xx

Thank you lovely. He was definitely a gentleman with the kindest eyes I’ve ever seen. He was telling me all about his life and that his ex wife used to hurt him and belittle him until one day he said ‘I’ve had enough’ and walked away. But he said he wouldn’t change a thing because it led him to his beautiful wife 🥹🥹🥹🥹xx

It’s lovely isn’t it @kittylion2 , it was really humbling. And he was so lovely towards his wife he said he can’t grumble at what life throws at him because he has a beautiful wife and she makes him be thankful for every day.
There’s was lots of laughs and tears. It made my day tbh if not week. He was a very special man xx

Hi @PeggyMitchellsCameo , awww sending you the biggest hug lovely. Tooth pain and ear pain are awful but together ? Ouch . You poor thing.
Sorry but ‘man that you live’ made me howl 🤣🤣🤣😂
And I must see this extra verse 🤣🤣🤣
Sending you a big hug xxx

Hi @Apolloneuro , how are you today? Awww I bet you love having your grandchild especially since you missed it last week.
How are you feeling in yourself now?xx

Oh please tell me you have CCTV? 🤣🤣😂😂

Hi @BeNavyCrab , how’s your day been? Hope hubby is ok after the dentist. Did you start decorating your diary? What a lovely present that would make I bet your mum loves them. It’s so therapeutic crafting isn’t it xx

Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Hi @RaspberryBeretxx , it’s lovely to hear from you. Does DPs mean ‘dear parents’? If so I hope you had a lovely time. Oh I love a good trip to b&m always come out with loads of random stuff. Heated throw sounds lovely and hot choc maker.
When I was at garden centre yesterday they had some hot chocolate bombs which you put inside warm milk and when they melt there’s loads of mini marshmallows inside.
I’m loving the magnetic tie backs they are so handy I’m going to get some for my other rooms when I get round to it.
The sofa is amazing, I love it. Takes me 10 mins to sit down on it though as have to remove 1000 cushions first but once your sat down it’s bliss.
You’re all making me feel so much better about my scars , thank you. 🙏
I had my oncologist appointment today and as I was trying to sit down a man on the seat next to me asked if I needed any help. We got talking and he was with his wife. They was absolutely lovely people. Anyway we really shared our history it was so strange like we’d known each other for ages. He has got cancer which has spread to his brain and has hundreds of tumours in his body . He too became paralysed from treatment for 9 months and his foot was paralysed and he went blind for months and now he’s on tablet medication which he takes 15 a day. He said they have helped shrink the big tumour in his brain by loads . He was so positive and had such a lovely outlook on life. Anyway he asked to hear my story and I told him what’s happened this year inc everything with ex and where I’m at now and when I looked up to he was rubbing tears from his face. Oh my heart 🥹
I was telling them all about you spoonies and how you all have helped me so much and saved me and helped change my outlook on life. He said he found the people he didn’t think he was that close to helped him more than the people who he thought would be there and that resonated with me so much . He was telling me that during his treatment he was allowed to leave the hospital for an hour so they went to a cafe up the road and there was a queue . He got talking to the guy in front of him and was saying how nice the mince pies looked and said ‘I shouldn’t really be having one of them’ because of the weight he had out on with steroids . And the guy in front asked why so he told him. Anyway when he got to the front of the queue and ordered mince pies and drinks the lady said it had all been paid for and also gave him an envelope . Inside the envelope was a note and it said ‘thank you for humbling me today , I was having a bad day because of little stresses but you have made me realise what’s important and what’s not, please take this gift and for one day don’t worry about what you should and shouldn’t be eating and just enjoy your day with your wife and go out for a nice meal when your feeling well enough’ and he’d put £100 in the envelope 🥹🥹🥹🥹. The guy said he broke down there and then in this cafe.
We had to laugh as we was speaking for about an hour then his wife asked what happens next and he said oh I don’t know . She went to check and they’d all finished for the day and they’d been sitting there 😂😂😂😂. When he said goodbye he asked if he could give me a hug and he hugged me and kissed me on the cheek and said ‘don’t let anybody try and dim your light ever again’ well I had tears rolling down my face in front of everyone.
I’ll never forget that encounter for as long as I live.
My appointment went well , oncologist wants to wait and see what they find on Monday and go from there and then have an MDT meeting to discuss results. Only bad thing about today was they couldn’t find a vein they kept putting the needle in but no blood was coming out so after 3 attempts they went in through my hand and wow that is painful 😣. Hand still feels tender now and she said I’ll have a bad bruise . But all done until next week xx