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Need a hand hold -Part 3

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Imbluedalale · 16/11/2024 20:16

Episode 15 Hello GIF by SpongeBob SquarePants

Hi spoonies , welcome to new thread , thank you so so much for supporting me .

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Imbluedalale · 23/11/2024 00:17

eatreadsleeprepeat · 23/11/2024 00:00

She is being a Mum, maybe making up for lost time. She is obviously really enjoying being able to buy things for you and see you comfortable. And it is very easy to get carried away in Costco!

Hi @eatreadsleeprepeat , your so right it is easy to get carried away in Costco that’s probably why I avoid it 😂.
I just feel guilty and don’t want her spending all her money on me I can wait for things I don’t need them straight away. I know she wants me to feel settled and homely but I’m just thrilled I have a home I can wait for everything else xx

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Imbluedalale · 23/11/2024 00:14

Meanwhile33 · 22/11/2024 23:24

Evening all! I’ve been busy this week so have caught up with the thread a few times but not had time to post. Your pets are all gorgeous. @BeNavyCrab i love the idea of living on a houseboat, it’s always seemed like a very romantic life.

@Imbluedalale its so lovely to hear about all the good things that have happened to you this week. I hope your throat starts to feel better soon and your body starts to recover from everything you’ve been through so you can feel healthy again.

I’m feeding 9 people for lunch on Sunday and can’t work out what to cook. Two vegetarians, one fussy kid. I want it to be easy but also nice and hot and filling. I was thinking of a Christmas style ham, but then what?

Evening @Meanwhile33 , it’s lovely to hear from you. I hope you’re ok despite your hectic week.
Right I have found some suggestions for the vegetarians and kids and some dishes to go with the ham :
For the vegetarians -Baked spaghetti bake (is delicious)
Vegan Chilli (could also have crusty bread which you can also eat with the ham)
Garlic and chilli new potatoes (these are delish and very easy to do)
Vegetable pasta
Baked Ziti
Cheeseboard tart
Also a lot of Indian dishes are vegan
sweet potato casserole
cheesy scalloped potatoes

For the kids -pitta pizzas
Jacket potato’s -could use the chilli / cheese
Mac and cheese
Pasta
Xx

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eatreadsleeprepeat · 23/11/2024 00:00

She is being a Mum, maybe making up for lost time. She is obviously really enjoying being able to buy things for you and see you comfortable. And it is very easy to get carried away in Costco!

Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 23:49

BeNavyCrab · 22/11/2024 22:17

@Imbluedalale Fingers crossed for your son, that they don't need to operate. Although sometimes it's actually better in the long run if they do. My mum broke her arm in the past and they said she would have an operation but then decided against it. It healed but not with proper bone, so many years and breaking it again, they eventually had a big operation to remove the flexible fiberous tissue. It's left her with muscle wastage because of being in a cast for so long. Your son has got age on his side, things tend to heal quickly when you are young.

I second the use of a heated over blanket or throw. They are brilliant as they heat up quickly and are very economical as you are heating your body and not the whole room. I love mine and it's great to be able to go to a bed that's already warmed a bit. Hopefully being a new build the cost of heating will be reasonable.They are much more efficient than older buildings. My son is in a small flat and it's amazing how warm it is with minimal heating on.
@Ruralretreating

We don't have a wood burner on the boat. We used to have a diesel one but took it away when the kids were little because it wasn't possible to make it safe from getting burnt by it. We have an oil filled radiator and have added additional insulation boards to try to keep the heat in. Most of the time it's ok, it's just when the tide is out and strong winds whipping past the hull, that it's struggling to keep up. I tend to feel the cold more because I can't move around without assistance.

Evening @BeNavyCrab hope you’re ok and nice and cosy in your lovely home . It sounds like bliss.
Ouch your mums operation sounds painful bless her . My son seems to be ok although he said it’s painful. Hopefully they won’t have to operate and if they do have to I’m hoping ex won’t come back so I can be there for my son.
Sore throat is now turning into a cough . I hate coughing. Think I caught the cough from my sister as she mentioned she couldn’t sleep night before with coughing .
I’ve been doing some house admin today, ordered all my bins then asked to be put through to council tax section to get a council tax bill and stop paying on old property but they can’t produce a bill at the moment as the property hasn’t been banded yet due to it being a new build so they have to get a valuer out to band it then I’ll get a bill . Then I had to ring daughters college re getting her another bus pass as she now has a different route to do too on a special college bus . The woman wasn’t very helpful and she said I’d have to pay two lots of £375 which will last until summer term next year which isn’t ideal right now.
I’ve been measuring tonight with a tape measure (first time I’ve used one) and I rang my dad and said my room is 32 inches and he said he thinks it’s bigger than that and he’ll measure it tomorrow properly 😂
My mum rang me at 9am this morning as she was at Costco with my sister and she said she’d seen 72 bags of crisps in a box . Quavers , monster munch , wotsits etc and asked if I wanted a box . I said no thank you mum. She said ‘well I’ll get them anyway for you’ . 2 mins later she rings me back and said she’s got me a huge bottle of cocoa butter as I mentioned other day my elbows are really dry so I said thank you mum but save your money I’m ok. 5 mins after that she rang again and said ‘I’ve got you a kilo jar of coffee’ because I told her about offering the workmen a drink and they wanted coffee and I didn’t have any as I don’t drink it . I said mum your bought me enough stop buying me things and she said ‘well it was only £7.99’. The woman never stops shopping! I’m still tired from going to the Range on Monday 😂I need to rest for 3 months now xx

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Meanwhile33 · 22/11/2024 23:24

Evening all! I’ve been busy this week so have caught up with the thread a few times but not had time to post. Your pets are all gorgeous. @BeNavyCrab i love the idea of living on a houseboat, it’s always seemed like a very romantic life.

@Imbluedalale its so lovely to hear about all the good things that have happened to you this week. I hope your throat starts to feel better soon and your body starts to recover from everything you’ve been through so you can feel healthy again.

I’m feeding 9 people for lunch on Sunday and can’t work out what to cook. Two vegetarians, one fussy kid. I want it to be easy but also nice and hot and filling. I was thinking of a Christmas style ham, but then what?

BeNavyCrab · 22/11/2024 22:17

Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 13:23

Hi @BeNavyCrab , how are you today? It’s certainly a cold one .
Wow I bet it’s amazing living on a houseboat, how interesting!
That’s adorable that your husband rescued the cat, big brownie points there .
Son is back at hospital on Monday they said they might need to operate on it so fingers crossed they don’t have to .
You’re all part of my memories now , you’re all ingrained into my soul 😂. And I hope you’ll all continue to be part of my future xx

@Imbluedalale Fingers crossed for your son, that they don't need to operate. Although sometimes it's actually better in the long run if they do. My mum broke her arm in the past and they said she would have an operation but then decided against it. It healed but not with proper bone, so many years and breaking it again, they eventually had a big operation to remove the flexible fiberous tissue. It's left her with muscle wastage because of being in a cast for so long. Your son has got age on his side, things tend to heal quickly when you are young.

I second the use of a heated over blanket or throw. They are brilliant as they heat up quickly and are very economical as you are heating your body and not the whole room. I love mine and it's great to be able to go to a bed that's already warmed a bit. Hopefully being a new build the cost of heating will be reasonable.They are much more efficient than older buildings. My son is in a small flat and it's amazing how warm it is with minimal heating on.
@Ruralretreating

We don't have a wood burner on the boat. We used to have a diesel one but took it away when the kids were little because it wasn't possible to make it safe from getting burnt by it. We have an oil filled radiator and have added additional insulation boards to try to keep the heat in. Most of the time it's ok, it's just when the tide is out and strong winds whipping past the hull, that it's struggling to keep up. I tend to feel the cold more because I can't move around without assistance.

Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 17:17

Apolloneuro · 22/11/2024 17:08

The heated throws are really cheap to run.

Ohhhh thank you I’ll have to invest in one xx

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Apolloneuro · 22/11/2024 17:08

The heated throws are really cheap to run.

Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 17:07

Munchyseeds2 · 22/11/2024 16:55

Oh lovely don't be cold. Go and put that heat on!!
Have you seen the electric throws you can get for when your sitting on the sofa and want to be warm without putting the heating on? They cost pennies to use.

I love a good casserole to be honest, one with all the veg and dumplings
Fav takeaway has to be indian

Oh you can’t beat a casserole but I’m naughty and like it with crusty bread. But dumplings are amazing! I’m terrible at making them though. You’ve made me really crave a casserole now 😂
I’ve got heat on will keep it on for half hour , I’ve seen those electric blankets but was worried they would cost too much now I’m really intrigued xx

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Munchyseeds2 · 22/11/2024 16:55

Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 16:08

Oh thanks for that info @Munchyseeds2 , my mums made me paranoid about the bills so I’m sat in the dark with no heating on 😂 gonna go put it on in a minute though as it’s very cold .
My mum makes her own KFC chicken as it has to be gluten free and it’s delicious and she makes lovely cakes with buttercream in. What’s your favourite meal to make?xx

Oh lovely don't be cold. Go and put that heat on!!
Have you seen the electric throws you can get for when your sitting on the sofa and want to be warm without putting the heating on? They cost pennies to use.

I love a good casserole to be honest, one with all the veg and dumplings
Fav takeaway has to be indian

Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 16:12

AdmittowearingCrocs · 22/11/2024 16:02

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I was wondering why you asked about a cage. She is very funny, she hides her toys under things or in a crevice then barks for me to find it or get it out. And she will play fetch ALL day if you are willing to throw a ball or a toy. 🐶

😂😂😂😂😂Sorry about that @AdmittowearingCrocs . Just ignore me .
Awww that is so sweet I’d love to see a video of her doing that xx

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Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 16:11

Apolloneuro · 22/11/2024 16:01

I think in spoonie land a cockerpoo can be a type of bird if you want it to be, Laura 😂

I was thinking cockateil. I only know that because I’ve just googled ‘birds beginning with cock’ so if anybody looks at my search history I’m in trouble 😂. In my defence they are very similar xx

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Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 16:08

Munchyseeds2 · 22/11/2024 15:42

@Imbluedalale you can go to any provider you like.. you are the one paying the bill

We just signed up to a BG fixed tariff last week for 2 years I think.... so the price per unit won't change

I'm like your mum, I don't use my oven much now I mostly cook for 2😀

I bet your support worker was really chuffed with the thank you gift xxx.

Oh thanks for that info @Munchyseeds2 , my mums made me paranoid about the bills so I’m sat in the dark with no heating on 😂 gonna go put it on in a minute though as it’s very cold .
My mum makes her own KFC chicken as it has to be gluten free and it’s delicious and she makes lovely cakes with buttercream in. What’s your favourite meal to make?xx

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Apolloneuro · 22/11/2024 16:07

Six was written by a couple of students for their end of degree theatre course and premiered at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival. Now it’s one of most successful musicals in the world. Amazing.

Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 16:05

Apolloneuro · 22/11/2024 15:41

Excellent summary!

Yes, am installed in daughter’s front room, with a coffee, while she finishes work up in her office.

We’re going to see Six tonight. It’s a musical about the wives of Henry V111

Oh that sounds right tho my street ! I love reading about Henry V111.
Fun fact for you, did you know that he enjoyed music so much that he had 60 musicians on his payroll?xx

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AdmittowearingCrocs · 22/11/2024 16:02

Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 15:55

Oh it’s a dog I thought it was a bird! She’s beautiful @AdmittowearingCrocs xx

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I was wondering why you asked about a cage. She is very funny, she hides her toys under things or in a crevice then barks for me to find it or get it out. And she will play fetch ALL day if you are willing to throw a ball or a toy. 🐶

Apolloneuro · 22/11/2024 16:01

I think in spoonie land a cockerpoo can be a type of bird if you want it to be, Laura 😂

Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 16:01

spoonfulofmustard · 22/11/2024 15:38

it's finally friday afternoon 🥳 ! I've been keeping an eye on all the updates and am also very jealous of the houseboat! your Chinese sounded great from last night @Imbluedalale must admit its my takeaway favourite

Yayyyyu @spoonfulofmustard

Hope you’ve had a lovely day xx

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Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 15:59

ChoccieCornflake · 22/11/2024 14:16

Hello! I'm well thanks @Imbluedalale ! Bloody freezing though! I think my metabolism is trying to convince me it needs to be fed more food in order to keep me warm, but I know it's lying to me and has plenty of fat reserves it could burn off first! I am placating it with a hot water bottle!

As to Shay and Blue - OOOOH! I will get right on over there! I love the sound of how lovely your sister's partner is to her - that's so heartwarming!

Keep posting the SpoonPets everyone, I'm loving them!

[Edited to add - I definitely know my metabolism is lying, as it's at least 20 degrees in here, so it's hardly cold!]

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Hi @ChoccieCornflake , when I was in crisis house and was eating one of the councillors said that it doesn’t matter what you eat in winter as everybody needs a winter coat. She said to worry about it in January. So go ahead and fuel your body there’s plenty of time till Jan.
My sisters partner is lovely , she’s been through a lot too bless her . She lost her son, my nephew when he was 2 to leukaemia and she was heavily pregnant with my niece. Also her ex husband who was in the army ended his life so it’s been hard for her so it’s nice to see her happy xx

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Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 15:55

AdmittowearingCrocs · 22/11/2024 13:40

Found a photo of my sons cockerpoo. She is adorable and I know she loves me as she gets so excited when she sees me. She is like another grandchild lol 😂

Oh it’s a dog I thought it was a bird! She’s beautiful @AdmittowearingCrocs xx

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Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 15:53

Munchyseeds2 · 22/11/2024 11:37

@Imbluedalale

Absolutely beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

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Apolloneuro · 22/11/2024 15:52

That makes complete sense to me, about the baubles, thinking about it. Fresh start.

Imbluedalale · 22/11/2024 15:50

AdmittowearingCrocs · 22/11/2024 11:19

Morning Laura and all the Spoonies, cold but sunny here on the very edge of the south coast in Hampshire and going to warm up considerably over the weekend. Sorry to hear your throat is still hurting Laura, and @PeggyMitchellsCameo hope your throat also feels better soon. I don’t have any pets but I look after my son and daughter-in-laws cockerpoo when they go on holiday, which is enough for me.
not feeling great as I pulled a muscle in my neck during the night when I turned over. Now I’m struggling to do things. It will get better but very annoying.
Would your older sister be able to ask your younger sister to give you your Christmas tree baubles back Laura?

Hi @AdmittowearingCrocs , happy Friday ☺️
Oh I’ve never seen a cockapoo in real life . My mum used to have a budgie but it used to bite but loved my mum and would kiss her. She told me to kiss it one day as it’s nice , she was called spot . So I did and she ripped half my top lip off. My mum thought it was hilarious. Do you have it in a cage?
I hope your neck starts to feel better soon , sending big hugs . I could ask about the baubles but I’m abit hesitant about putting them in my new house if I’m honest because it’s memories from before if that makes sense xx

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Apolloneuro · 22/11/2024 15:50

Munchyseeds2 · 22/11/2024 15:46

@Apolloneuro I think I would really enjoy that, I love that period of history, can't help thinking it was a very dangerous time to be alive tho!!
Have a lovely time

I’ve seen it before, in a regional theatre. It’s great. They all sing about their lives and then sing again about what their lives would have been like if they hadn’t met Henry.

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