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To think my landlord is overinvolved?

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MumHouseDilemma · 16/11/2024 14:30

Private landlord (no agency), SE England. LL owns the building (6 flats in it) and lives v nearby.

He doesn’t do regular inspections but it does feel like he’s here very regularly. If there’s an issue with the flat and a tradesman attends to assess the issue, my LL will then follow up to take photos of whatever it is that needs doing. He will usually also turn up with the tradesman, even if I’m in. I’m waiting in at the moment and this will be the second time he’s been here this month. He will usually take photos of parts that need replacing so he can source them for less than the tradesman has quoted (this was also why part of my flat was out of bounds for about 20 weeks but that’s another story)

Constant emails to the entire building about the bins/ recycling.

On one hand I’m grateful that he’s diligent and sorts stuff but on the other hand, I feel like I’m in an Air BNB with the constant emails, visits, reminders etc.

or is this entirely normal? I’ve rented my entire adult life but haven’t seen much consistency in practice with LLs.

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MumHouseDilemma · 16/11/2024 14:45

But also yes I take your point. I do just wish he’d trust the tradesman rather than the constant photographing and getting second opinions but beggars/choosers and all that

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MumHouseDilemma · 16/11/2024 14:45

PotteringAlonggotkickedoutandhadtoreregister · 16/11/2024 14:42

I think you can’t have it both ways here. You’ve rented directly from him so no agency fees and he sound diligent about sorting out what needs to be sorted.
if you’d rather that he wasn’t there then you need to a) rent via an agency or b) accept that there are compromises with repairs.
the beauty of renting is that you can make these decisions and leave the property if you don’t like it.

Surely there wouldn’t be agency fees anyway? Or do you mean fees to manage the property which he’d end up passing onto me through a higher rent?

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PotteringAlonggotkickedoutandhadtoreregister · 16/11/2024 14:42

I think you can’t have it both ways here. You’ve rented directly from him so no agency fees and he sound diligent about sorting out what needs to be sorted.
if you’d rather that he wasn’t there then you need to a) rent via an agency or b) accept that there are compromises with repairs.
the beauty of renting is that you can make these decisions and leave the property if you don’t like it.

MumHouseDilemma · 16/11/2024 14:36

Hankunamatata · 16/11/2024 14:32

Sounds OK that he checks out what needs fixing - waiting 20 weeks not so much.

The wait was because he was trying to source the parts for cheaper than the tradesman were quoting him. He did do it, eventually, but it involved five separate visits from five different tradesman to tell him the exact same thing. Frustrating!

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Hankunamatata · 16/11/2024 14:32

Sounds OK that he checks out what needs fixing - waiting 20 weeks not so much.

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