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womenloveittoo · 16/11/2024 13:29

I didn't want the thread to be raunchy as that's not what I'm asking.
I often read about women saying on threads how it's so easy for women to get D if they want. I'd like to know where these women speak off and why it's so easy but so difficult for me!
Lighthearted really. But I'm in my late 30's and being singe is no fun at all when you love sex like I do!
I don't understand where I'm going wrong...
I'm relatively attractive. Definitely not a stunner but certainly not hideous!
I have a job and a nice home. I'm a good friend and genuinely a really nice person! So I don't understand my predicament at all 😂
I know no one can give me an answer but where does all this 'it's so easy to find a man for sex' come from?

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Adviceneeeeded · 16/11/2024 13:35

It probably isn't hard to get. Whether it will be enjoyable is another question!

Devilsmommy · 16/11/2024 13:34

Women on here who talk about online dating make it sound like that would be what your after

OriginalUsername2 · 16/11/2024 13:32

Just go clubbing and make eye-contact?

BlackTable · 16/11/2024 13:31

For me, it was ex partners. When I was single - and they knew I was single, I would sometimes get a "hey, how are you?" Text every few months. If I followed that up it would almost certainly end up in a sexual encounter if I had wanted it to be.

So yeah, any ex partner or old male colleague/friend etc.

Balloonhearts · 16/11/2024 13:30

D? What's D? If you're not grown up enough to say it, you're not grown up enough to be doing it.

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