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Dh has walked off and left me alone at 1am in the street. 2 miles from home

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Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 00:59

Just that really. We were out with friends, going back to theirs. Dh refused to back to theirs but I don't know why. The others left in a cab. I couldn't leave dh alone in the pub. I I said I'm going home. He said OK. Followed me out in a fit and angry, cos he felt obliged to follow me. He's walked home. I'm 2 miles away from homre and sitting in the cold shivering
He messaged me to ask if I got an uber home. I said no, he said good we've spent £x on uber tonight.

He's walked home and I'm sitting on the kerb, 2 miles away in the dark, cold.

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Stichintime · 16/11/2024 01:04

I don't really understand this. You are an adult, you don't need a man to escort you home.

LadyWiddiothethird · 16/11/2024 01:04

You should have walked home with him! Are you drunk?

Wingedharpy · 16/11/2024 01:04

Put the phone away, get up off the kerb and go home.

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:04

He was in a huff but don't know why. I said I'm going home, he v reluctantly followed me I said don't bother. He said he wanted to walk home alone. So I let him. I'm in the cold, shivering, a good 2 miles away

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OchAyeTheN00 · 16/11/2024 01:04

This makes no sense. You chose not to leave him in the pub. He’s then walked home and you’ve chosen not to walk with him?

go home.

InWalksBarberalla · 16/11/2024 01:03

Why didn't you walk home with him?

AutumnalBaker · 16/11/2024 01:02

Go home.

CatsLikeBoxes · 16/11/2024 01:01

Why couldn't you leave him in the pub? As you stayed, why didn't you walk with him? Get an Uber home or even better, back to your friends' house?

justasking111 · 16/11/2024 01:01

Keep walking or get a taxi to a friend's

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:01

Tbh I thought he'd get home and expectc me to me there
I'm not. He can see where I am on a tracker we have for our son. He's now gone to bed..

Thoughts ?

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DogsandFlowers · 16/11/2024 01:00

Get a taxi and chuck him out tomorrow
Be safe xx

Domino20 · 16/11/2024 01:00

Why aren't you walking?

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