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Dh has walked off and left me alone at 1am in the street. 2 miles from home

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Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 00:59

Just that really. We were out with friends, going back to theirs. Dh refused to back to theirs but I don't know why. The others left in a cab. I couldn't leave dh alone in the pub. I I said I'm going home. He said OK. Followed me out in a fit and angry, cos he felt obliged to follow me. He's walked home. I'm 2 miles away from homre and sitting in the cold shivering
He messaged me to ask if I got an uber home. I said no, he said good we've spent £x on uber tonight.

He's walked home and I'm sitting on the kerb, 2 miles away in the dark, cold.

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Hualalai · 16/11/2024 01:27

I'm impressed at your Mumsnet messaging. You are even @'ing people correctly.

Now try ordering an Uber.

Balloonhearts · 16/11/2024 01:27

Then take an uber. On his credit card so that he gets woken up by the notification. Practical and spiteful. Two birds one stone. Now get up and go home!

MrsTerryPratchett · 16/11/2024 01:27

If it makes no sense, it probably isn't true. Reporting for nonsense.

IfIHadAHeart · 16/11/2024 01:26

Call a taxi. Or a friend, or a relative. Or get up and walk - unless you’re house is at the top of Scafell Pike then 2 miles is a 40 minute walk and will warm you up. You’re an adult. Take some responsibility.

StormingNorman · 16/11/2024 01:26

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:08

We were supposed to get in a cab to friends house. He refused but don't know why. Friends left
He told me to go with them
But I wasn't going to leave him alone in pub at 11.45pm. Friends left. I then said I was going home. He got the arse and felt like he HAD to follow me
I said don't bother if you feel like that
I've Been sitting on the cold kurb for an hour
He has walked home and messaged to day he's home if I need him. (He's drunk and can't drive to get me )

Edited

I don’t understand any of this. I think it’s because I’m sober.

WinterCrow · 16/11/2024 01:26

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:25

It's a long scary walk home

Do you have the Uber app on your phone?

NiftyKoala · 16/11/2024 01:25

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:10

I'm now sleeping the night on the kurb
He can see my location my clearly doesn't care

I'm all for proving a point but this is stupid. Go home.

Original poster
Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:25

It's a long scary walk home

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HelpMeGetThrough · 16/11/2024 01:25

LTK!!!

loropianalover · 16/11/2024 01:25

WinterCrow · 16/11/2024 01:24

I'm assuming the OP is in her cups.

No she’s on her kerb 🤭

TempestTost · 16/11/2024 01:24

You told him to piss off and he did. He's probably tired of stupid games.

Two miles is not far, you can be there in half an hour if you start walking now. If you don't you have no one but yourself to blame.

Frith2013 · 16/11/2024 01:24

2 miles is nothing. You could do that in half an hour and you wouldn't be cold if you were walking.

Original poster
Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:24

Thanks @Youhaveyourhandsfull

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WinterCrow · 16/11/2024 01:24

I'm assuming the OP is in her cups.

Frith2013 · 16/11/2024 01:23

So he tried to follow or accompany you home. You told him not to. He carried on alone.

Now you are sitting on a kerb, sulking.

Is that right?

Balloonhearts · 16/11/2024 01:23

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PensivePencil · 16/11/2024 01:23

You’re probably at worst a 35 - 40 min walk from home, just walk back or get an uber. This is a drunken argument, don’t cut off your nose to spite your face.

Youhaveyourhandsfull · 16/11/2024 01:23

Given all this drama I am absolutely not surprised he left you and went home.

XChrome · 16/11/2024 01:22

She's either quite drunk or this is a massive wind up.
She's just posting the same thing over and over; "He walked home without me. I'm on the curb."
MN (in unison); "Get off the curb and walk home."
OP; "He walked home without me. I'm on the curb."

AtomHeartMotherOfGod · 16/11/2024 01:20

StSwithinsDay · 16/11/2024 01:16

He clearly doesn't care I'm sitting on the kerb.
He is probably fed up with your drama llama shite.

Thank you 😂

RhannionKPSS · 16/11/2024 01:20

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:15

Ty all. I am so so so cold. He clearly doesn't care I'm sitting on the kerb. I'm so upset at him. Our friends think it weird how he's acted

Go home, get a grip and go home. You are being weird now

penmanship · 16/11/2024 01:20

OP, why can’t you order an uber? Like seriously - what is the reason why you can’t order one?

Spectre8 · 16/11/2024 01:20

So he reluctantly followed you when tou left to go home, you told him not to bother so being drunk he just carried on walking home whilst you sat down on a kerb. Why did you say not to bother should of just carried on walking home with him behind you.

Why have you been sitting in the cold for an hour, he isn't coming to get you so just go home. This is incredibly stupid behaviour on your part.

Cindersroo · 16/11/2024 01:19

Do you have the funds for an Uber/Taxi? If yes why aren’t you just ordering one ?

It sounds like you’re very drunk. Try and get yourself home safe and sober up then ask questions of your partner in the morning

Original poster
Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:19

I just wanted him to show he Cared about me. He is probably in bed now

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