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Dh has walked off and left me alone at 1am in the street. 2 miles from home

587 replies

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 00:59

Just that really. We were out with friends, going back to theirs. Dh refused to back to theirs but I don't know why. The others left in a cab. I couldn't leave dh alone in the pub. I I said I'm going home. He said OK. Followed me out in a fit and angry, cos he felt obliged to follow me. He's walked home. I'm 2 miles away from homre and sitting in the cold shivering
He messaged me to ask if I got an uber home. I said no, he said good we've spent £x on uber tonight.

He's walked home and I'm sitting on the kerb, 2 miles away in the dark, cold.

OP posts:
O6bftdff · 16/11/2024 01:40

Get a taxi to the friend’s.

TheChippendenSpook · 16/11/2024 01:37

He definitely has kicked you to the kerb hasn't he?

MrsTerryPratchett · 16/11/2024 01:37

FreeRider · 16/11/2024 01:34

Is it half term? What a load of fucking shit.

Yup.

MrsWinslowsSoothingSyrup · 16/11/2024 01:36

Get a cab to your mates house and join the party

Hualalai · 16/11/2024 01:35

OP is 51 years old with 15 year old kids according to a thread she started a couple of days ago.

OP, c'mon what would you tell your kids to do in this situation.

vodkaredbullgirl · 16/11/2024 01:35

To bed

Go Home GIF by Mean Girls
FreeRider · 16/11/2024 01:34

Is it half term? What a load of fucking shit.

CoraPirbright · 16/11/2024 01:32

Grow up and get yourself home. He may have behaved like an arse but there is nothing to be gained by freezing to death on some bloody curb.

XChrome · 16/11/2024 01:32

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Lol!

Nine9 · 16/11/2024 01:32

And you can't order a taxi/uber yourself because...?

DaniMontyRae · 16/11/2024 01:32

Cindersroo · 16/11/2024 01:19

Do you have the funds for an Uber/Taxi? If yes why aren’t you just ordering one ?

It sounds like you’re very drunk. Try and get yourself home safe and sober up then ask questions of your partner in the morning

She's posting coherently on here, I doubt she's that drunk

TheCatterall · 16/11/2024 01:31

@Boopadoop90 do you have access to funds to get an Uber or taxi? If so - get one.

Attelina · 16/11/2024 01:30

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:04

He was in a huff but don't know why. I said I'm going home, he v reluctantly followed me I said don't bother. He said he wanted to walk home alone. So I let him. I'm in the cold, shivering, a good 2 miles away

You have created unnecessary drama.

SallyForf · 16/11/2024 01:30

You have been so unreasonable. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Your prize is a) a cold walk home or, b) a chilly night not sleeping outside somewhere or, c) being attacked by a bloke.

Yay, you lil winner, you.

Gingernaut · 16/11/2024 01:30

The others left in a cab.

You had a chance to leave safely and didn't take it

I couldn't leave dh alone in the pub.

Does he have special needs? Is he not a big enough boy? Was it already hammered?

MrPickles0001 · 16/11/2024 01:29

based on previous threads, in this case the omg part is the dh did exactly as the op said to do

bevelino · 16/11/2024 01:29

OP, get yourself home and quit the stupidity.

Balloonhearts · 16/11/2024 01:28

Frith2013 · 16/11/2024 01:28

You'd think she would manage to spell kerb (or even curb) correctly after the 568954th attempt.

Probably could have before the 568954th drink but you've no hope now.

Edingril · 16/11/2024 01:28

Stichintime · 16/11/2024 01:04

I don't really understand this. You are an adult, you don't need a man to escort you home.

Are you new around here? We can't go anywhere alone

NotaCoolMum · 16/11/2024 01:28

You sound like a giant pain in the ass.

Frith2013 · 16/11/2024 01:28

You'd think she would manage to spell kerb (or even curb) correctly after the 568954th attempt.

MrPickles0001 · 16/11/2024 01:27

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:08

We were supposed to get in a cab to friends house. He refused but don't know why. Friends left
He told me to go with them
But I wasn't going to leave him alone in pub at 11.45pm. Friends left. I then said I was going home. He got the arse and felt like he HAD to follow me
I said don't bother if you feel like that
I've Been sitting on the cold kurb for an hour
He has walked home and messaged to day he's home if I need him. (He's drunk and can't drive to get me )

Edited

rightly or wrongly he did what you asked and he listen to what you said ?

loropianalover · 16/11/2024 01:27

MrsTerryPratchett · 16/11/2024 01:27

If it makes no sense, it probably isn't true. Reporting for nonsense.

I think we’re going to need OP to post a pic of her new kerb as proof.

HollaHolla · 16/11/2024 01:27

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:25

It's a long scary walk home

Get. A. Fucking. Cab.

Or walk. It’s only 2 miles. This is the situation those of us on our own have to sort all the time.

You know you’re just being ridiculous now.

Anotherparkingthread · 16/11/2024 01:27

Lol op this is some juvenile shit.

Go home. You're in the cold because of you. You're alone because of you. You're in the scawy wawy dark because of you.

Take charge, stop looking for drama. You're not a kitten stuck up a tree. Get a cab or walk home. Deal with dp in the morning and re-evaluate your relationship with alcohol while you're at it.