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DH talking about divorce over air fryer

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booklady1990 · 16/11/2024 00:01

Just had a really disappointing chat with DH tonight. I want to borrow an airfryer for our babyshower next weekend and he just didn't seem interested at all, and even brought up divorce! AIBU to be upset by this?? not sure why its gone bold

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GreenSmithing · 16/11/2024 05:04

Reassure him that you'll put it in the utility room so people don't have to see it

Userxyd · 16/11/2024 04:58

Enough4me · 16/11/2024 00:37

You need the latest airfryer model. Does everything he does and more and on time.

🤣🤣🤣

ceruleansky · 16/11/2024 04:39

Seems like a deeper issue. Maybe communicate and try to find out what his real issue with you is..

ThinWomansBrain · 16/11/2024 04:26

had you discussed cooking part of his anatomy in the air fryer?

UsernameNameUser · 16/11/2024 04:25

OP! Apparently there’s another husband on offer here on mumsnet - be careful though, he might walk home and leave you throwing a tantrum on a kerb

Seriously though, if someone threatens you with divorce, take them up on it. You’ll see that 9 times out of 10, he’ll tuck tail and panic. Personally, I’d borrow the air fryer and put the divorce papers in the tray, ask him to open it, and then be standing behind him with his bags (unpacked obviously, he can do that himself)

Gettingbysomehow · 16/11/2024 04:05

He should watch the divorce threats. My exH used to threaten divorce all the time over not getting what he wanted. So one day I locked him out of my house and we got one.
Threatening divorce is a hateful way to live.

tolerable · 16/11/2024 03:37

You can Always upgrade a air fryer

Riapia · 16/11/2024 03:13

Is an air fryer the latest must have at a baby shower.

EliflurtleAndTheInfiniteMadness · 16/11/2024 03:07

T4phage · 16/11/2024 00:08

To be honest, airfryers are often more useful than husbands, so I'd stick with the airfryer.

😂 mine certainly is. I ditched the ex, not the air fryer.

Mummyoflittledragon · 16/11/2024 03:05

But in all seriousness op, what happened. Are you ok. Because this isn’t a normal thing to say and you’re pregnant so more vulnerable right now. Is he normally demanding / controlling?

Mummyoflittledragon · 16/11/2024 03:04

FetchezLaVache · 16/11/2024 01:12

You can borrow my air fryer! You can borrow my husband too if you like. I'd only really want the air fryer back.

Lol. I don’t have an airfryer. But I have a husband. I don’t have any use for this kind offer. Two husbands really would send me over the edge…

olivechuu · 16/11/2024 02:54

Fintoo · 16/11/2024 02:53

This was also my first thought

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I would also love to know what had to be discussed with husband regarding the borrowing of the airfryer

Fintoo · 16/11/2024 02:53

ODFOx · 16/11/2024 01:15

Why do you need to borrow an air fryer for a baby shower?

This was also my first thought

DaisyTheLazy · 16/11/2024 02:48

DanceMoveGrooveAndShoutIt · 16/11/2024 00:04

Is he not on board with naming the baby Balonz?

What is wrong with Balonz? Isn't it a real Surrey name or summat? 😁😂😂😂

olivechuu · 16/11/2024 02:28

MeowCatPleaseMeowBack · 16/11/2024 01:26

Baby shower or babyque?

Dont think the baby will fit in the air fryer unless its one of those big ninja ones.

MeowCatPleaseMeowBack · 16/11/2024 01:26

Baby shower or babyque?

StandingSideBySide · 16/11/2024 01:22

FetchezLaVache · 16/11/2024 01:12

You can borrow my air fryer! You can borrow my husband too if you like. I'd only really want the air fryer back.

🤣🤣🤣🤣
I really am crying with laughter at that

Monty27 · 16/11/2024 01:18

This was a discussion?
How bizarre.

ODFOx · 16/11/2024 01:15

Why do you need to borrow an air fryer for a baby shower?

Edingril · 16/11/2024 01:14

OK what back story is missing

FetchezLaVache · 16/11/2024 01:12

You can borrow my air fryer! You can borrow my husband too if you like. I'd only really want the air fryer back.

SeatonCarew · 16/11/2024 01:09

There are some terrific deals on air fryers at the moment, coming. up to Black Friday. Just saying.

mamechange · 16/11/2024 00:59

😂😂

PurpleFlower1983 · 16/11/2024 00:54

Prob best to buy your own air fryer.

Scrimt · 16/11/2024 00:52

fella's looking for an out and leapt on the air fryer as the obvious route.

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