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Busymomof3 · 15/11/2024 09:44

Dear readers

My DD has BF because of her learning difficulties dyslexia etc I had her moved to a more appropriate school thinking I had made the right decision 2 years on she suffered bullying exclusion and teachers wouldn't do a thing about it.

So I decided as she had missed 20 days last year alone to move her back to her old school she was very happy about this as she plays sports with a few of the girls at her school etc.

She befriended her old BF again she was very happy about this even though she had to repeat a class so is a class behind now but all been taught by Same teacher as both classes in same classroom.

She asked to sit beside her as they were allowed to pick who to sit beside.
Yesterday they got moved she's upset about it I know for a fact it's BFs mom she doesn't like me.

Back 2 years ago I live in social housing SM with 3, kids. Didn't choose this but didn't work out with DP.
I work so my best bring my DC up as good as I can teach them to show respect to others good manners teachers always praise them so I must be doing something right!

Have them in sports.
She is of the opinion I'm a SM living in social housing and I know she looks down on me so has decided my DD isn't good enough for her DD.

Just find it so hurtful she would go and call the school and have them moved because if her opinions!! Of me!!
I have never done anything to her the only thing that did happen was my tyre was slashed as I have really bad neighbors her DD and my DD were at dance it was my turn to drive and she backed off straight away after that.

Nothing else has happened we live in a small town.
On Monday I see her at local cafe I say hi (more to annoy her as I know she's a snob!)
Anyways her DD says it to my DD at school that her mom saw me at cafe I was like oh yeah I saw her she was with a man and women and my DD says it back next day they get switched
AIBU????

OP posts:
Blushingm · 15/11/2024 10:13

You sound completely paranoid!

Ablondiebutagoody · 15/11/2024 10:12

Who cares where she sits? This is such an insignificant issue to be getting worked up about

Wakeywake · 15/11/2024 10:08

It's more likely the teacher separated them because they were giggling during lessons rather than the other mum complaining.

LadyMacbethssweetArabianhand · 15/11/2024 10:03

How do you know that the friend's mother phoned the school and asked her to be moved? You don't know for a fact. It may be that the teacher identified that the girls would be better apart for some learning, that she was teaching specific stuff to differentiate. A teacher won't just move a pupil on a parent's say so. They'd never be done moving children! I think you should stop focusing on this mum and what she might or might not be thinking and let it go

Pancakeflipper · 15/11/2024 09:51

Teachers will not adjust the seating plan because a patent asks then unless there are justified reasons.

The mother doesn't have to want to becfriends with you as. You don't have to be friends with her. You don't know her reasons for not wanting to be friends with you. You can only guess and often these guesses are not the full picture

Stop focusing on her

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