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What’s the mum “uniform” in your area?

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GrinAndBear · 14/11/2024 14:27

Is there a mum “uniform” - aka what you’d typically see someone in the playground or at the school gates wearing - in your area, and if so what is it?

I recently moved from Highgate to Finchley Central and it’s pretty different, despite being just two tube stops apart

CE / Highgate mums seemed to all wear Birkenstocks, hiking boots, straight cut jeans, parkas or Patagonia fleeces and fair isle or cashmere jumpers with hair in a messy bun.

Finchley Central mums are all in floral dresses Chelsea boots, blowdries, make up and proper coats and look at my scuffed old Blundstones as though I was living rough in a caravan… Not that I’m going to do anything about it mind, I’m very attached to my boots and fleece, but it’s odd how different it is

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PrincessHoneysuckle · 14/11/2024 16:47

S Yorkshire small town.
Leggings and hoodies.
Puffer coats and skinny jeans.

BoudiccasBangles · 14/11/2024 16:45

SatansBobbleheadedDashboardOrnament · 14/11/2024 16:37

No bra, neon visor, Barbour wellies and a pair of hot pants.

Too cold for that here.

tfresh · 14/11/2024 16:44

Where are people still wearing dry robes? That was the biggest flash in the pan I can remember. Utterly awful things

BoudiccasBangles · 14/11/2024 16:43

Rab down jacket, jeans, wellies, or leggings, DMs and long gilet. Rural mid-Wales. Edited to add that I wear candy stripe or animal dungarees. They’re always commented on 😂

Mymanyellow · 14/11/2024 16:38

Stockings and suspenders. Pink cowboy hat.

SatansBobbleheadedDashboardOrnament · 14/11/2024 16:37

No bra, neon visor, Barbour wellies and a pair of hot pants.

Maria1979 · 14/11/2024 16:36

Just looked up dry robe and I have never seen anyone in that, that's for sure! Would have noticed because I would have wondered if they were going out fishing.

Maria1979 · 14/11/2024 16:33

I just realised I haven't noticed! But if my DH had done the school run he surely would have noticed because he's very observant and likes to dress well and also watches how other people dresses. I make sure I'm clean and proper but I tend to think practical: dress in the summer and jeans jumper rest of the time. Nothing that draws attention.

CarrotPencil · 14/11/2024 16:24

Didimum · 14/11/2024 14:54

They wear clothes. And shoes. A coat if it's cold.

This 😄 they’re not one homogenous group so this is the only way to group them so.

Also how you can tell if someone exercises or works by what they wear at the school gates is quite the skill!

Fakinguntilyoumakeit · 14/11/2024 16:20

minipie · 14/11/2024 14:44

I think she means the ones who wore gym gear but didn’t exercise?

Edited

How would she know they don't exercise? Even if they don't, some people just find it comfortable don't they? Not everyone drives everywhere. I walk all over, and wear sports leggings sometimes, if somebody judges me they can f* right off. I'm fit and active.

Cakegoddesss · 14/11/2024 16:16

No longer do school run but walk past school on way to tube station (West London).

I notice puffa jackets, with and without sleeves and leggings. That’s about it but must pay more attention. No-one wears dungarees or anything too kooky or trying to be unique that I’ve noticed.

Definitely dress differently to central London folk, even on a weekend.

Alicecatto · 14/11/2024 16:15

I guess I learned what a dry robe is today. My mother would sometimes be in her coat over pyjamas when she dropped me off at school, LOL. In rural Lincolnshire….barbour jackets, jeans, jumpers, sturdy tall leather boots…have occasionally seen riding gear. Farmers’ wives have nice haircuts and manicures.

Compash · 14/11/2024 16:15

Tiedyesquad · 14/11/2024 15:34

I couldn't be more judgemental about anyone who looks at or cares what someone wears on the school run, or who plans what to wear. themselves. PLANS clothes! For the school run!! Literally the most bland chore in your day!! The school run!! Where you meet people who are literally nothing to you, not your friends, family or colleagues! (Unless you are friends, in which case they won't care).

Any normal person would be wearing precisely. whatever they were wearing before - comfy stuff if wfh, office clothes if at work, a lovely frock if you'd just been to lunch...

It's like caring what you wear to nip to the corner shop or put the bins out. Someone who looks put together, on purpose, for the school run, and hasn't just come from somewhere else, must truly be the most tragic of persons, with the tiniest little life.

There, I've got that mean spiteful opinion off me chest :)

But on the days you go out looking ropey, you will run into YOUR ENEMY looking glamorous! Guaranteed.

soberfabulous · 14/11/2024 16:15

I'm on my way to work so it's always corporate clothes: I am very much in the minority.

Stressedoutforever · 14/11/2024 16:14

Mizztikle · 14/11/2024 16:09

I'm very conflicted with this one, I don't want to be a sheep but this look looks so comfortable especially for winter. I feel myself being drawn to it😄

I gave in and 100% recommend- I'm so comfy, warm and snuggly 😂😂

boysmuminherts · 14/11/2024 16:13

Stressfordays · 14/11/2024 15:56

This is so weird that people notice. Were in a tiny village school in the Midlands countryside and the variety is huge. I always wearing leggings, hoodie, sports socks and trainers/crocs with my duvet coat 🤣 I must say, I've never seen a grown woman around here in a pair of dungarees though. Age usually plays a part in what people wear, we have a lot of grandparents doing the school run.

came here to write this. Never noticed what anyone is wearing on the school run....as far as I'm aware all different things depending on where the person is going after.

kezzykate · 14/11/2024 16:12

Sweaty Betty, dry robes or long puffas, white socks with adidas sambas or Birkenstock bostons, Botox - Essex

OneBadKitty · 14/11/2024 16:12

Industrial town in Yorkshire and there's not much of a uniform- it varies from dresses and tights with docs and a winter coat, jeans and sweatshirts or leggings with trainers and short or long puffa coats, wooly hats are just coming out at this time and the occasional mum in office wear.

Tattletail · 14/11/2024 16:11

Essex here.
A lot of gym wear with long puffy coats, quite muted colours.
The low slipper type uggs are everywhere at the moment.

Mizztikle · 14/11/2024 16:09

Stressedoutforever · 14/11/2024 15:46

Central Essex- Gillette (knee length)
Leggings
Jumper or hoody
Trainers
Blow-dry and lashes optional

I'm very conflicted with this one, I don't want to be a sheep but this look looks so comfortable especially for winter. I feel myself being drawn to it😄

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 14/11/2024 16:08

I’m not a mum but live right next to a school. It’s a total mix between lounge wear (Shein) to Lucy and Yak and the woman I saw just now in jeans and a puffa jacket. My ex NDN friend wore jeans or leggings and one of those Uniqlo/primarni light padded jackets. We have one woman who was referred to as like Amanda from Motherland so seemingly polished and trendy. Then I know a DM or two and honestly they just look like normal in jackets with leggings or jeans, depends if they’ve been working that day as to how smart they are. I’ve even been mistaken for a school mum and I’m normally dressed.

Lovelysummerdays · 14/11/2024 16:07

Rural Scotland and lots of Didriksons / big coats / tweed. Landrovers, labrador or other gun dog. £300 boots.

ADHDGURL · 14/11/2024 16:06

Lellamir · 14/11/2024 15:36

Well, I Googled it - and I'm none the wiser! Everything from a dinosaur print 'leisure suit', to leggings and a hoody came up!
How do you know a 'Shein set' when you see one?

The legs on the shein set as opposed to a better quality will be way too long and the top quite tight, just not fit right..although that could just be me at 5"1 wearing a 2 piece designed for a taller person...😂🙈

Memba · 14/11/2024 16:06

honeylulu · 14/11/2024 15:12

I don't do the school run much (and live in Berkshire not London) but when i do i see lots of full length puffer coats. I'm sure they are nice and warm but they make the wearers look like a load of hot water tanks waddling along.

When i was last on ML (2014) the mum uniform was jeans, black converse, breton stripe top and olive green parka. Absolutely every "mum" character on TV had the same parka! I had one and it wasn't at all flattering but very comfy though I had to stop wearing it because it made me look like a shoplifter.

Ha! Yes, I was just coming on to say when mine were in primary school 10 years ago in South London it was Converse, skinny jeans, breton top and parka. Which is a look I still occasionally sport 😳

RobinEllacotStrike · 14/11/2024 16:05

potatocakesinprogress · 14/11/2024 15:48

Gosh it must be nice to have nothing to do all day other than the school run.

I work full time and I'm a single parent - going to the beach pre work is one of the joys of WFH. Even on these November days there is a good community down there - all year round in fact. Many post school drop off Mums catching a swim before work.

Drop kids at school (mine usually walk now but I do still give a lift occassionally), head to beach, swim, sauna, home in time to start work at 9.30.

Truly bliss.

I've started going to early moring yoga now so my morings are now: yoga/home for coffee & change into swimsuit and dryrobe/swim/sauna, home for work.
Beats lazing around in bed doom scrolling (which I can still do if I dont get up & get going).

I'm happier than I have ever been & these mornings have a lot to do with it.