I feel like I know the answer to my own question but I've been made to feel really awkward about it, so curious what others would have done ?
My SIL DC who is 10 jumped on my DC cot and broke it. I am due to have another DB and was not intending to buy a new cot but now because it's broken, I will have to get one. I was fuming about it and mentioned to DH who has downplayed it and had no intentions to bring up his DS about sorting out. However, DH and his DS had talks about purchasing expensive beds and tech devices for her DS and I got annoyed and thought well if you're ok with my DH splashing on your kid, then why can't DS fix the problem her DC caused. I called SIL and told her that her DC had broken the cot and needed to be replaced etc.
Anyways, it's been really awkward since because I feel as though I should have kept quiet and just purchased out my own money since it's "close family".
AIBU for taking matters into my hands or AINBU ??