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Help - baby in car

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Merrygoround8 · 13/11/2024 21:23

Posting for any ideas/support!

My baby hates the car. Ever since she was 5 weeks old, every journey she screams until she can barely breathe. I honestly cannot face it but I have to do journeys for my other kids. The rest of the time I stay home or only go where I can walk and it’s really affecting my feeling of freedom now.

Has anyone had this? I am out of ideas. It is not the car seat, she’s happy to be in it as a buggy attachment.

We have tried the below, nothing makes a difference beyond about 3 mins.

  • different car seats
  • different cars
  • toys / music / distraction / YouTube baby sensory!
  • sitting next to her
  • being in the front (airbag off!)
  • mirrors
  • windows open / shut
  • Being fully fed / not fully fed in case queasy
  • just woken up / middle of wake window / sleepy

Perhaps the strangest part is that she is not a sensitive or highly strung baby. She is otherwsie very chirpy and relaxed!

Has anyone had this / did they grow out of it? She’s 4 months old so a way off being able to forward face, if that would even help.

Desperately hoping there is a magic solution I have missed or some reassurance this will pass soon…..

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AuntieKraker · 13/11/2024 21:44

We had this too. My first refused to even get into the car seat and we would have to wait until he was asleep to drive anywhere then at 4 months, he was suddenly ok with it. We didn’t do anything to cause that, it just happened.

My second was fine going in but wouldn’t manage for longer than 5 minutes. Gradually it got longer and longer.

Basically, time is what you need.

Gonegirl7 · 13/11/2024 21:41

Second baby hated it 0-6 months and then was fine

Kaleidoscopic101 · 13/11/2024 21:40

Is it a 'I'm protesting' kind of cry? Or is it a 'i'm in pain' kind of cry? I wonder if it's an air pressure thing like it can make your hearing and ears all foggy a bit like being on a plane?

2Orangesandlemons · 13/11/2024 21:37

Had this for months!! Baby grew out of it on their own!

Branleuse · 13/11/2024 21:36

Is she car sick?

Merrygoround8 · 13/11/2024 21:24

To add we have also tried baby osteopathy!

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