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Is it always worth splitting? Aibu to think it's not.

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MyTeethHurt · 13/11/2024 20:50

The alternate Christmases, the crappy house, the 5050 schedule, the step parents, the impact on the kids

Is it always worth it? There is No addiction, no adultery, just totally loveless.

I'm 36.

OP posts:
RandomMess · 13/11/2024 20:52

Depends what you mean by loveless.

Solid friendship & companionship, working as a team? That's love.

Lack of passion and sexual desire can be overcome/come to terms of both agree.

oatmy · 13/11/2024 20:52

You make some good points. How much joy is there is your life currently? For me, I am (generally) happy, chilled and optimistic and I know I would not be if I was still with my ex. But you may have a higher tolerance than I do!