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My cat is missing

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Lostcat · 12/11/2024 15:44

My cat has gone missing and I’m not coping . She’s honestly the most gorgeous and special animal you could imagine. She’s so loving and friendly and playful. She was born the same time as my latest DC and they’ve been growing up together.

She went out last night and didn’t come back. Partner and I were up every hour looking for her. This morning we’ve texted all the neighbours, posted in local WhatsApp and fbk groups, called the vet, reporting her missing on her microchip, put little and dirty clothes, food outside… we are going to print some leaflets and posters .. anything else?

our neighbour said he saw her last night when his dog chased her round the corner 😡.

Please share your positive cat stories.

we love her so much. She’s DD1’s pride and joy.

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WildGuide · 12/11/2024 16:09

I’m so sorry OP - it’s so stressful when it happens!

My cat did the same thing a few years ago. It was SO unlike her to go missing, she never went further than the garden and was always home at night. She was gone for about 24 hours then eventually came home late in the evening when it was dark. I think she’d had a real fright and was lying low.

My parents’ cat was gone for four days then just wandered home, a bit skinny and muddy.

Keep looking and calling for her. Leave her litter tray or bed (something that smells of her) outside so she can get the scent. Check regularly with neighbours re sheds and garages.

Cats are very resourceful and resilient. She is most likely fine and is just waiting for dark and quiet to find her way home. The most likely outcome is she will come back ♥️

Lostcat · 12/11/2024 16:07

returnofthecat23 · 12/11/2024 16:05

My cat went missing for 10 years, it was summer 2013 i took my children to school and sge was in the garden, and just didnt come back. Last dec i got a call saying she had been found.

This is obviously unusual, but they are resillient, never give up hope!

Wow!! You must have been so shocked. Is she back with you?

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RoastPotatoConnoisseur · 12/11/2024 16:01

One of mine has been missing for a month. It is heartbreaking but I am hoping she will either find her way home or someone will take her to a vets to be scanned. Nobody has found her injured or squashed so I am taking that as good news.

I don't think there is much more you can do apart from keep going out and calling and then waiting to see if they turn up.

So sorry to hear . Hope she comes back to you xx

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returnofthecat23 · 12/11/2024 16:05

My cat went missing for 10 years, it was summer 2013 i took my children to school and sge was in the garden, and just didnt come back. Last dec i got a call saying she had been found.

This is obviously unusual, but they are resillient, never give up hope!

Lostcat · 12/11/2024 16:03

FupaTrooper · 12/11/2024 15:49

My childhood cat went to sleep in someone's car and they didn't realise until they arrived at their destination which was over 2 hours north of where we lived. She jumped out of the car and we thought that was the end of that. So devastated!

She turned up at a vet about 20 mins from home a few months later. No idea how she had travelled back down on her own but something must have told her the tight direction and then someone took her to the vet when they saw her.

Miracles do happen.
Me and my 3 furry ginger boys are sending you our best wishes xx

Wow that’s absolutely incredible. What an amazing cat xx

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RoastPotatoConnoisseur · 12/11/2024 16:01

One of mine has been missing for a month. It is heartbreaking but I am hoping she will either find her way home or someone will take her to a vets to be scanned. Nobody has found her injured or squashed so I am taking that as good news.

I don't think there is much more you can do apart from keep going out and calling and then waiting to see if they turn up.

Member984815 · 12/11/2024 16:00

As a child my cat went missing for 3 weeks , I thought for sure he was dead but my brother found him and brought him home . I've had a cat travel 2 towns away in a delivery van whilst she was being taken care of by someone else she had info on her collar so was returned . Sometimes when cats get a fright like being chased they hide for a while but turn up again. Don't lose hope , the microchip is great , if she's picked up it'll get scanned

AgileGreenSeal · 12/11/2024 15:58

Happened to one of mine many years ago. Turned out she was accidentally locked in a neighbours garage. Neighbour had no idea she was in there. She will most likely turn up and you will never know where she’s been.

PettyJelly · 12/11/2024 15:57

One of mine is often wandering of for a couple of days at a time. I’ve not seen him since yesterday morning but that’s normal for him.

It sounds like yours was spooked by the dog. She’s probably hiding somewhere nearby. Have you been out with a torch looking for eyes under sheds etc?

susiedaisy1912 · 12/11/2024 15:57

I know how hard it is to stay positive but don't panic too much just yet. They often just turn back up. Sending you positive vibes

niadainud · 12/11/2024 15:55

Is this very unusual for your cat? Disappearing for up to 24 hours is nothing out of the ordinary for mine and I really wouldn't worry too much yet.

Hope she turns up soon.

musicalfrog · 12/11/2024 15:51

Vast majority of missing cats turn up within a few days. Don't panic yet. Probably locked in an outbuilding so make sure you write on your lost notices to check those, and once you've made them put them through local doors so everyone gets the message.

FupaTrooper · 12/11/2024 15:49

My childhood cat went to sleep in someone's car and they didn't realise until they arrived at their destination which was over 2 hours north of where we lived. She jumped out of the car and we thought that was the end of that. So devastated!

She turned up at a vet about 20 mins from home a few months later. No idea how she had travelled back down on her own but something must have told her the tight direction and then someone took her to the vet when they saw her.

Miracles do happen.
Me and my 3 furry ginger boys are sending you our best wishes xx

Daleksatemyshed · 12/11/2024 15:47

One of mine went missing for five days then turned up, well but tired. Don't give up hope

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