Discovered payment to Only fans on husband's credit card

If only it was that easy.
Unfortunately a lot of women don't realise that's the issue or are scared off from taking it plus it can take quite a while to get the balance right.

Yes im just trying to make light as it's all gotten a little deep.
This was back in June, 2 small payments, whatever he bought he wasn't for repeating it nor does it make him some sort of pervert

I really hope she decides to sit down and talk instead of just walking.
Too many marriages are ruined because many choose the latter x

Three letters; HRT.

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😄 You know what I meant though.

They don't see the irony when they are suggesting they get it free on pornhub instead.... don't mind them looking at the content as long as it's stolen

In theory. Doesn't quite work out that way in practice. If they aren't registered, there is no possibility of oversight. Surely you're not going to lie and say they are all registered.

You cannot refute what I'm actually saying, so you get indignant and petulant and throw straw men around. What is it that you wish to dispute? Be specific and pick something I have actually said.

What I have not said is that all are trafficked. The problem is that a punter does not know the difference. Surely you are not so foolish as to believe they can tell and would care if they could.

😆 @ sex workers forcing punters to be regularly tested. Prove it.

Ah, classic case of “just because you would get your skants off for twenty quid doesnt mean thats an accepted standard” i fear.

It's literally a scientific fact that during the menopause the decline in estrogen and testosterone can lead to a lower sex drive

You’re vastly underestimating how much people charge for any personal content or interaction. For twenty quid you’re getting a handful of lewds at best 😂

just because you inherently disrespect sex workers doesnt mean they deserve to be exploited by having their content stolen and broadcast for free on sites like pornhub 🤪 nobodys forcing you to buy porn but if you want it you should bloody pay for it.

Sorry I didn't realise I had to break everything down... I was referring to subscribing as in a monthly subscription and if you think that he's received anything bespoke for that £ you need to go and do some research before you try and advise someone on it

@OldScribbler I'm a woman in my 60's, but I haven't gone off having sex at all yet.
I don't know where you are getting your information about women and their sexual wants and needs, but you are generalising massively here.

What might happen to women nearing their 40th birthday, is exhaustion, and if they feel exhausted most of the time that could easily be due to having children - anywhere between the ages of new born to in their teens. I think that exhaustion generally has a detrimental effect on the lives of everyone, males and females, and therefore, not being able to summon the energy or desire for intimacy when in a state of exhaustion is hardly surprising.

However, that does not mean that that is it! One's partner would not usually continue to feel unable to enjoy having sex once the exhaustion has been managed, unless their partner's behaviour towards them, during that very difficult and waring time, had been so selfish and impatient, that it had actually left the recovering partner with the "ick".....

If he signed up for a month, that literally means he subscribed.
The second charge could have been for anything, and it's very likely it was for something extra and not included in the base subscription.

Men subscribe to these sites for the personal interaction, everything else they can get for free on pornhub.

Seriously this is new to me... I didn't even realise they did condoms for phones/laptops never mind that you could catch an std from them 😷 😂🤣😂

Edit) i meant to quote x

Exactly, 2 small payments back in June and not repeated. He just went for a nosey.
There's not a chance he was buying anything personalised for that.

Instead of walking try talking!!

Ps due to the menopause and the decline in estrogen many women do go through a phase of low sex drive that's a scientific fact!

Pros get tested monthly. Whens the last time you got checked? Not all sex workers are trafficked and the vast majority do in fact enforce protection. The good ones even make punters get tested. Dont talk shite about an industry you know nothing about other than what you’ve read in sensationalist articles designed to make middle class prudes flush.

Everyones going to convince you its an exclusively porn platform but a lot of comedians use OF. Obviously none of us know your husband but it could honestly be as mundane as following Bert Kreischer and paying $20 to watch his new special 😂

A pro is much more likely to have an STI. How "safe" is a marriage if you bring how am STI? Don't even mention condoms either. They are ineffective against HPV and herpes, plus not all pros even demand the punters use them.
Btw, how "safe" is it that you are promoting the abuse of trafficked women?

Exactly, 2 small payments back in June and not repeated. He just went for a nosey.
There's not a chance he was buying anything personalised for that.

Instead of walking try talking!!

Ps due to the menopause and the decline in estrogen many women do go through a phase of low sex drive that's a scientific fact!

If it's any consolation, I was looking at some site where a woman was doing up her campervan. It led me to OF and they definitely weren't photos of her campervan (unless that a new term for it!)

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Sorry.

But yeah op, that's shit. He's paying some women to take her knickers off

The fact its just 2 small payments it doesn't sound like he has subscribed or requested bespoke content. He's probably just signed for 1 month and then bought some stock photos of nudes. Nothing you wouldn't have found on any top shelf in your local corner shop back in the day.

There's a whole load of hype around OF curiosity probably got the best of him but whatever it was it wasn't enough for him to make out a monthly subscription or ask for anything personalised.

Instead of walking out on a otherwise happy marriage use it as an reason for a good old talk about your sex life and who knows it might refresh things. If on the otherhand this is just an other straw then let it break the camels back and use it as your reason to walk away for a fresh start.

No I don't because it is nothing of the sort, and unlike you I speak from decades of experience with both categories. A pro is highly unlikely to be interested in a relationship with a client; she is there for the money. But an amateur who starts a relationship may want something more lasting.

Best case scenario: he’s one of those foot 🦶 perverts.

You do know what you’ve said is bullshit.