Discovered payment to Only fans on husband's credit card

You sure care a lot bout onlyfans and pornhub for someone who doesnt watch porn and who has a husband who doesnt watch porn. The only person arguing is you because im right and you’re angry xx kisses

Oh so now you get personal?
I'm not surprised you do the job from they way you've spoken but I doubt you're doing well at it since you don't seem to know that much about the industry.
You're not very good at reading people online either, which is actually a really important part of the job.
I have literally zero concern about my husband paying for anything on onlyfans, not because I'm full of myself, but just because paying for sex or sexual attention just isn't his thing. Not all men are into porn or paying for sex you know.

Maybe you should bore off and get back to your subs, you shouldn't be wasting time arguing with people online when there's ass to sell right?

Reductio ad absurdum, olive.

Re-read what you said about how only "high end courtesans" are on the internet, sparky.
You said something that was factually wrong. It's okay to admit it. I'll wait while you go into narcissistic collapse over it, hoping you come through the other side a better person.

Snickering @ "ugly." How quickly you do reveal your grotesque misogyny and true agenda. Thanks for how easy that was.
That plus the mommy stereotypes. Tsk tsk.
You're a complete fraud and I think you know it.
Bonne nuit!

she could be being forced to do it by little aliens from space holding ray guns to her head just off camera as well

we need to think about all of these possibilities. Its simply not possible that any woman could willingly do sex work without coercion.

I assume you're talking specifically about creators on OF, not on hardcore sites? She could have a pimp, or even just a husband/bf who coerces her to do it either for money or for his own sexual gratification. How would anybody know?

I can assure you most creators are not charging £20 just to read a message, you're living in a dream world if you think most girls are charging that much.

And who do you think is still watching porn hub since you think most men are now ethical about porn?

Oh and yes the creators only posted there to prevent people from posting for them right? Not because they have access to millions of viewers to grow their business?
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It wouldnt be, no. There re plenty of people out there who dont consume porn. But there are more who do.

If a creator is making and distributing their own content how do you imagine theres no way to prove theyre not being coerced or harmed?

Which would be stupid, because trafficking exists in the porn industry as well.
I guess you think there's no way men can avoid being either punters or porn users, huh? Would that be a fair assessment of your POV?

How is paying creators directly any more inherently ethical? You can pay creators for rape videos, FFS.
It's never ethical, unless you can 100% guarantee nobody was coerced or harmed in any way, and you can't.

Onlyfans content leak sites are as popular as onlyfans itself and the creators are posting themselves on pornhub. Creators are posting full videos on there as advertisement for their other services like videos calls, phonecalls, sexting and custom content.

If there is a possibility that my porn consumption could negatively effect my relationship, then yes I do think it deserves a conversation. If I didn't care about my partners feelings more than I wanted to watch and spend money on a certain type of porn I don't think I would be married at all.

Much like in every other industry- there are always going to be people who undercharge. I guarantee you, from experience rather than conjecture, that very few creators would even bother opening a message for a stingy £20 tip.

And your positioning pornhub as being “normal” and ethical consumption as being out of the ordinary is in and of itsself disrespectful.

And yes. Adverts and Clips of longer videos… that you need to go elsewhere to buy. Like onlyfans. Because after years of fighting against their content being stolen and distributed for free people started using it as a platform for self promotion.

Speak for yourself love I am 39 and f my husband daily no excuses

No, I'm actually not underestimating anything, for £20 other things are available, not just photos.

Where have I disrespected sex workers? Don't be ridiculous.

I don't want or buy porn personally but I never said it shouldn't be paid for, or that it should be stolen, take that up with pornhub. But you should probably know that the creators are posting themselves on there for free as advertisement so...

They’re popular because you cant get the content anywhere else. Thats pretty much it. They have a monopoly on the industry. Pornhub is all clips of stolen material, home movies and previews of porn you need to buy. You’re putting far too much weight on the communication thing.

If you feel like you need to discuss your porn consumption with your partner then by all means go for it but i certainly don't think it’s necessary to seek a second opinion on your wanking fodder.

Jeez, these comments. Constantly shocked at how low women set their bar.

Of course he's not looking at campervans. Why would he change his pin and act all shady if it was reno OF? 🙄

I just had a quick look at only fans and there's some proper weird stuff on there....the one armed amputee cooking challenge was one.

If OP's husband is paying for porn on onlyfans because he wants to be ethical, I'm pretty sure that is something he would have discussed with her, unless you think it's reasonable for him to respect porn creators more than his wife.

I agree there are some who sub and never contact the creator, but to deny that the main attraction to these sites is that you have access to contact and speak with the creator is just being dishonest. These sites did not become popular because men care so much about paying for porn, they are popular because of the direct access to person in the clip.

“People go to fansites because they want more than just to watch porn”

or you know… they want to pay the creators they enjoy for the type of content they enjoy and don’t want to watch someones ugly uncles home movie or a 6 minute clip of an hour long brazzers movie? There are plenty of onlyfans users who sub and never directly Interact.

Your “fact” is a blind guess at best.

You don't have to break anything down, he subscribed for the month, meaning at one point he had a monthly subscription, he just didn't keep it.

And where did I say bespoke? I said extra, because that's exactly what he got, the base subscription plus he ordered something extra.

If you are claiming that no creators on onlyfans sell anything for £20 other than photos then I think it's you who should do some research, you can get whole subscriptions for free.

And where did I suggest than men shouldn't pay for porn or should steal content? I simply stated a fact, people go to fansites because they want more than just to watch porn.

Its all about the rights of the workers and not exploiting women and the risk of trafficking until you point out that paying creators directly for porn is the only way to consume it ethically 🤪
“noooo why would my husband pay £20 to crack one off to a professional when he could go on a video sharing site and watch a video with an unknown source featuring unknown people that absolutely anyone anywhere could have uploaded at any point”

at this point its pure pigheaddedness.