Every morning my DH sets an alarm for 6am as he has an hour commute to work.
He often gets up then but will spend up to an hour on the toilet. I’m pretty sure he’s watching videos or reading nonsense in there.
Then he will start getting ready etc meaning he doesn’t get into work until late, this means he works late and never gets home before 8pm. We have a baby and a toddler and he’s never back for bedtime and also never helps in the morning as he’s on the toilet!
AIBU to tell him a few home truths? He’s always complaining he is late for work and ‘doesn’t know where the morning goes’.