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To be annoyed at 'hope you had a great 1/2 term'

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jacketBandC · 11/11/2024 15:24

Like most full time working parents I work most of the school holidays.
I've done it for years. I am also a lone parent. I have struggled with it. It is how it is and I get on with it.

Book club - 6 women. 3 work full or nearly full time, 2 work term-time, 1 home educating.
Every sodding school holiday we get a "phew...made it to the end of half term/term...can't wait for some time off" from one of the term-term workers.

My sister who KNOWS my situation was "Oh lucky you getting 2 weeks for 1/2 term".

I've had 2 emails from school today saying they hope I had a lovely 1/2 term.

Actually, I had one day off which was nice. The rest of it was just more juggling than usual, so nothing lovely really.

OP posts:
Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 11/11/2024 15:29

You just have to smile and nod, I'm afraid, OP. I feel the same when listening to people talking about what they did when they were furloughed from their jobs during COVID. I had to work as normal, in retail. Lots and lots of articles, books, programmes all talking about how people spent their time learning new things or doing crafts.

WE DIDN'T ALL GET TO STAY HOME ON FULL PAY.

Like I said, smile and nod. It's the only way.

jacketBandC · 11/11/2024 15:28

thanksicloud · 11/11/2024 15:26

goodness OP, it must be tough to go through life being pissed off and angry at so much!

No. Right now I'm pissed off (not angry) and the assumption that everyone gets 1/2 term (and other school holidays) off. I get on with it, but don't need my face rubbed in it.

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thanksicloud · 11/11/2024 15:26

goodness OP, it must be tough to go through life being pissed off and angry at so much!

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