To tell family member that her husband is sending me nudes?

She is upset you have cut them out

She deserves to know why

Don't protect the slease

I hope the police are supportive and justice is done. I am glad to read of your DH being supportive.

Are you for real? This 60 year old married uncle of OP's husband sends photos of his cock and you're out here playing Devil's advocate that maybe it WAS for someone else (who? Not his own wife presumably!)

The original was intended for private use? 😂

As if OP would be just as bad if she forwards on his skanky messages to his own wife! Wouldn't you want to know if it was your DH?

Get your husband to send them. It’s his family. But 💯 send them.

I am glad you've realised it was sent intentionally as that is 100% obvious.

Do you have a Ring (cctv) doorbell at your home? I’d recommend getting one if not so should anyone appear at your door (or try to damage your property) it’s all recorded (plus you can avoid opening the door to these abusers).

Plus if anyone else your family/friends circle tries to make excuses for their vile behaviour, make it clear you’re not going to defend your actions in response to two abusers.

Be careful, alcoholics can be vengeful and agressive. Yes to letting your husband show the pics to your sister-in-law personally

@5FeetToBeExact Defintely do what you can to get the police to take it seriously. So pleased your husband managed to record the call.
Do also tell them the background re: the dick pic too, it's critical that they understand that.
Good luck to you.

I would what a scumbag

Who's threatening, uncle, aunt or both?

Wow, I'm so sorry you have all this going on, @5FeetToBeExact
I hope it all soon blows over & you have PEACE.

Just imagine if your child had picked up your phone. I'd not only let her know I'd also make it clear that if anything else.like that ever happens you will be informing the police. That man shouldn't be around you or your kids. So you are totally right to be livid

Depending on when that was sent it’s a criminal offence.

Cut contact, thank goodness your husband is decent.

Holy shit ... good for you both for reporting them. Hope you're OK. Keep a record of everything, sounds like you might need to. Take care.

I'm a male and find this totally crazy that people behave this way, who even sends a nude picture to someone. Just cut them out, I cut ANYONE out who causes regular undue stress, I work in a stressful environment so don't need it and have a sister who has never worked and causes so much drama and is a pisshead and drug taker and my mother consistently justified it (a enabler) so for my own peace I cut my sister, mother and father (even before this) out for a few years now just cut them out, block their numbers and forget about them. Simple.

Good for you for now calling them out and reporting

I'm gobsmacked everyone isn't mortified! I'm sorry you're going through this! I assume the wife is accusing you of lying/making it up/leading him on etc?

Christ almighty. What is the matter with people?! Keep recording whenever you answer the phone. Make sure the police take this seriously!

Tell them about the unwanted dick pic also op!
these people need to be far away your family and the public..

Oh jeez just read the thread and seen your update op. You've definitely made the right call.

I must say it makes a refreshing change to see a dh that has your back and sees his family for what they are.

Glad you can all stay away from them going forwards.

Recording calls if you have to answer is a good idea.

In my experience, these types always escalate. There’s no way they accept being wrong, so escalation is the only option.
Sorry, but as you say, good to know you made right decision.
Have you got home security?

Well you expected something so at least you had started to prepare yourself.

i am disgusted but sadly not surprised after everything you have wrote so far.

do not drop this, insist the police take this forward and tell them about the picture also.

well done for recording, keep doing that. Make sure you have a record of everything but also I want you to start writing down every time (with the date and time) they call or message or any other contact etc so you have a list to show police etc it shows the reality and the severity better than saying it to someone.

Can you buy a cheap 2nd phone and give the only the hospital that number so you know if it rings you can answer safely?

With any luck thd Muppets will phone while the Police are with you. I hope they are able to do something and, obviously, hope you stay safe 🤗

Oh no, op. 🥺 They are absolutely vile. Good it was recorded and hopefully the police will be able to warn them or something. Absolutely horrible for you.

Bloody he'll @5FeetToBeExact! That's shocking behaviour from them. I hope the police take it seriously and tell them to cease and desist in no uncertain terms.
Terrible people. Take care of yourself, won't you?