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To dislike the increase in dogs in shops/cafes

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amymel2016 · 10/11/2024 18:07

I’ve recently noticed a huge increase in non-service dogs in cafes and shops. I was in Joules earlier today and there were 3 in there, two of which were barking and growling at each other. I was in a cafe last week with 2 in there. Surely it can’t be fun for the dog having to sit under a cramped table?

I’m very allergic to dogs and the smell absolutely sets me on edge. I don’t understand why they are allowed in? I’m not about to walk in with a cat or a rabbit so why dogs? It’s also the attitude of most (sweeping generalisation!) dog owners which annoys me, no, I don’t want to talk to your dog or about your dog. I don’t care if you say he’s friendly I don’t want it anywhere near me.

Goes without saying that service dogs are bloody amazing and they should absolutely be welcome everywhere.

OP posts:
PottedPlantCrazy · 11/11/2024 20:25

amymel2016 · 10/11/2024 20:29

Oh gosh, that’s amazing! Did you get a trophy to go with the photo?

Its not about fear (for me anyway), more disgust and the inability to breath properly around dogs on account of their dander setting off my asthma.

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’Did you get a trophy’ 😂😂😂

OP, I 100% agree with you, but I just had to comment about how much that made me laugh, thank you 😂

Swivelhead · 11/11/2024 20:21

Sorry, Toast; it's so horribly quiet when they leave us. "Brother and sister, I bid you beware / Of giving your heart to a dog to tear."

Toastthemosttoo · 11/11/2024 20:16

I wish my house smelled of dog, I miss my dog and I miss his smell,😔

K0OLA1D · 11/11/2024 20:08

Swivelhead · 11/11/2024 20:07

I think I am going to borrow the massive akita down the road to go to Costa.

Funny how our doggies are living rent-free in all these little heads.

And the smell in our houses.

Swivelhead · 11/11/2024 20:07

I think I am going to borrow the massive akita down the road to go to Costa.

Funny how our doggies are living rent-free in all these little heads.

Tapthisscreen · 11/11/2024 19:51

We’re laughing because that’s your trump card, not because you’ve offended us. The same attempt at an insult primary school brats use. See you all in Costa.

K0OLA1D · 11/11/2024 19:47

Ytcsghisn · 11/11/2024 19:42

Dog owners’ clothes smell of dog and their houses definitely do. And if they’re under any illusion that it’s a nice smell, they’re deluded.

I smell like lavender bold capsules.

I do occasionally rub my coat all over my dog instead to mask the floral smell

Ytcsghisn · 11/11/2024 19:42

Dog owners’ clothes smell of dog and their houses definitely do. And if they’re under any illusion that it’s a nice smell, they’re deluded.

Ytcsghisn · 11/11/2024 19:41

Dogs smell and should not be in food establishments.

Not sure why people insist on bringing them everywhere.

vodkaredbullgirl · 11/11/2024 19:26

I don't care if my house smells of dog to an outsider, not that it does always on top of the cleaning.

K0OLA1D · 11/11/2024 19:12

YellowPolkaDotBikini1980 · 11/11/2024 19:08

There is nothing in my house that would retain the smell of dog.

So your house is entirely stainless steel? Stainless steel sofa, stainless steel flooring.

So modern!

No. But it's tiled and lvt floors and my sofa is leather, which he doesnt get on or one which is 3 weeks old in a room he rarely ventures. He doesn't get on the beds and I have no carpet.

He doesn't smell bad enough to penetrate the floors or walls. Ok?

When we had carpet my living room did smell doggy. We now have no carpet.

YellowPolkaDotBikini1980 · 11/11/2024 19:08

K0OLA1D · 11/11/2024 19:01

No. My dog smells of dog. There is nothing in my house that would retain the smell of dog.

I'm not remotely upset lovely. I aren't the one starting threads about dogs and then moaning other people have dogs that smell.

There is nothing in my house that would retain the smell of dog.

So your house is entirely stainless steel? Stainless steel sofa, stainless steel flooring.

So modern!

IKEAJesus · 11/11/2024 19:05

Wendolino · 11/11/2024 18:52

I'm stating that your house probably smells of dog. Some people's standards are such that they are not prepared to put up with a smelly house. If your standards aren't that high, that's your choice. You don't need to explain yourself to me. I understand it upsets you but it doesn't make me sound pathetic- that's just you lashing out.

All houses smell of something, though.

Dogs don’t smell objectively awful (unless they’ve been rolling in something). They just smell of dog, which some people like and others don’t.

K0OLA1D · 11/11/2024 19:01

Wendolino · 11/11/2024 18:52

I'm stating that your house probably smells of dog. Some people's standards are such that they are not prepared to put up with a smelly house. If your standards aren't that high, that's your choice. You don't need to explain yourself to me. I understand it upsets you but it doesn't make me sound pathetic- that's just you lashing out.

No. My dog smells of dog. There is nothing in my house that would retain the smell of dog.

I'm not remotely upset lovely. I aren't the one starting threads about dogs and then moaning other people have dogs that smell.

Wendolino · 11/11/2024 18:52

K0OLA1D · 11/11/2024 16:31

My standards are fine thanks. I mop and hoover everyday. Wash throws, don't have any carpets.

If you can smell my dog in my house, then, shock horror, that's because I have a dog in my house. You sound pathetic 🙄

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I'm stating that your house probably smells of dog. Some people's standards are such that they are not prepared to put up with a smelly house. If your standards aren't that high, that's your choice. You don't need to explain yourself to me. I understand it upsets you but it doesn't make me sound pathetic- that's just you lashing out.

Wendolino · 11/11/2024 18:47

buffyajp · 11/11/2024 17:19

I’d far rather a house that stank of dogs than being with a miserable person who likes to fling insults about. Fair enough not to like dogs but that doesn’t mean you get to eradicate them from public places especially serving dogs and mental health dogs

It's not an insult, just stating a fact. Where did I say I want them eradicated from public spaces? That's just you jumping to conclusions. Service dogs are necessary, "mental health" dogs are not.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 11/11/2024 17:54

K0OLA1D · 11/11/2024 17:43

What a complete load of rot 😂

It’s probably one of the most accurate posts on this thread.

K0OLA1D · 11/11/2024 17:53

Differentstarts · 11/11/2024 17:47

So how do you explain dogs in shops and coffee shops in town centres

Holidays? Where dogs aren't allowed to be left at accommodation? We used to walk through our own town some Sunday mornings and stop at a cafe.

We'd sometimes walk the dog to the town to go to pubs with him, then walk back

Pickandmixmood · 11/11/2024 17:52

Differentstarts · 11/11/2024 17:47

So how do you explain dogs in shops and coffee shops in town centres

Not difficult to explain. They are out and about with their owners. Dogs like to be with their families rather than stuck at home in their own. Dogs which have been included in daily life since they were puppies are well socialised and well behaved.

Differentstarts · 11/11/2024 17:47

Pickandmixmood · 11/11/2024 17:45

This is nonsense. Many people go in a pub or a coffee shop half way round a long walk so their dogs are obviously being well taken care of. The dogs which are being neglected are those which are left at home all day when their owners are out all day.

So how do you explain dogs in shops and coffee shops in town centres

Pickandmixmood · 11/11/2024 17:45

Differentstarts · 11/11/2024 17:40

Nobody is saying eradicate service dogs. Saying dogs stink isn't an insult it's a fact. Not eradicate from public. Nobody as an issue with dogs being in dog places like fields, parks, woods, dog beaches. You know places dogs actually can be dogs at. The problem is people who try and humanise dogs and start dragging them around shops and shoving them under the tables at coffee shops. Dogs don't like these places their loud, busy and people step on them. The only reason people take dogs to these places is they like people fawning over their dogs or they won't make sacrifices in their life and put their dog first. When you decide to get a dog you need to understand that it's a responsibility that means you won't always be able to do whatever you want whenever you want as your putting something above your own needs anyone who can't do this don't get a dog as its selfish.

This is nonsense. Many people go in a pub or a coffee shop half way round a long walk so their dogs are obviously being well taken care of. The dogs which are being neglected are those which are left at home all day when their owners are out all day.

K0OLA1D · 11/11/2024 17:43

Differentstarts · 11/11/2024 17:40

Nobody is saying eradicate service dogs. Saying dogs stink isn't an insult it's a fact. Not eradicate from public. Nobody as an issue with dogs being in dog places like fields, parks, woods, dog beaches. You know places dogs actually can be dogs at. The problem is people who try and humanise dogs and start dragging them around shops and shoving them under the tables at coffee shops. Dogs don't like these places their loud, busy and people step on them. The only reason people take dogs to these places is they like people fawning over their dogs or they won't make sacrifices in their life and put their dog first. When you decide to get a dog you need to understand that it's a responsibility that means you won't always be able to do whatever you want whenever you want as your putting something above your own needs anyone who can't do this don't get a dog as its selfish.

What a complete load of rot 😂

WhereAreWeNow · 11/11/2024 17:42

Can we add dogs on the tube to this discussion?
I rarely saw dogs on the tube pre covid. Only working dogs. Now it's very common. I recently had a dog (sitting on lap of owner next to me) sneeze on me, spraying me with dog snot.
Today a dog licked my hand on the tube.
I often see people let their dogs sit on the seat next to them.
I think I might hate this even more than the dogs in cafes!

Differentstarts · 11/11/2024 17:40

buffyajp · 11/11/2024 17:19

I’d far rather a house that stank of dogs than being with a miserable person who likes to fling insults about. Fair enough not to like dogs but that doesn’t mean you get to eradicate them from public places especially serving dogs and mental health dogs

Nobody is saying eradicate service dogs. Saying dogs stink isn't an insult it's a fact. Not eradicate from public. Nobody as an issue with dogs being in dog places like fields, parks, woods, dog beaches. You know places dogs actually can be dogs at. The problem is people who try and humanise dogs and start dragging them around shops and shoving them under the tables at coffee shops. Dogs don't like these places their loud, busy and people step on them. The only reason people take dogs to these places is they like people fawning over their dogs or they won't make sacrifices in their life and put their dog first. When you decide to get a dog you need to understand that it's a responsibility that means you won't always be able to do whatever you want whenever you want as your putting something above your own needs anyone who can't do this don't get a dog as its selfish.

buffyajp · 11/11/2024 17:19

Wendolino · 11/11/2024 16:11

No matter how upset you get about the insults to your dog, the chances are your dog and house do stink and the reason you think they don't is you get used to the smell and don't notice it.

I’d far rather a house that stank of dogs than being with a miserable person who likes to fling insults about. Fair enough not to like dogs but that doesn’t mean you get to eradicate them from public places especially serving dogs and mental health dogs

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