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To dislike the increase in dogs in shops/cafes

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amymel2016 · 10/11/2024 18:07

I’ve recently noticed a huge increase in non-service dogs in cafes and shops. I was in Joules earlier today and there were 3 in there, two of which were barking and growling at each other. I was in a cafe last week with 2 in there. Surely it can’t be fun for the dog having to sit under a cramped table?

I’m very allergic to dogs and the smell absolutely sets me on edge. I don’t understand why they are allowed in? I’m not about to walk in with a cat or a rabbit so why dogs? It’s also the attitude of most (sweeping generalisation!) dog owners which annoys me, no, I don’t want to talk to your dog or about your dog. I don’t care if you say he’s friendly I don’t want it anywhere near me.

Goes without saying that service dogs are bloody amazing and they should absolutely be welcome everywhere.

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Littlemissgobby · 10/11/2024 20:38

Sprookjesbos · 10/11/2024 20:36

Funnily enough was just thinking this today. I do like dogs but there were 3 in John Lewis today and one was a golden lab brushing against clothes etc. I was really surprised to see them in there!

Can I ask are you down south? Is it just middle class type stores the reason i am asking is I am honestly not seeing this around here

PyreneanAubrie · 10/11/2024 20:38

PixieMcGraw · 10/11/2024 20:23

My dog had a bath today and now smells of coconut. Will be taking him to a pub in a little bit cos he likes a beer at the weekend.

If your dog had the choice of smelling of dog or smelling of coconut, he would not choose coconut.

DieStrassensindimmernass · 10/11/2024 20:38

EG94 · 10/11/2024 20:36

I feel this way about feral children. Just fucking everywhere. 😤 dogs bother me far less

This is a post about entitled dog owners. Start your own about entitled parents if that's what bothers you. Dogs and children are not even remotely comparable though.

OhshutupSimonyounobhead · 10/11/2024 20:37

https://www.brunningandprice.co.uk/armoury/

I was in this lovely pub on Friday meeting up with an old friend. We could hardly talk due to a dog nearby barking its head off. Owner told it to stop nut it didn't and they did not take it outside. Totally put me off going again. Dogs should not be in restaurants like this.

Fresh Food & Cask Ales - The Armoury, Shrewsbury

Traditional pub restaurant serving fresh food, cask ales and wine. See our daily menu, photos and history pages.... The Armoury, Shrewsbury

https://www.brunningandprice.co.uk/armoury

Sprookjesbos · 10/11/2024 20:36

Funnily enough was just thinking this today. I do like dogs but there were 3 in John Lewis today and one was a golden lab brushing against clothes etc. I was really surprised to see them in there!

EG94 · 10/11/2024 20:36

I feel this way about feral children. Just fucking everywhere. 😤 dogs bother me far less

IKEAJesus · 10/11/2024 20:36

The thing I most hate is when owners completely ignore the rules around taking their dogs to places - e,g. if cafes have a “paws on the floor” policy, but the owners allow them on the chairs and tables. Or they take dogs into a signposted dog free area,

For some reason the staff never challenge it, either.

I wouldn’t care about dogs in cafes etc if they were all well-behaved, but an increasing number are not.

And it’s not easy to find dog-free places around here. I have found a couple of restaurants but no coffee shops anywhere in the town centre.

Nodiggetydog · 10/11/2024 20:35

amymel2016 · 10/11/2024 19:02

Sorry but all dogs smell, all dog owners houses smell, all holiday cottages that allow dogs smell

Couldn't agree more, anyone who says their dog doesn't smell is deluded. I think they become immune over time but I'm 100% with you. Dogs smell end of!

StandingSideBySide · 10/11/2024 20:35

tillytoodles1 · 10/11/2024 20:30

We had a summer holiday in Windermere last year with four dogs that we took everywhere. Whether eating out or going to the pub for a break, the places were packed and I'm sure their businesses were doing a roaring trade allowing dogs, they didn't need the non dog owners.

Its great they are making money
Just Hope there are good places nearby for those who have allergies, phobias etc and can’t be near dogs.
Those people are losing out whilst others find it nice they can take their dogs everywhere.

amymel2016 · 10/11/2024 20:34

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 10/11/2024 20:31

I took DS to a university open day last weekend, and it one, but two families had brought their bloody dog with them! Not only that, but they brought it round the halls of residence, into the lecture theatres and everything..!

I think it’s this, they’re popping up everywhere. There was one (super smelly) in the pharmacy the other day! If it were one or two dog friendly places then fine, I can easily avoid them but I don’t want to be constantly tripping over them whilst shopping!

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PixieMcGraw · 10/11/2024 20:34

DieStrassensindimmernass · 10/11/2024 20:25

Coconut and dog. 😆

Ah heaven. I believe that is part of Purdy and Figg's autumn range.

Littlemissgobby · 10/11/2024 20:34

YouCantFightInHereThisIsTheWarRoom · 10/11/2024 20:33

Where is this heavenly place! If it's not too far from me, I'd take a special trip to support them.

Is this a new phenomenon I have honestly not seen any cafes or shops here that allow dogs inside

Swivelhead · 10/11/2024 20:33

Taking a dog into Lush is just cruel! That place makes me hurl and I don't have their super duper nostrils.

YouCantFightInHereThisIsTheWarRoom · 10/11/2024 20:33

rainingcats · 10/11/2024 20:31

Recently a new cafe in my village opened up, it decided to not allow dogs in and the local facebook page went into meltdown. A lot of people seemed outraged that they wouldn’t allow dogs in. Personally I am glad when a place is pet free.

Where is this heavenly place! If it's not too far from me, I'd take a special trip to support them.

Littlemissgobby · 10/11/2024 20:32

Is this posh places you don't see dogs in shops ir cafes here mind you majority closed down . I bet you down south

Nodiggetydog · 10/11/2024 20:32

I was literally about to post something very similar!

I think it's definitely gotten worse since COVID because so many people decided they wanted a dog in their lives and so many of them just don't seemed trained at all. For some reason it seems to have become acceptable for them to go anywhere and everywhere and it's not right.

At a castle with the kids last weekend and in the cafe there were dogs everywhere! Great slobbering thing sprawled out on across floor behind me and it bloody stunk. Another one at table across from is looking longingly at our food. Two more massive things laid out as we tried to get by for the loos. One starting licking my little boys hand as we passed and the person just said oh he loves kids. I don't care! I don't want your bloody dog, who's probably been licking it's arse and goodness knows what else licking my child. If my child went up and started licking people it wouldn't be acceptable!

Again today we were out and I was stood with my boy in his buggy. Massive great dog charges over an starts licking his face! All I got from the woman is oh he loves kids, just being friendly blah blah. No apology! It drives me mad!!

I think the trouble is dogs are just everywhere now and I think people are scared to say no. Our local farm shop got loads of abuse because he said no dogs inside cafe (could sit outside though).

I grew up with dogs, but on a farm so they were working dogs. In my my dogs belong outside and should be serving a purpose. Dragging them round shops, cafes etc. is inappropriate and not fair on the dogs.

rainingcats · 10/11/2024 20:31

Recently a new cafe in my village opened up, it decided to not allow dogs in and the local facebook page went into meltdown. A lot of people seemed outraged that they wouldn’t allow dogs in. Personally I am glad when a place is pet free.

DieStrassensindimmernass · 10/11/2024 20:31

tillytoodles1 · 10/11/2024 20:30

We had a summer holiday in Windermere last year with four dogs that we took everywhere. Whether eating out or going to the pub for a break, the places were packed and I'm sure their businesses were doing a roaring trade allowing dogs, they didn't need the non dog owners.

The Lake District was always popular, even before the entitled dog owner invasion. 🫣

SpudleyLass · 10/11/2024 20:31

I'm sure I'm coming off as a dog hater.

I'm really not - I grew up with King Charles Cavalier Spaniels, was very involved in their care etc.

I would never have dreamed of imposing our dogs in places where people could rightfully expect no dogs except guide dogs to be. For reference, I'm 32 so this whole "oh we mustn't leave Fido alone for 2 hours" really is a recent phenomenon.

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 10/11/2024 20:31

I took DS to a university open day last weekend, and it one, but two families had brought their bloody dog with them! Not only that, but they brought it round the halls of residence, into the lecture theatres and everything..!

YouCantFightInHereThisIsTheWarRoom · 10/11/2024 20:30

I have seen dogs in Lush several times. Takes an absolute areshole owner to expose their dogs to the smells in there (I Love Lush, but it will be hell for dogs.). I also HATE them being in human spaces, and avoid cafes where they state they are dog friendly, and I boycott shops where they are encouraged. It is not fair on those of us who don't want dog slobber on our purchases.

tillytoodles1 · 10/11/2024 20:30

We had a summer holiday in Windermere last year with four dogs that we took everywhere. Whether eating out or going to the pub for a break, the places were packed and I'm sure their businesses were doing a roaring trade allowing dogs, they didn't need the non dog owners.

Prescottdanni123 · 10/11/2024 20:30

@PotholesAnonymous

Zefferellis in Ambleside, Grasmere Garden centre.

Mary Mount Hotel does technically take them but puts dog owning guests in a seperate building to the ones who don't. I mention this one because I know the food and service is really good here too.Or there is diamond Lodge in Ambleside which doesn't take dogs at all and is quite central for places like Keswick, Grasmere, Windermere and Kendal.

DieStrassensindimmernass · 10/11/2024 20:29

SpudleyLass · 10/11/2024 20:28

Service dog users tend to be more considerate as they actually have a need for their dog to be there.

The ones that don't, who expect society to change for them whilst disregarding those with allergies and fears, will naturally not be as considerate as they seem quite gleeful to tell us.

Ah right, I see.

amymel2016 · 10/11/2024 20:29

Swivelhead · 10/11/2024 20:26

Of course, if you prefer to live your life in fear. <shrug>

I have a picture of me holding a tarantula on my wall. Even the word tarantula used to give me the heebies jeebies. Now I can garden, go up in the loft, clear cobwebs myself without having to pay someone, stand beside massive Halloween spider decs without feeling sick...

I'd hate to be that scared little person again

Oh gosh, that’s amazing! Did you get a trophy to go with the photo?

Its not about fear (for me anyway), more disgust and the inability to breath properly around dogs on account of their dander setting off my asthma.

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