Long story short, I was in an awful relationship X amount of years ago. I had a two children during this relationship and have just discovered via a heritage test, they are not full siblings.
Im fucking mortified, ashamed and wanting to try and do the right thing.
Ive made the children aware. The main child in question doesn’t want to discuss or know further but this may be a temporary reaction.
Worst thing thing is, I think I know who the father is, but I can’t exactly pinpoint and confirm with the relative matches; it is extremely unlikely it is another person, but not inconceivable. I know how this makes me sound and I don’t even want to make excuses for my behaviour. I just need you to be aware of the fact I was in a very bad place at the time.
Do I wait and see what happens or do I try and confirm (which will require speaking to the person/or his family).
We haven’t spoken in a very long time and I’m also cognisant of the fact I’ve robbed him of time with his child.