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Having sex when cat is on bed

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FlamingGalaaa · 10/11/2024 09:39

Doesn't bother me, but partner thinks it's weird and shuts the cat downstairs.

Who is BU?

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UnctuousUnicorns · 10/11/2024 18:35

SwordToFlamethrower · 10/11/2024 17:47

Absolutely no way. Gross to have an animal in your bedroom in the first place.

All those cat hairs where you lay and sleep, and shag! 🤮🤮🤮

It's cracking me up reading this and the other disgusted frothers! 🤣

Idontknowhatnametochoose · 10/11/2024 18:00

Try a cat...and a dog!

Dcat would jump off in disgust within minutes. Ddog stared in fascination.

dreamer24 · 10/11/2024 17:58

We conceived our daughter with the cat in the room. I'll never forget the judgmental look on his face 😳 Sorta killed the moment if I'm honest.

LuckySantangelo35 · 10/11/2024 17:56

JoanOgden · 10/11/2024 17:34

Have you ever met a cat?

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@JoanOgden

yeah and I wouldn’t have them on my bed. They can have tics and all sorts

ohwdymh · 10/11/2024 17:50

Absolutely not. I've never had sex in front of my cats. Don't want to give them
ideas. And anyway they'd be biting feet or trying to sit on us or whatever.

I won't let mine watch any dodgy stuff on Netflix either. I just don't think they should be watching people having sex.

GentlemanJay · 10/11/2024 17:47

I'd struggle to be intimate with a family pet in the room.

SwordToFlamethrower · 10/11/2024 17:47

Absolutely no way. Gross to have an animal in your bedroom in the first place.

All those cat hairs where you lay and sleep, and shag! 🤮🤮🤮

stayathomer · 10/11/2024 17:39

My cat would slice both of us to pieces and then eat us alive. I’m serious!

Shodan · 10/11/2024 17:38

Knickerbockergrolia · 10/11/2024 10:18

My view is that if we can do it without disturbing the cat, we're doing it wrong!

Yes. Exactly.

My cats are so well-trained now that if/when DP and I go into the bedroom together, they both jump off the bed with resigned/disgusted looks on their faces.

Little weirdos wait right outside the bedroom door for the required ten minutes hour and a half and then stalk back in to reclaim their rightful place.

JoanOgden · 10/11/2024 17:34

LuckySantangelo35 · 10/11/2024 17:30

Why is the cat on your bed in the first place, does it not have its own bed ? @FlamingGalaaa

Have you ever met a cat?

AConcernedCitizen · 10/11/2024 17:30

Perhaps it's too confusing for your partner when he's asked to give the pussy some attention?

LuckySantangelo35 · 10/11/2024 17:30

Why is the cat on your bed in the first place, does it not have its own bed ? @FlamingGalaaa

Wantsummerback88 · 10/11/2024 17:09

SuffolkBargeWoman · 10/11/2024 09:42

I was fine with it until she started holding up a score card afterwards.
The 2 for artistic interpretation was the final straw.

😂😂😂

AutumnalLeaves38 · 10/11/2024 17:04

SuffolkBargeWoman · 10/11/2024 09:42

I was fine with it until she started holding up a score card afterwards.
The 2 for artistic interpretation was the final straw.

😁
Brilliant!

Pumpkinsandchutney · 10/11/2024 17:04

DCat is very judgmental and would give us scores out of 10 - so that's a no!

SquatWeightaMinute · 10/11/2024 16:59

I would think a cat would just leave, I am shocked at some of these tales!

Boomer55 · 10/11/2024 16:50

Unless Puss is traumatised, I wouldn’t worry to much. 😉

DoodlesMam · 10/11/2024 16:49

the last time we got jiggy with the cat in the room the cat freaked out ran round and round, peed on his wardrobe and then sat and stared us..... the mood was gone! 😾so no, no jiggy with cat in room. Also he has been known to nip toes....

Toddlerteaplease · 10/11/2024 16:47

NooNakedJacuzziness · 10/11/2024 10:23

Mrs Slocombe would have been aghast at her pussy seeing any bedroom shenanigans

Crying 😂😂😂😂

Iwashopingnottobreakmyduck · 10/11/2024 16:33

Nesbi · 10/11/2024 09:42

Most people I know with cats seem to treat them like a member of the family.

Having sex with another member of the family sitting on the bed silently watching you is all kinds of wrong, so I’m going with YABU on this one!

This our dogs are out of the bedroom else they would be waiting post sex for a cuddle

BobbyBiscuits · 10/11/2024 16:32

Haha, the cat will either move or stay but he won't try and get involved. I don't trust a dog in the same way. 🤣

liverpoolnana · 10/11/2024 16:19

True, true. Our three year old wandered into our room one night, and said reprovingly, 'Mummy! Daddy! Stop bouncing the cat!'.

I have to report that said cat clung grimly to the blankets throughout. It had no intention of letting itself being bounced off, thank you very much.

ShinyPebble32 · 10/11/2024 16:02

I had my cervical sweep with the cat on the bed, which was pretty weird!

thicklysettled · 10/11/2024 15:32

Read Alan Bennett's "The Outside Dog" and see if it changes your mind 😄

IcyLilacZebra · 10/11/2024 15:27

Imagine flying pussys everywhere