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To ask what we SHOULD have done during the COVID pandemic

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tunainatin · 10/11/2024 05:48

So I realise the government made mistakes at the time of COVID. They also acted completely immorally by not following the rules they imposed on everyone else.
However, I suspect any government in this country would have been criticized whatever their response.

I was mulling over the rules and restrictions and trying to work out which ones were actually worthwhile. Some rules seemed so petty (e.g. the one a day walk) but there has to be a line drawn somewhere, otherwise the parks would have been full of people.

Once we were allowed to attend things with restrictions in place, I went to an event which was meant to have masks and social distancing but everyone kind of got carried away and forgot about. Everyone got COVID, including me, badly, and one person was hospitalised.

So if you were the government what would you have done during the pandemic. Which of the bizarre rules we followed do you think saved lives, and which just causes stress or distress?

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2010Aussie · 10/11/2024 19:29

SnakesAndArrows · 10/11/2024 07:42

See, this is what I mean. You have given this no thought whatsoever, have you?

Young people live with the old and vulnerable. The old and vulnerable need the young and fit to care for them.

Or were you proposing that anyone old and vulnerable should have been locked away to fend for themselves?

In my experience, older people I know who were living at home and who didn't have underlying health conditions, seemed to come through COVID relatively unscathed. The ones who really suffered were the 30/40 year olds. They had to wait a long time to be vaccinated, had to go back into the office and tended to head off down the pub/gym/mates' houses as soon as they could.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 19:28

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:23

Fine - lying is possible seeing as there was such corruption in the operation. However, I respect Chris Whitty; it doesn’t mean he is right about that though. There would have been ways to make it work, we just didn’t take it seriously until it was too late.

There's a massive gap between is possible and did happen, though. And if this is simply because you disagree with him, applying Occam's Razor would mean him being honestly wrong rather than some big conspiracy.

Anyway, you say there would've been ways to make it work like Australia and New Zealand did, despite the massive differences between them and us. Like what?

SnakesAndArrows · 10/11/2024 19:27

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:24

Couldn’t the food continue to move and the drivers stay in quarantine hotels?

Yes of course because there was absolutely no shortage of HGV drivers. Oh, wait…

Aggie15 · 10/11/2024 19:26

crumblingschools · 10/11/2024 19:13

We have more transport and food supplies going through our country so would have been very difficult to close borders or have full quarantine

How do they stop the spread of other pathogens like foot and mouth? By stringent testing and barrier measures. Lorry drivers and those handling the goods would have had to wear PPE, some stock could have been parked for 72 hours etc. it was not beyond the wit of man. But of course UK got rid of the PPE stock just before the pandemic and the Tories favoured friends and family for PPE supply instead of UK manufacturers who were ready to manufacture PPE in the UK. They let Mone, the pub landlord of Matt Hancock's local and the likes to bulk order from Temu largely completely unusable crap. They never tested people who arrived into the country by plane. They could have restricted travel to essential etc. NZ and Australia imports stuff as well. It's immaterial what way it comes in. Most important the measures you put in place to mitigate the risk.

nietzscheanvibe · 10/11/2024 19:26

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 18:38

I know it wasn't the point they were making, but the default to the nightmare scenario means you raised it yourself. It's quite a well worn path at this point!

For the people who now refuse to go along with the government as a matter of principle, if there were another pandemic now that put them at greater risk, presumably some of them would choose to modify their behaviour because they felt threatened and others wouldn't. Part of the reason others wouldn't is because of lack of trust. There'd have to be some person or institution that people actually believed. It's not immediately obvious who that would be. I think if another pandemic came along now, half of the internet would say it was down to the covid vaccine.

It does also need to be factored in that some non-compliance wasn't borne of disagreement about medical advice, but rather about who the government had chosen to prioritise. As an example, when my children and others in the family were considered unworthy of school and socialisation whilst others got the whole caboodle with better ratios in 2021, I decided they weren't going to be any more collateral than I could help. So we had playdates, and plenty of them.

Now I agree that the greater the number of contacts that happen, the higher the risk of transmission. That's the science bit. But the question of where my children ought to fall on the priority list isn't science, it's politics. And I disagreed with the great genius scientist Boris Johnson about how much of their welfare ought to be sacrificed. There were plenty like me.

Again, not arguing, there is a debate to be had about the merits of decisions made (and I'm most definitely not an apologist for Johnson, Hancock, et al). But, again, my point to the pp was that their comment was borne purely of bloody-mindedness and ignorance, whilst they imagine that they are somehow more informed than others because they are not "a mindless sheep". The refusal to comply because many others are complying seems pretty mindless - and no other justification was given, other than that the majority were "mindless". I stand by my initial criticism.

R053 · 10/11/2024 19:26

SnakesAndArrows · 10/11/2024 19:17

Good lord. You’re suggesting Whitty lied to the enquiry? Seems highly unlikely.

And it’s been explained many times why Aus/NZ could close their borders and the U.K., with a land border with the EU and dependency on the movement of lorries of food across the channel, could not. Not without starving the population anyway.

What about high density Asian countries that have land borders such as South Korea, Thailand, China? They were still able to close their borders and introduce quarantine rules like Australia and NZ. South Korea didn’t even need to have lockdowns as their track and track and testing system was so good. China had a lockdown early and then lived normally for a long time before their extreme one at the end, which was a waste of time because it was omicron.

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:24

SnakesAndArrows · 10/11/2024 19:17

Good lord. You’re suggesting Whitty lied to the enquiry? Seems highly unlikely.

And it’s been explained many times why Aus/NZ could close their borders and the U.K., with a land border with the EU and dependency on the movement of lorries of food across the channel, could not. Not without starving the population anyway.

Couldn’t the food continue to move and the drivers stay in quarantine hotels?

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:23

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 19:13

You can answer my question first.

Once you've clarified what you mean and set out the reasons why, I'm ready to be persuaded. Though asking why the UK couldn't be like a group of pretty geographically isolated, hard to access islands isn't going to do it.

Fine - lying is possible seeing as there was such corruption in the operation. However, I respect Chris Whitty; it doesn’t mean he is right about that though. There would have been ways to make it work, we just didn’t take it seriously until it was too late.

SnakesAndArrows · 10/11/2024 19:17

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:02

You said this in reply to me earlier. Do you not think he was told to say that? How come Aus and NZ could do it but we couldn’t? Genuinely asking btw.

Good lord. You’re suggesting Whitty lied to the enquiry? Seems highly unlikely.

And it’s been explained many times why Aus/NZ could close their borders and the U.K., with a land border with the EU and dependency on the movement of lorries of food across the channel, could not. Not without starving the population anyway.

R053 · 10/11/2024 19:16

TheKeatingFive · 10/11/2024 13:19

I'm not sure any Western country pulled off Track and Trace. It was much more suited to Asian societies with different attitudes to data privacy.

Australia and NZ did track and trace very well up until Omicron came along.

crumblingschools · 10/11/2024 19:13

We have more transport and food supplies going through our country so would have been very difficult to close borders or have full quarantine

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 19:13

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:08

Is that impossible?

You can answer my question first.

Once you've clarified what you mean and set out the reasons why, I'm ready to be persuaded. Though asking why the UK couldn't be like a group of pretty geographically isolated, hard to access islands isn't going to do it.

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:08

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 19:06

Just to be clear, is this an actual suggestion that Whitty isn't giving his genuine truthful view to the enquiry, but rather has been put up to it?

Is that impossible?

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 19:06

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:02

You said this in reply to me earlier. Do you not think he was told to say that? How come Aus and NZ could do it but we couldn’t? Genuinely asking btw.

Just to be clear, is this an actual suggestion that Whitty isn't giving his genuine truthful view to the enquiry, but rather has been put up to it?

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 19:06

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:02

You said this in reply to me earlier. Do you not think he was told to say that? How come Aus and NZ could do it but we couldn’t? Genuinely asking btw.

Do you not think he was told to say that?

No definitely not, although I'm not sure why it was only at the enquiry it was said. I think people thought it was possible during the pandemic, but it really wasn't and that was confirmed.

See pp on entry of food goods, supplies etc and the people who are required to bring them in

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 19:04

cardibach · 10/11/2024 19:00

You don’t stop a disease spreading be stopping people with the disease from spreading it?

As in pp you have entry by lorries, which are necessary for the UK to function.

Aus and NZ did not have the same number of people entering daily. You'd still have multiple cases entering a day and spreading.

You don't think Chris Whitty has got it wrong though? As stated closing the borders was not feasible, do you think he has the information and insight?

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:02

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 18:59

Chris Whitty confirmed at the enquiry it wasn't possible to do as Aus and NZ did.

You'd not stop the spreading with quarantine

You said this in reply to me earlier. Do you not think he was told to say that? How come Aus and NZ could do it but we couldn’t? Genuinely asking btw.

cardibach · 10/11/2024 19:00

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 18:59

Chris Whitty confirmed at the enquiry it wasn't possible to do as Aus and NZ did.

You'd not stop the spreading with quarantine

You don’t stop a disease spreading be stopping people with the disease from spreading it?

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 18:59

cardibach · 10/11/2024 18:58

Quarantine. Like 8n every other country.

Chris Whitty confirmed at the enquiry it wasn't possible to do as Aus and NZ did.

You'd not stop the spreading with quarantine

cardibach · 10/11/2024 18:58

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 18:49

You mentioned testing people at airports

I meant what did you want to happen to those who were a positive? Not the tube I assume. How many could you accommodate a day in quarantine v how many arrive at all airports in the UK?

Quarantine. Like 8n every other country.

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 18:51

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 17:43

Why was it feasible for Aus and NZ then?

They don't have on road access with supplies arriving daily. Remember the lorry queues when things go wrong, there are hundreds a day bringing food to medical supplies

Covid would be transmitted that way and you'd not be able to quarantine and get the same results as NZ or Aus.

Although Melbourne had incredibly long lockdowns because 1 or 2 cases would get in and they'd have to shut things down. We'd have those 1 or 2 cases multiple times a day via lorries

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 18:49

cardibach · 10/11/2024 18:02

From Heathrow/London airports? Mostly onto the tube. I remember people talking about it at the time.

You mentioned testing people at airports

I meant what did you want to happen to those who were a positive? Not the tube I assume. How many could you accommodate a day in quarantine v how many arrive at all airports in the UK?

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 18:43

Aggie15 · 10/11/2024 18:41

Don't mix social issues with Covid. UK has very high incidence of DV and child abuse anyway. Covid exacerbated already existing issues everywhere around the world not just in the UK. Had the UK listened to the WHO advice in time and locked down when it should have and completely, it could have been like in NZ. Short lockdown, testing and isolating new cases straight away. Life could have returned to normal sooner.

Um, human beings mixed social issues with covid. It's completely batshit to think pandemic policy can stand aloof from established social problems.

Everanewbie · 10/11/2024 18:41

Anonym00se · 10/11/2024 08:09

And who would have looked after these vulnerable elderly and ill people? It would have been impossible to keep them segregated if they need care multiple times a day. Those saying they should have stayed at home are basically saying ‘They’re worthless and should have been culled’ because that would have been the end result if we’d have allowed everyone else to go about their business.

I knew two perfectly healthy people who died of Covid in their 30s. It wasn’t just elderly or CEV people dying back in 2020/21.

I don’t believe you. Around 2500 under 40s in UK died, and that includes serious co-morbidities. Statistically, the probability of you personally knowing two previously entirely well individuals in their 30s who died of Covid, not with, is virtually nil.

Aggie15 · 10/11/2024 18:41

Lwrenn · 10/11/2024 07:54

The amount of children who died as a result of abuse from parents, stepparetnts, care givers was despicable and many of those children were known to social services.
Abusers would use covid as an excuse to not allow social workers in the home to check on the children.
Domestic violence cases went through the roof and more women died at the hands of their abusers.
I'm not sure what the rise in child sexual abuse was but I imagine significant.
Ultimately we locked victims in with their abusers and that to me should never ever happen again.

I think covid was very tough to navigate because it was unknown and people, healthy young people died due to covid so I do think there needed to be a shield of protection for the elderly and vulnerable. But it was catastrophic in the way it was handled. Instead of politicians trying to help their pals profit, money should have been used wisely and advice from people who had some answers taken.

I think any child known to social services, even prehistoric cases should have had to have attended school as a bare minimum but I'd have had the schools opened and only vulnerable students or those with vulnerable parents battling illness or themselves really vulnerable should have had been allowed to home school.

Don't mix social issues with Covid. UK has very high incidence of DV and child abuse anyway. Covid exacerbated already existing issues everywhere around the world not just in the UK. Had the UK listened to the WHO advice in time and locked down when it should have and completely, it could have been like in NZ. Short lockdown, testing and isolating new cases straight away. Life could have returned to normal sooner.

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