I recently left my ex partner after multiple issues and I feel a lot happier for doing it as he made my life miserable.
Our child's birthday is coming up and as I live in house (he lives in a flat) we are having a small party at mine.
He wants to invite his brother who I really dislike and do not get on with at all.
I have recently moved house and really don't want him having my address as he is a shady character.
He really isn't someone I want any of my kids around to be honest, he treats women appallingly, he is a liar, and has an extensive criminal background.
Most of my ex's other family members are attending, and I think I am even being generous to even have them in my house considering how my ex treated me (verbally and emotionally abusive) and I have told him it's my house and I don't care if your brother is offended as he has excluded me for years.
My ex just keeps trying to make me feel bad about this, it's like even not we have split I am still getting stress as if we are still a couple.
Surely I'm not being unreasonable?