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To think that it isn't insane to have a 'just in case' bag?

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WeeOrcadian · 09/11/2024 18:51

DH thinks I'm being overly cautious with this, I don't. So I thought I'd get the opinion of the hive mind.

I'm very forgetful and often get stressed if I haven't got something I need - even basics, like lip balm. It makes me feel even more unorganised than I already am.

It's a pencil case, so isn't huge, but it contains lots of essentials and some not essential items.

I have suspected ND (currently undergoing investigation) and I saw someone online had made one. Boom. Brilliant idea.

I tend to take it with me to work, just in case, hence the name of it!

Thoughts?

OP posts:
LifeD1lemma · 09/11/2024 20:48

I’ve enjoyed reading this thread - makes me think I should be more prepared!

I rarely use a handbag so mostly don’t carry this stuff around BUT I have stocked my desk drawer at work with a lot of it - essential make up (concealer, eye liner, lipstick), hairbrush and few bobbles, perfume and deodorant, toothbrush and paste, spare knickers, tights and pop socks and some pain killers. I’ve used pretty much all of it in the office at some stage.

We have a family rucksack that we use for days out with the kids and it always has mini first aid kit, hand san, wipes, tissues, mini cutlery set, colouring pencils and notebook, emergency snacks.

SleepToad · 09/11/2024 20:46

You tube, every day carry. You go from the excellent to the ridiculous..the guy with the mini phone bank to the bloke with the 20 lb bag with 6 ways to start a fire. I always have essentials on me, basic meds, a knife, duck tape, safety pins

TomatoAuberginePotatoTurnip · 09/11/2024 20:43

@Createausername1970 - I am so intrigued by your random list of emergency items . . can you please tell me what scenario you think you may need all these items

a box of lemon teabags, a pack of tissues, a £2 coin (emergency bus fare) and a black pen

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 09/11/2024 20:43

I have something similar, I have 3 little pouches I put in my bags, one has san pro in, another has hand sanitizer, hand cream and lip balm, the third one has plasters, painkillers and allergy meds. I started using them when I switched from using a handbag with pockets/sections I could easily have everything organised in, to using a rucksack and it all just being a jumble at the bottom.

using pencil cases /small pouches like this is pretty common with women who change bags regularly so always have the stuff they need in their bag.

OP calling it your emergency bag is rather dramatic- it’s just a handbag insert.

i would presume an emergency packed bag is more like the bags with 2 changes of clothes, toiletries and cash that some on here are saying they have ready to go.

graceinspace999 · 09/11/2024 20:43

For those who have bug out bags - is there any point if you don’t have a secret cabin in the woods and plenty of buried staches along the way?

SlightlyJaded · 09/11/2024 20:42

Sounds pretty normal to me.

I have a clear primark washbag thing (smallish).

2 x Spare contact lenses
Nivea lip balm
£10 note
£1 coin (for supermarket trolley)
Bit of paper with DD and DS phone numbers written on them (I know DH but just can't seem to learn DC)
1 x Hair bobble
1 x sheet Paracetamol
1 x Plaster

Takes up no space at all and makes me feel reassured and organised even though I am neither

GoldenLegend · 09/11/2024 20:41

I've worked somewhere that we were advised to have an emergency bag ready in case we had to drop everything and go into work. Meds, clean underwear, toothbrush and so on. It's not mad at all.

sickandtiredofitallnow · 09/11/2024 20:40

TheNightmareBeforeChristmas21 · 09/11/2024 18:56

It sounds absolutely fine and quite normal? I always have a hospital bag packed, which sounds really weird to people, but I have chronic illnesses and never know when I’m going to end up there in an emergency and it just reassures me knowing there’s one less thing to worry about. Just do whatever you need to do! X

I too have a hospital bag packed for the same reason.

OchAyeTheN00 · 09/11/2024 20:38

I have one. Sanitary pad, lip balm, hair band, hand sanitiser, plasters, a mirror, spare contact lenses.

mathanxiety · 09/11/2024 20:38

I don't know any woman who doesn't carry stuff like that in her bag, either loose or in a small zipped bag. The stuff I'm thinking of is lip balm, tissues, maybe a lipstick, roll on perfume, eye pencil, plasters, cough drop, etc.

Your husband mustn't have rifled through many handbags, bless him.

Planesmistakenforstars · 09/11/2024 20:34

I have one, but it's just a pack of pickled onion Monster Munch.

Youcunnyfunt · 09/11/2024 20:34

That’s basically what a handbag is for! If you think you’re likely to need an emergency travel bag, hospital bag, escape bag… then it’s just sensible for short notice. I don’t think you’re crazy!

I get teased for my gym bag. My gym bag is full of “just in case” items. Extras for lockers, showers, extra weights, plasters, spare balls, spare rackets, spare gloves… I don’t fancy unpacking and repacking the same bag every week for my leisure activities. I’ve played a lot of last minute racket sports because I’ve bumped into a friend down the centre and they persuade me to play for a few extra minutes! Enough to make me think it’s not mad to carry several rackets with me everytime I go to the gym 😁

Lifeomars · 09/11/2024 20:30

Makelikeatreeandleaf · 09/11/2024 18:53

Not sure what items you have in it that are causing controversy, but surely lots of people carry such things. I have a little pouch that I can move between bags with various things in it - paracetamol, lip balm, nail file, glasses wipes etc. May not be that everyone does that, but don't think it's unusual.

Same here, mine has hand sanitizer, hand cream, tissues, lip balm, a comb, some plasters (got put in when I was breaking some summer sandals in so really ought to be removed now but I can't be bothered) pain killers, a pen and a mini note book. Easy to move it from bag to bag

betterangels · 09/11/2024 20:30

A lot of women do this, me included.

TheThreeCheesesOfTheApocalypse44 · 09/11/2024 20:28

I have one......purely because dp is absolutely useless in a crisis......so much so that when I ended up in hospital a few years ago (( huge infection that had burst )) I ended up having to wrap my naked self in a sheet to go to the nurses station and ask for a gown when it turned out he'd shoved a load of knickers and shorts in my bag. None of which fit me.

That was a fun few days stinking of rotten goo and none of my own stuff.

So yes. I have an emergency bag and I suggest everyone else does too.

Floralsofa · 09/11/2024 20:28

Depends what's in it, if it's paracetamol and lip balm cool, iodine tablets and lead tabards, not so cool.

LadyGabriella · 09/11/2024 20:27

Good idea. What else u got in it?

Autumndayz77 · 09/11/2024 20:26

I keep spare nappies, wipes in the car and also a bag of spare warm clothes (mostly because my kids play footy and some games are an hour away and the weather can be totally different!)

PlumViper · 09/11/2024 20:24

WeeOrcadian · 09/11/2024 18:51

DH thinks I'm being overly cautious with this, I don't. So I thought I'd get the opinion of the hive mind.

I'm very forgetful and often get stressed if I haven't got something I need - even basics, like lip balm. It makes me feel even more unorganised than I already am.

It's a pencil case, so isn't huge, but it contains lots of essentials and some not essential items.

I have suspected ND (currently undergoing investigation) and I saw someone online had made one. Boom. Brilliant idea.

I tend to take it with me to work, just in case, hence the name of it!

Thoughts?

In the military similar bags but for operational reasons called go bags, or bug out bags etc the idea is quite popular and well done op

Catza · 09/11/2024 20:22

Well, I only have one handbag so no need for the "just in case" bag. I do have a lip balm in every jacket pocket and a few bits and bobs in my car.

shellyleppard · 09/11/2024 20:22

I think it's a brilliant idea

BotanicalGreen · 09/11/2024 20:20

Great idea OP. I have similar. I also have a hospital back packed just in case, although I haven't been in hospital since my last baby 19 years ago. DH doesn't understand.

godmum56 · 09/11/2024 20:19

LucyLocketLovesPollyPocket · 09/11/2024 20:06

I have one. It's my 'bag in a bag'. Some miniature items like toothbrush, paste, underwear, cream, deodorant, hand San, sanpro, hair shit, charging cable, spare meds, paracetamol/ibuprofen.

But I also have a 'grab bag' in the house, in my defense we've had to call 999 a few times and I'm now prepared. All relevant info, chargers, changes of clothes and underwear, pj's, snacks/drinks, hygine items, entertainment...basically an emergency overnight bag for the family.

Blimey you are the first person I have ever heard who does this apart from me.

godmum56 · 09/11/2024 20:17

I do it. When i had two dogs both on medication, I also kept a grab and go bag packed in case I needed to take them out of the house in case of emergency. I had spare dog leads, some of their meds, handwipes, a change of socks and underwear and I always kept a warm jumper and a couple of blankets in the car. Now there is just me it would be much easier because I could just check into a hotel but not so easy with dogs. I remember being shocked when the Whaley Bridge Dam collapsed that people were turning up at the shelter with nothing but the clothes they stood up in, saying they hadn't had time to pack stuff. The situation did escalate rapidly granted but the unprecedented rain did start earlier and at that point I'd have been pulling stuff together if I didn't keep a bag ready packed.

CandyCane457 · 09/11/2024 20:17

I feel a need to know more about exactly what is in this bag, as the only thing mentioned is lip balm and I feel that’s a pretty standard thing to carry around? I always get dry lips so have multiple lip balms, one in my car, one on my desk at work, a couple dotted around at home, and one in my handbag.
Generally in my handbag though I always keep a small hairbrush, compact powder, lip balm, tampons, paracetamol and green tea sachets (in case I go to someone’s house who doesn’t keep it in!). These items are all spares/extras that “live” in there, so when I go out I don’t have to remember to “pack” my bag and remember to include brush, powder etc.
But this is something I’ve never given any thought to, it’s not unique or special, just something I assume most women do.

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