Hi, this is my first post but just looking for opinions really.
We have had a baby this year, as have my DB + SIL.
I am NHS staff & my husband is a civil servant and they earn substantially more than myself & DH - even before being on maternity leave pay.
We would usually spend approx. £60 on each other each Christmas and birthday, would it be unreasonable to suggest we do not buy presents for each other now/just a token present as a couple (bottle of wine etc) and focus on just buying for the babies instead?
Interesting in gathering some options! Thank you!