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Running out of cash before payday

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Buttonmoons · 09/11/2024 08:18

Is it just me, or does anyone else become short of money half way through the minth. My bills are paid and the fridge, freezer and cupboards are quite full, but it’s 2 weeks till payday and I’ve got £400 left. I really need to budget better!

aibu to be worrying about this?

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Winter2020 · 10/11/2024 10:50

Persianpaws · 09/11/2024 14:09

Then I wonder how worried you’d be if like some us on this thread with £19, £3.61 and my £37 would feel?!

My car has just failed it’s MOT despite just having work done and told it was fine, it’s only a few years old but I can’t afford the repairs so it’ll have to wait till next month, I’ll be walking everywhere.

I just needed a new fridge but luckily it was covered by appliance repair or I’d have been screwed.

I have no money for Christmas, I had a ceramic piggy bank I couldn’t open that I was using to save for Christmas, I’m going to have to smash that open to use the money for my car.
I’m also lucky my best friend bought me a winter coat or I’d have had to have gone without.

I had savings but with the cost of living I had to use them to live, now it’s an overdraft and credit cards.

This thread has made me so angry and not sure what it was meant to achieve?! £400 for two weeks sounds like plenty of money to me. There are some of us with so much less who haven’t felt the need to start TWO threads!

I think you are exactly proving OPs point that £400 isn’t enough for 2 weeks as well as peace of mind if your car breaks.

OP hasn’t mentioned Xmas savings so depending on the amount in your piggy bank you could have very similar amounts of money and you are proving that yes it is stressful.

Everyone that is saying that OPs £400 is £200 each week - that will land OP in the exact same situation next month. If possible it would be much better if OP could manage on £100 each week or less and have a little to put aside for that car repair or broken washing machine.

I hope things get better for you OP and everyone in tough times.

Cel77 · 09/11/2024 21:38

I usually hover between +£300 and - £400 every week as a supply teacher. I can't seem to shift that overdraft. £400 is ok for 2 weeks. For our family, it would pay for food /petrol and school expenses (lunches/snacks /clubs). I'd still have to be careful though so no outings or takeaways.

PlumViper · 09/11/2024 20:25

my error was overspending ect then trying to balance the books till payday

Maria1979 · 09/11/2024 18:58

Oh I am so so sorry!!! I misread your comment as smug gloating from someone having 1972£ left and not being happy about it. I went back and saw it was 19,72£!!! That kind of makes a difference and I'm so sorry to have talked to you in such a vile way when you are actually one of the people I was trying to defend with my post.😳🤐🙏🌺

Daisy12Maisie · 09/11/2024 18:29

I have way less than that and I work full time and run a business on the side and have a lodger so I literally can't do any more to bring in more money!

Jamspamandham · 09/11/2024 18:26

Normallynumb · 09/11/2024 18:11

Oh and I've never been able to get out of my overdraft for longer than 3 days

I took out a zero % interest on spending credit card, left my salary in my account to zero off the overdraft, used the card that month for my spending, cut it up and paid it off. Being out of my overdraft was such a mental lift and the 0% period was lengthy which meant payments could be small.

OnNaturesCourse · 09/11/2024 18:19

Maria1979 · 09/11/2024 16:17

Well thank you for your input. Extremely valuable to all people struggling and who have lived hand to mouth there whole lives.

@Maria1979 what? It is ridiculous that the current situation means more and more people can't save, or run out of money before the end of the month. I'm in that boat so your comment and its undertone was uncalled for.

Normallynumb · 09/11/2024 18:11

Oh and I've never been able to get out of my overdraft for longer than 3 days

Changedname23 · 09/11/2024 18:10

I understand how you feel OP. I get edgy if my current account goes below a certain amount. It is getting harder and harder to maintain an emergency fund too (even a small one) and that also puts me on edge.

Normallynumb · 09/11/2024 18:10

I'd be thinking I was quids in if I had £200 LEFT
Living on disability benefits I barely get that in a week.. including bills!
Know your privilege and keep it to yourself

Serencwtch · 09/11/2024 18:07

I've got less than £400 for a month after rent & utilities.
Most people don't have that amount of disposable income for a month let alone 2 weeks!

Boomer55 · 09/11/2024 16:46

It’s not wealthy, but if you have that left after paying bills, it’s not exactly destitute. 🙄

AgnesX · 09/11/2024 16:45

DinosaurMunch · 09/11/2024 08:28

Seems very low to me. I get worried if there's less than £2000 in my current account. Do people really spend all their money each month? Seems very precarious. What happens if you need money for fixing the car or some other unforeseen expense?

Such humour doesn't go down well on MN. Tongue in cheek generally doesn't.

Itgetsharder · 09/11/2024 16:42

lechatnoir · 09/11/2024 16:41

Surely that's what an overdraft is for? I always hope to have enough by budgeting but sometimes unforeseen expenses take you over/xmas/splash out on something you shouldn't have.... and I might go overdrawn. Next month means you start on the back foot but such is life of an average/low wage earner IMO.

Some people don’t have overdraft facilities…I don’t have one, nor do I have a credit card.

lechatnoir · 09/11/2024 16:41

Surely that's what an overdraft is for? I always hope to have enough by budgeting but sometimes unforeseen expenses take you over/xmas/splash out on something you shouldn't have.... and I might go overdrawn. Next month means you start on the back foot but such is life of an average/low wage earner IMO.

ttcat37 · 09/11/2024 16:34

LadyKenya · 09/11/2024 12:55

Tbf a lot of people are, is that not one of the reasons why so many people are in debt? Money management is a skill, that has to be learned. Maybe the Government has a reason for this not being taught in schools!

My point was that previous poster was boasting about having so much in her current account when actually it’s not a sign of being good with money.
Completely agree about money management being taught in schools. I’ve said previously that we should get rid of RE lessons and replace with money management. RE could be spread across other subjects like history and PSE. Money management would be a much more valuable life skill.

LittleBird74 · 09/11/2024 16:21

Oh no, poor you!
I get paid in around 10 days and I have about £50 of my OVERDRAFT left.

Maria1979 · 09/11/2024 16:17

OnNaturesCourse · 09/11/2024 12:18

2 weeks to go here and I have £19.72 in my account.

Luckily everything is stocked up and I shouldn't need that 19 but in this day and age it's ridiculous to have nothing left to save.

Well thank you for your input. Extremely valuable to all people struggling and who have lived hand to mouth there whole lives.

hspwobbly · 09/11/2024 15:49

DinosaurMunch · 09/11/2024 08:28

Seems very low to me. I get worried if there's less than £2000 in my current account. Do people really spend all their money each month? Seems very precarious. What happens if you need money for fixing the car or some other unforeseen expense?

I had to replace 2 car tyres due to a rogue screw puncturing one last week - that 200 quid is my commuting budget for the month ergo commuting now goes on credit as there is NO spare money (single mum here on one income) You really are clueless.

upat4am · 09/11/2024 15:48

helpmyback · 09/11/2024 08:45

Yes it's a money mind set "living pay check to pay check" rather than "zero balance budget"

£400 is fine but not if you need to spend £ 200 on an unexpected bill. Also not very good if you earn 7K per month!

So I have zero in my current bank account but the "piggies" are full and I can afford anything that need instantly and anything that I have planned to spent too.

Piggies are sinking funds for everything!

Dave Ramsey method is American hence the check/ cheque

This is how we budget as well, everything from holidays to Christmas to emergency car repairs and vets bills has a pot (Monzo account).

We don't always have loads in our main joint account, but plenty to cover expected or unexpected bills, and can always shuffle things around if we're short.

caringcarer · 09/11/2024 15:43

Buttonmoons · 09/11/2024 11:18

I’m sorry and mortified if I’ve upset or offended anyone. I’m a single parent so my income is the only income. I worry constantly about the cooker/ washing machine breaking etc. I appreciate that my post might have come across as out of touch, and I am sorry ♥️

It sounds like you might have a bit of anxiety going on. It must be harder if you alone are responsible for everything.

caringcarer · 09/11/2024 15:39

At least OP has filled her freezer and cupboards full of food for the month. An obvious thing to do is to pay all bills as soon as you get paid, do as OP did and stock up freezer and cupboards with food then split remaining money into 4 as it's easier to manage on a weekly budget. OP can simply split her money into 2 so should easily manage to the next payday unless she's got some big expense she hasn't mentioned.

K0OLA1D · 09/11/2024 15:38

GrumpyCactus · 09/11/2024 15:36

Indeed. Let's hope you're never in a position to find out what that actually feels like. Situations can change so suddenly I'd hate for you to find yourself with so little and then to top it off someone comes along and calls you a failure...

I'd consider myself a failure if I had views like them.

GrumpyCactus · 09/11/2024 15:36

K0OLA1D · 09/11/2024 15:33

Wow.

What a fucking shitty thing to say. Vile.

Indeed. Let's hope you're never in a position to find out what that actually feels like. Situations can change so suddenly I'd hate for you to find yourself with so little and then to top it off someone comes along and calls you a failure...

K0OLA1D · 09/11/2024 15:33

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Wow.

What a fucking shitty thing to say. Vile.