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Iraq to lower the ‘age of consent’ for girls to nine

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Waitingforfriday75 · 09/11/2024 07:35

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/global-health/women-and-girls/iraq-poised-to-lower-the-age-of-consent-for-girls-to-nine/

Posted here as it gets the most traffic. This is by far the worst news I’ve heard all year. Imagine at the age you were meant to start secondary school instead being forced to marry and have sex with an older man. Completely disgusting!!!

Iraq to lower the ‘age of consent’ for girls to nine

A new law proposed by ultra conservative Shia Muslim parties seeks to strip women and girls of their rights

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/global-health/women-and-girls/iraq-poised-to-lower-the-age-of-consent-for-girls-to-nine

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AgnesX · 09/11/2024 15:00

timenowplease · 09/11/2024 14:35

Exactly - you were talking a load of rubbish.

What's your point exactly?

Grammarnut · 09/11/2024 14:55

Puzzledandpissedoff · 09/11/2024 13:39

This narrative of Saddam as a secularist is touted a lot, Grammarnut, along with the trope of the west being to blame for everything, but it gets complicated by the fact that he was just another opportunist who'd switch religion on and off according to what suited

Another useful piece here ...admittedly it's from a US institution but it makes a darned sight more sense than anything Iran's mad dog mullahs have ever produced : https://www.hoover.org/research/legacy-saddams-islam

I write from a European perspective, which is generally pragmatic rather than ideological - we don't care how democratic places we trade are and are generally happy with whatever colour government is in power. Saddam Hussein was secular in the sense that though outwardly religious he was not an Islamist (and of course an opportunist) but he also protected the Christian and Jewish minorities in Iraq (the people of the Book) - most of whom have now fled the country they had inhabited for hundreds, and in some cases thousands, of years. The US wanted Hussein out and to get its hands on Iraqui oil. Doubtless worthy reasons, but the removal of Hussein has done ordinary Iraquis little good.
NB I don't blame the West for everything. On the contrary, it seems to me that the West - due to the Enlightenment but also to the prevalence of Christianity - has been the driving force for reform and human rights across the world.
Thanks for link, interesting.

Fizzle1 · 09/11/2024 14:35

coxesorangepippin · 09/11/2024 14:19

It didn’t. I live in Iraq. There were large protests and public backlash

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Can you tell us more, especially how you feel in regards to women's rights??

There’s still a really long way to go - politically as other posters have noted, Iran holds a lot of power and provides support for some of the biggest militia, which still de facto “control” some places.

Your family / community and tribal affiliations will hold more power over what you can do than what’s in the law.

For example, legally women work, travel, access education - however if you happen to be from a family that don’t want you to work, travel or access education they hold a lot more power over you than the law.

I have female friends who do “whatever they want” I.e work, socialise, live alone, aren’t fearful of their day to day safety, dress how they like etc however I also have friends whose family enforce more rigid gender stereotypes, which always end up as controlling for women.

timenowplease · 09/11/2024 14:35

AgnesX · 09/11/2024 13:31

No idea. If you know, feel free to share. It's academic regardless.

Exactly - you were talking a load of rubbish.

MrsSunshine2b · 09/11/2024 14:28

Ponoka7 · 09/11/2024 07:58

As asked, in what Muslim country are women's rights protected and girls will have the same equal access to opportunities as her male counterparts?
However when reading around the age of consent, apparently Germany will lower there's to 6 under some circumstances and many women from thr US claim that in reality (prosecutions etc) it might as well be 12 in some states.

Who on earth told you that? The age of consent in Germany is 14, but even then, not under all circumstances.

Fizzle1 · 09/11/2024 14:22

Puzzledandpissedoff · 09/11/2024 14:14

Iraq is not poised to do that AT ALL, this law was proposed in August and also shut down by September

This is perfectly correct, @Fizzle1, but it still seems no bad thing to note it, given that with the regime in charge in Iran the outcry's unlikely to have shut the idea down permanently

To say nothing of the encouragement it'll have given some to just go ahead and do it anyway

No of course, It’s more just a point of fact - as so many posters seem rightly angry, to just highlight that the original article is misleading in terms of the timing, not other content as Iran heavily influences politics in Iraq.

I remember when it was announced here at the time I was thinking “Where is the international outcry!”

coxesorangepippin · 09/11/2024 14:19

It didn’t. I live in Iraq. There were large protests and public backlash

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Can you tell us more, especially how you feel in regards to women's rights??

coxesorangepippin · 09/11/2024 14:18

An example of this is that nobody as yet has managed to show me the place in the Bible that says women can never be priests, yet many Christian sects still ban women from this.

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Not comparable with allowing nine year olds to marry.

coxesorangepippin · 09/11/2024 14:17

For example, hospitals can refuse women admitted for childbirth without a marriage certificate.

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What a way to lead a society.

Absolutely despicable.

We really are going backwards as a humanity.

MillyVannily · 09/11/2024 14:16

Allergictoironing · 09/11/2024 08:54

I'm not a Muslim and I found your statement very racist, and not at all "innocent".

As @MissyB1 said, not all Muslims are the same. Similar to Christians really, there are various sects and divisions who interpret the "laws" very differently; they pick & choose the interpretations and writings that suit them. An example of this is that nobody as yet has managed to show me the place in the Bible that says women can never be priests, yet many Christian sects still ban women from this.

Apologies then! Yes, you are right, there are various parts of each religion and obviously they are not perfect.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 09/11/2024 14:14

Iraq is not poised to do that AT ALL, this law was proposed in August and also shut down by September

This is perfectly correct, @Fizzle1, but it still seems no bad thing to note it, given that with the regime in charge in Iran the outcry's unlikely to have shut the idea down permanently

To say nothing of the encouragement it'll have given some to just go ahead and do it anyway

itsywitsy · 09/11/2024 14:10

Fizzle1 · 09/11/2024 13:57

It didn’t. I live in Iraq. There were large protests and public backlash.

I think also important to note - the article is misleading in timing. The article is from 2 days ago with an opening line that “Iraq is poised to….” And another poster mentioned they got a “breaking news” alert….. Iraq is not poised to do that AT ALL, this law was proposed in August and also shut down by September. I guess western newspapers are just picking it up now.

Thanks for this update- really hope this is true.

FjordPrefect · 09/11/2024 14:10

wrongthinker · 09/11/2024 07:44

Fucking hell.

And women in Afghanistan not allowed to speak, even to one another.

The horrors of life for women and girls in Iraq, Iran, Afghanistan and other Muslim countries hardly bears thinking about. Not sure what Western governments can do other than condemning these laws and giving their support to Israel.

I would be a bit hypocritical for the USA to condemn anything when child marriage is legal in 37 states, 10 of which have no minimum age.

Chonk · 09/11/2024 14:10

usernamealreadytaken · 09/11/2024 11:28

If they don’t know they are going to be raped, why are they stockpiling abortion pills?

What a fucking stupid question. That's like asking why do buildings have sprinkler systems when they may never set on fire. It's risk management.

HuckleberryBlackcurrant · 09/11/2024 14:01

Just following the example of their blessed prophet

Fizzle1 · 09/11/2024 13:57

LBFseBrom · 09/11/2024 13:52

It's ridiculous. nine is far too young, however I wonder if it will actually happen.

It didn’t. I live in Iraq. There were large protests and public backlash.

I think also important to note - the article is misleading in timing. The article is from 2 days ago with an opening line that “Iraq is poised to….” And another poster mentioned they got a “breaking news” alert….. Iraq is not poised to do that AT ALL, this law was proposed in August and also shut down by September. I guess western newspapers are just picking it up now.

TrishM80 · 09/11/2024 13:55

wrongthinker · 09/11/2024 07:44

Fucking hell.

And women in Afghanistan not allowed to speak, even to one another.

The horrors of life for women and girls in Iraq, Iran, Afghanistan and other Muslim countries hardly bears thinking about. Not sure what Western governments can do other than condemning these laws and giving their support to Israel.

Israel bombing women and children in tents and burying tens of thousands of them under a pile of rubble is helpful how, exactly?

LBFseBrom · 09/11/2024 13:52

It's ridiculous. nine is far too young, however I wonder if it will actually happen.

Namerchangee · 09/11/2024 13:52

Fucking disgusting. No other way to describe it.

Lentilweaver · 09/11/2024 13:51

I think the title of this post needs to be amended now we know the law has not been passed.

ToWhitToWhoo · 09/11/2024 13:50

PS I don't see what this has to do with Israel, one way or another.

ToWhitToWhoo · 09/11/2024 13:48

How utterly horrible.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 09/11/2024 13:39

Grammarnut · 09/11/2024 13:28

So Iraq is ruled by open paedophiles! How disgusting. And a direct result of toppling Hussein (a secular Muslim) in 2003. Thanks again, US.

This narrative of Saddam as a secularist is touted a lot, Grammarnut, along with the trope of the west being to blame for everything, but it gets complicated by the fact that he was just another opportunist who'd switch religion on and off according to what suited

Another useful piece here ...admittedly it's from a US institution but it makes a darned sight more sense than anything Iran's mad dog mullahs have ever produced : https://www.hoover.org/research/legacy-saddams-islam

Sleepysleepycoffeecoffee · 09/11/2024 13:33

Waitingforfriday75 · 09/11/2024 07:35

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/global-health/women-and-girls/iraq-poised-to-lower-the-age-of-consent-for-girls-to-nine/

Posted here as it gets the most traffic. This is by far the worst news I’ve heard all year. Imagine at the age you were meant to start secondary school instead being forced to marry and have sex with an older man. Completely disgusting!!!

They are absolute animals

AgnesX · 09/11/2024 13:31

timenowplease · 09/11/2024 10:21

Oh really? What percentage of women are you talking about?

No idea. If you know, feel free to share. It's academic regardless.

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