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Iraq to lower the ‘age of consent’ for girls to nine

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Waitingforfriday75 · 09/11/2024 07:35

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/global-health/women-and-girls/iraq-poised-to-lower-the-age-of-consent-for-girls-to-nine/

Posted here as it gets the most traffic. This is by far the worst news I’ve heard all year. Imagine at the age you were meant to start secondary school instead being forced to marry and have sex with an older man. Completely disgusting!!!

Iraq to lower the ‘age of consent’ for girls to nine

A new law proposed by ultra conservative Shia Muslim parties seeks to strip women and girls of their rights

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/global-health/women-and-girls/iraq-poised-to-lower-the-age-of-consent-for-girls-to-nine

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EarthSight · 09/11/2024 21:37

MissyB1 · 09/11/2024 17:28

Racists never like being called out do they?

Or.....maybe you're just wrong every now and again. A difficult thing for you to comprehend, I'm sure.

caringcarer · 09/11/2024 21:37

BabyEl · 09/11/2024 19:52

41,000 civilians?

how many Hamas were killed then?

All they have to do is release the fucking hostages. They are even keeping dead bodies hostage. It is sick.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 09/11/2024 21:16

God how utterly horrific. There could never be any justification for allowing that - no one’s religion/ culture/ traditions makes that ok.

God knows how the world can stop it though.

JazzyJelly · 09/11/2024 21:07

caringcarer · 09/11/2024 21:00

I read this this morning in the Telegraph and felt physically sick. Those poor little girls will get raped by old men.

Exactly this. Is there any way to adopt these girls? I have a spare bedroom and would be willing to take a child and her mother.

caringcarer · 09/11/2024 21:00

I read this this morning in the Telegraph and felt physically sick. Those poor little girls will get raped by old men.

JaneJeffer · 09/11/2024 20:06

You might want to lay off the booze

BabyEl · 09/11/2024 19:57

Justiceeternal · 09/11/2024 12:54

Google search: all information is out there if you look for it.

Is this a joke?
half the inheritance?
allowed to divorce in some cases?

you also missed out the right to be beaten by their husbands, the right to be raped at 9, the right to be stoned, and the right to almost never get into heaven.

The Prophet ﷺ said: “I was shown paradise, I saw that most of its inhabitants were the poor… and I was shown hell, I saw most of its inhabitants were women.”

BabyEl · 09/11/2024 19:52

Rosscameasdoody · 09/11/2024 13:06

Not to the extent of killing 41000 civilians, no. And various organisations which have investigated Israels’ claims that Hamas are using the population as human shields, have found no evidence of it that meets international law. They considered Israel to be using human shielding allegations to justify their own war crimes against civilians, saying that when state actors, such as Israel, kill civilians, it’s become standard to describe them as human shields. And Israel’s response is widely considered to be neither reasonable nor proportionate under international law. You neglected to mention that the IDS have been using kidnapped Palestinians as human shields themselves. Forcing them into booby trapped homes and tunnels ahead of the soldiers. How is that any different ?

41,000 civilians?

how many Hamas were killed then?

Pippa246 · 09/11/2024 17:37

Anywherebuthere · 09/11/2024 09:38

Sadly the men who do this have such a warped ingrained mindset that they will happily marry off/sell their daughters to suffer the same too.

They don't see them as human with rights and feelings.

Indeed. I remember the story of the father who strapped bombs to his very young daughters who then walked into a police station and blew themselves up. Females are just seen as nothing in these situations

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 09/11/2024 17:34

MissyB1 · 09/11/2024 17:15

I agree that the IDF & Israeli government have shown themselves no better than Hamas. Israel will carry a heavy stain on their reputation for decades over what they've done to Gaza.

Yes they will, I just wish the western world didn't continue to support them. They are truly horrible people.

EasternStandard · 09/11/2024 17:32

DamnUserName21 · 09/11/2024 12:54

I put these examples in response to some PPs on this thread. Westerners like to put Islamic countries in a box as if it's a monolithic, homogenous entity and all Islamic countries are the same. They aren't.

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Ok I think it's useful on any topic to split out the countries as you have

Although I did wonder whether you thought the rights of women and girls were equitable in Islamic countries to western countries?

Taking a pp quote

It worries me that places like Afghanistan, libya, and Iraq are trying to apply more and more restrictions on women and girls liberty. It feels like parts of the world are going backwards.

Do you feel that is the case?

Christmaschristingle · 09/11/2024 17:32

I don't understand the reference to the Bible?
In medieval times the European countries were wedded to Christianity and Catholicism and then protestant and off shoots.
But, we then went through the enlightenment.

We became enlightened and the strangle hold of religion fell away as new ideas and philosophy came to the fore.
Of course many millions of people see themselves as Christian and practise but that all encompassing strangle hold on every moment of life through the state, kings, devine right and so on has gone.

We are ruled by ourselves in a free and democratic way.

We are light years away from this strangle hold in counties that simply haven't been through the enlightenment so trotting out what some evangelical nutters do in some provincial backwater USA town to try and compare to great swathes of fhe middle East seem utterly irrelevant to me??

User37482 · 09/11/2024 17:31

Grammarnut · 09/11/2024 14:55

I write from a European perspective, which is generally pragmatic rather than ideological - we don't care how democratic places we trade are and are generally happy with whatever colour government is in power. Saddam Hussein was secular in the sense that though outwardly religious he was not an Islamist (and of course an opportunist) but he also protected the Christian and Jewish minorities in Iraq (the people of the Book) - most of whom have now fled the country they had inhabited for hundreds, and in some cases thousands, of years. The US wanted Hussein out and to get its hands on Iraqui oil. Doubtless worthy reasons, but the removal of Hussein has done ordinary Iraquis little good.
NB I don't blame the West for everything. On the contrary, it seems to me that the West - due to the Enlightenment but also to the prevalence of Christianity - has been the driving force for reform and human rights across the world.
Thanks for link, interesting.

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He had particular views on Islam though, he thought you couldn’t be a proper muslim if you weren’t an arab. He was definitely a believer (though as you said not an islamist, that would be too universal for him, he was a bit of an arab supremacist) . Though the whole blood quaran (he has a quran written in his own blood, most likely mainly other peoples blood) thing was quite dodgy and I imagine most believers would be horrified by that and not sure how that fits with his personal beliefs.

MissyB1 · 09/11/2024 17:28

EarthSight · 09/11/2024 09:59

Nope. You're not allowed to silence other people by saying the word RACISM every time you don't like someone's opinion. Manipulative bullshit.

Racists never like being called out do they?

User37482 · 09/11/2024 17:23

It worries me that places like Afghanistan, libya, and Iraq are trying to apply more and more restrictions on women and girls liberty. It feels like parts of the world are going backwards. The abortion bans in the USA were appalling enough. It feels like a war on women. I truly fucking hope no other countries decide to follow suit.

The lower age for marriage in Iran is 13 for girls and 15 for boys and lower with the consent of parents. But lets be honest it’s mainly going to be little girls getting married isn’t it.

It’s fucking foul.

MissyB1 · 09/11/2024 17:15

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 09/11/2024 15:03

Except Israel are horrible terrorists.

I agree that the IDF & Israeli government have shown themselves no better than Hamas. Israel will carry a heavy stain on their reputation for decades over what they've done to Gaza.

Rosscameasdoody · 09/11/2024 16:27

Allergictoironing · 09/11/2024 10:17

Timothy, 2:12 ‘But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence’. In addition, in Timothy 2:12, St Paul said, ‘I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet’. When laying out the ground rules for worship services in 1 Corinthians 14: 33-35, Paul revisits this by placing clear restrictions on participation by women.

Ah Saint Paul (Saul), the self-proclaimed "apostle" who never met Jesus (apart from his own account of a vision), argues with Saint Peter and was reprimanded by others of the 12 original Apostles.

And of course that was according to Timothy (a book which is considered by many scholars as NOT being written by Paul), and is contradicted by various other statements in the New Testament including Junia ("prominent among the apostles"), and Phoebe being praised as a Deaconess.

But you pick & choose the bits that prove your point (sort of like those Muslims who treat women badly).

Don’t compare me with the way Muslims treat women, thank you - I’m not picking and choosing anything and if you read my post very carefully you’ll see that at no point did I say I agree with any of what I posted. I was simply answering a poster who said that the Bible didn’t provide a basis on which the case for prohibition of women priests could be made. Like it or not, these are some of the scriptures on which swathes of the Christian church rely to exclude women clergy. And on which fundamental Christians judge those churches who do include women in the clergy. Didn’t say I agree with it.

Brananan · 09/11/2024 16:15

What Hamas did to Israel was inhumane and terrifying. That cannot stand.

Rosscameasdoody · 09/11/2024 16:13

buffyajp · 09/11/2024 12:55

As well as Hamas does if you want to go down that route. Both sides are guilty of this.

You can go down that route on either side as far as you want. It doesn’t help the women and girls involved does it ? The Palestinian civilians themselves are being blamed on some threads for ‘electing’ Hamas to power. Despite the fact that no free elections have been held in Gaza since 2006. And only Israel is guilty of genocide. Which is what this is.

Rosscameasdoody · 09/11/2024 15:59

Chonk · 09/11/2024 14:10

What a fucking stupid question. That's like asking why do buildings have sprinkler systems when they may never set on fire. It's risk management.

Agree. This poster was answering me. Those who see the abortion laws in the US as a result of rescinding Roe v Wade in black and white aren’t grasping the issues. It’s not about protecting the unborn. It’s an attack on womens’ rights, which if allowed to run its’ course will result in many states treating women like walking incubators with no rights above those of their unborn child, at risk from second rate health care because many obstetric procedures are outlawed and medics are in fear of losing their licences/imprisonment.

AgnesX · 09/11/2024 15:50

timenowplease · 09/11/2024 15:33

Why are you still engaging with me?

You responded to one of my posts with a ridiculous statement. When I asked you to clarify you made another ridiculous post and now a third?

Go out for a walk and get some fresh air.

You started it with your own comment which brought nothing to the conversation. Mine was a point made from personal observation despite not being able to quote figures.

You don't and didn't have to engage with me. You're capable of ignoring me.

Rosscameasdoody · 09/11/2024 15:49

Livelovebehappy · 09/11/2024 13:18

I would pretty much say Hamas using tunnels and dug outs under hospitals and schools is pretty much one of the definitions of ‘human shield’. There’s proof this is where most of Hamas are stationed. I think the West should send as much help as possible in to Gaza to eradicate Hamas. Getting rid of the terrorists would end the war, the hostages released and normal life resumed.

The problem is that the aid agencies who go in to help in Gaza report seeing absolutely no evidence of Hamas in these areas. Where is the proof ? There is a definition of what constitutes a human shield under international law. Several agencies have said that there is no evidence that Hamas meets this definition. Whereas there is evidence of Israel doing exactly the same with kidnapped Palestinians. Two wrongs don’t make a right.

And if you think ‘normal life’ will ever be resumed while Israel continues its’ occupation and apartheid policies, you’re deluded.

timenowplease · 09/11/2024 15:33

AgnesX · 09/11/2024 15:00

What's your point exactly?

Why are you still engaging with me?

You responded to one of my posts with a ridiculous statement. When I asked you to clarify you made another ridiculous post and now a third?

Go out for a walk and get some fresh air.

Grammarnut · 09/11/2024 15:03

MrsSunshine2b · 09/11/2024 14:28

Who on earth told you that? The age of consent in Germany is 14, but even then, not under all circumstances.

The lowering of the age of consent to 4 was an aim of PIE - the Paedophile Information Exchange - in the 70s. Some Labour politicians supported it (no, they were not Muslims).

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 09/11/2024 15:03

wrongthinker · 09/11/2024 07:44

Fucking hell.

And women in Afghanistan not allowed to speak, even to one another.

The horrors of life for women and girls in Iraq, Iran, Afghanistan and other Muslim countries hardly bears thinking about. Not sure what Western governments can do other than condemning these laws and giving their support to Israel.

Except Israel are horrible terrorists.