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to think that i can lose 6 kilos in the next 6 weeks?

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captainmarvella · 09/11/2024 02:04

i am going on a once in a lifetime holiday to a fabulous beachy and instagrammable worthy location and feeling horrible about my size 20 body with protruding a$$ and treble chins. i want to try this one meal a day thing for some instant results but bestie says it won't work for some one like me - mid 40s, hypothyroidism, binge issues in the past, and can actually make me sick. I don't want to be sick right before my bucket list vacation! Should I listen to her?

i don't plan to do low carb or anything, just eat one filling and balanced plate of my fav stuff, once a day. right now i'm at 85 kilos. I want my weight to be at least in the seventies when I leave for my xmas vacay. i have seen so many inspiring progress pics online about the OMAD lifestyle it's really giving me hope. But most of these are from men, so I don't know if it really works for perimenopausal women! Aibu to even consider this with my current health profile?

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ViaBlue · 09/11/2024 08:48

I'm another one who swears by keto and low carb. Lost over a stone in the first month.
It'a normal on keto to lose loads initially, it's mostly water weight as carbs make you retain a lot of it. I didn't realize how swallen I was until I changed my diet. I lost 3 stone total in 6 months and got rid of chronic sinustitis! I can breathe again..it's amazing!

A bit later I have added intermittent fasting and it just works with keto as you are naturally less hungry.

To the poster who struggles on 800calories 2 days per week--- how much sugar and carbs do you eat..a banana with porridge is a horrible idea for example as will cause glucose and insuline spike, followed by a crash and intense cravings...carbs, especially the highly processed carbs are addictive and sudden break will be uncomfortable initially. It takes circa 3 days for the sugar cravings to stop!

I sometimes, before a period usually, have cravings - clotted cream with some 80% dark chocolate and blueberries/rasberries takes care of those really well!

MissHalloween · 09/11/2024 08:13

Yes it’s definitely doable, low carb and 1200 calories (you have to be very strict in this) or less. I’d stick to two or three meals per day. I lost 20kg last summer doing this.

Autumnweddingguest · 09/11/2024 08:10

FupaTrooper · 09/11/2024 02:20

In my opinion, low carb is the only thing that works. I've tried many things but the reason low carb works is you genuinely are less hungry and you can eat a really good amount.

My mum has thyroid issues and is 68 and she lost a bit more that 6kg in 6 weeks doing very strict keto. She did a 3 hour eating window and I did the same. So from 5.30pm to 8.30pm.

I lost 8kg in 5 weeks on it :)
I have struggled with my weight my whole life and have PCOS.

So, yes it is possible... But if I was you I would consider going low carb.

Also sizing is so weird and varied. You are a UK 20 at 86 kgs?

At my biggest I was 105kg and I fit most high street size 18s and even some 16s lol.

Do you function during the day if you eat nothing until 5.30pm? DH and i have been doing the 5:2 diet. Two days a week on 600-800cals, since September. I haven;t lost a pound. In fact it has triggered old bingeing habits that I'd had no issue with for a while, on the off-days. I find I just can't focus on work on the low calories days. I feel tired and cold and my brain, which needs to be in sharp focus all day long for the work I do, is just sluggish and makes mistakes. Meanwhile DH is looking slimmer and skipping about on the low cal days going for long walks (he's retired.) It pissed me off so much I told him I am stopping doing it now, as I was wasting two precious workdays a week, staring into space.

How can people function all day long with no food? It baffles me.

Pancakewaffle · 09/11/2024 08:01

Have you thought about slimming world? You can get quick results with that and your goal is definitely realistic in that time frame on that plan. There's lots of 'free foods' where you don't have to measure or weigh them so if you wanted to stuff your face with them you could...!

Within reason of course - pasta/cous cous etc are free foods and if you ate lots of that obv you wouldn't lose any weight, but almost all fruit and veg is 'free' as well

RhaenysRocks · 09/11/2024 07:48

@SpidersAreShitheads that sounds great and your circumstances sound like mine. Can you give me a really simple basic list of what you eat? I'm a SP working full time and it's really hard to stick to anything because I have to sort out fussy kids food (not the same for them both) so I can never be arsed when it gets to me. I really need to do something. I'm short, about 85kg and also prediabetic with the Dr making noises about cholesterol too. I don't want to be on the same meds as my parents before I'm 50 😠. Thank you

SpidersAreShitheads · 09/11/2024 03:18

I’m another one saying that keto/low carb is revolutionary.

I’ve lost 35lbs in 3 months doing keto. No exercise yet as we’re mid house renovation.

I eat loads. I’m never hungry. I have an insanely sweet tooth and there are plenty of ways to get a chocolate fix on keto while still sticking to your daily allowance.

I drink sugar-free squash. I have had the occasional diet fizzy drink if I’ve felt the urge on a weekend.

I love food. I love bread, potatoes, and cake. And dear god I love chocolate.

But with keto you just don’t have those things. So no need to try and only have a small portion which imo is much harder than just cutting it out. You have alternatives instead. Halloumi cheese instead of chips, for example.

I’m 49, pre diabetic and perimenopausal. And dress size 22 when I started. If I can do it, anyone can. I’m utterly shit at dieting and have no self-control.

The thing is, it’s up to you. You need to work out what your priority is and what your triggers are. If you want to get healthier and lose weight then you keep that in focus. Whatever you pick, don’t have contraband food in the house.

I have dark chocolate sweetened with vanilla, sugar-free jelly, and sometimes either Grenade or Fulfil salted caramel protein bars. There’s virtually no carbs - about 2-3g or so - in each bar so it gives a chocolate hit without ruining your diet.

My issues were being hungry, not planning, and a sweet tooth so I’ve made sure my diet addresses all of those.

It’s absolutely possible to do but whatever diet you follow, there will need to be changes and compromises made. Only you can decide what’s the most important to you. For me, being told I was prediabetic was the kick up the arse I needed to make a change.

Garlicpest · 09/11/2024 03:17

Wouldn't you be a prime candidate for GLPs? Superdrug's offering 33% off at the moment, or check the weight loss threads.

J1Dub · 09/11/2024 03:05

captainmarvella · 09/11/2024 02:37

tbh with my weight i find it v hard to walk fast im breathless in a minute n just want to go back home... but you are the second person this week to tell me to walk on an incline. I will do it from today 👌

If you are breathless when walking normally, you are already pushing yourself, so it's probably not a good idea to walk on an incline. I can't push myself any harder than the breathless stage without having to stop after a (very) short while.

Mummyoflittledragon · 09/11/2024 03:01

captainmarvella · 09/11/2024 02:43

right this is another thing i am not rlly sure about still. what is omad, exactly? eat one filling plate in 10-15 minutes or you can eat that one plate over the course of one hour, 2 hours? i am aiming for 2-3 hours tbh

I ate 3 plates of food consecutively as described in my comment above and ate in the space of an hour. That’s one meal a day. You don’t have to eat it slowly. Just mindfully.

  1. Starter - salad bits with vinaigrette as this aids digestion.
  2. Meal - ensuring plenty of protein and veg.
  3. Pudding - crackers with butter and marmite. I could have added cheese. But I had grated cheese with my mains along with stuff like an avocado.

Eating over 3 hours is eating more than one meal a day. OMAD is eating once, for an hour. Don’t worry if you don’t achieve this. Some days I needed something light in the evening as my body became accustomed to the new regime.

My body actually really likes OMAD. I am unable to eat like that unfortunately due to circumstances beyond my control.

SatansBobbleheadedDashboardOrnament · 09/11/2024 02:53

captainmarvella · 09/11/2024 02:50

i don't drink, chocolate is my alcohol 😢im not cut out for keto m afraid... but perhaps a gym is a good idea. there's one near my workplace, may be i should sign up to give an extra boost for my 6 week plan

That's definitely the problem with keto - if you have a sweet tooth you're basically fucked unless you have a will the strength of steel. I'm a savoury rather than sweet person. You can however have limited amounts of dark chocolate on keto - 85% Green & Blacks chocolate is acceptable in small doses. It's a shame you can't follow it as it does work. Definitely go for the gym. You don't have to become a body builder, find some machines that work for you.

captainmarvella · 09/11/2024 02:50

SatansBobbleheadedDashboardOrnament · 09/11/2024 02:44

Yes it is possible, if you develop the will to and are prepared to be a bit miserable.
I've lost 28lbs since September 6th by sticking strictly to the Keto diet (often following OMAD) and by drinking zero alcohol. ONLY drink water (and the odd coffee with a bit of cream/coconut milk dashed in). Go to the gym approx three times per week (I've been doing 1/2 an hour cardio of some sort and a 1/2 hour swim - nothing too intense because I'm really shit at it). I'm late 30s.

i don't drink, chocolate is my alcohol 😢im not cut out for keto m afraid... but perhaps a gym is a good idea. there's one near my workplace, may be i should sign up to give an extra boost for my 6 week plan

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captainmarvella · 09/11/2024 02:47

user1473878824 · 09/11/2024 02:34

@captainmarvella honestly, if you’re not prepared to try and portion control three meals a day how do you think you’re going to survive and stick to eating one meal a day for a month and a half?

eat nice, healthy, balanced and filling meals and calorie count and exercise and make that a long term plan.

i did a trial run of omad for a couple of days and i was able to do it, albeit for 3 hours i.e. i filled a plate with my fav food (meat and veggies with rice/pasta and hummus) i ate it over 3 hours (12pm to 3pm), i didn't feel hungry at all as long as i went to bed early... i think i can do this until mid december, i just want to know if it s going to give any side effects that will make me sick

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SatansBobbleheadedDashboardOrnament · 09/11/2024 02:44

Yes it is possible, if you develop the will to and are prepared to be a bit miserable.
I've lost 28lbs since September 6th by sticking strictly to the Keto diet (often following OMAD) and by drinking zero alcohol. ONLY drink water (and the odd coffee with a bit of cream/coconut milk dashed in). Go to the gym approx three times per week (I've been doing 1/2 an hour cardio of some sort and a 1/2 hour swim - nothing too intense because I'm really shit at it). I'm late 30s.

captainmarvella · 09/11/2024 02:43

Mummyoflittledragon · 09/11/2024 02:29

Yes it is possible. OMAD isn’t unhealthy as long as you ensure you eat enough. I did this to try to heal my gut as I trashed it eating Quorn.

When I did it, I started with a plate of lettuce and tomato with olive oil and vinegar. Then ate my meal ensuring plenty of veg and protein and not too much carb. I then had finished it off with some crackers, butter and marmite. All in all it did take an hour to eat my food.

I counted my calories to ensure I was eating enough to stave off hunger for the next 24 hours. The first couple of days are tough to adjust to. After that it’s fine.

right this is another thing i am not rlly sure about still. what is omad, exactly? eat one filling plate in 10-15 minutes or you can eat that one plate over the course of one hour, 2 hours? i am aiming for 2-3 hours tbh

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Intotheoud · 09/11/2024 02:41

Talk to your healthcare provider. You have previously had an eating disorder and OMAD may not be appropriate for you. Be aware that some people posting may have disordered eating themselves.

captainmarvella · 09/11/2024 02:40

StandingSideBySide · 09/11/2024 02:26

Ps. Since you have started this thread in the early hours it’s worth mentioning according to Michael Mosley going to bed at 10:30 / 11 to sleep is the ideal time for weight control.

that's going to be so hard... i don't sleep well at all, i don't know if anyone can with these hot flashes and three moggies who wake me up at all hours

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captainmarvella · 09/11/2024 02:37

StandingSideBySide · 09/11/2024 02:24

Exercise…a lot.
Walking fast, not strolling and preferably up hills.
Every day

Porridge as PP has mentioned for breakfast
Salad, veg soup for lunch. Preferably home cooked with just steamed veg, stock and blended….no bread on the side
Protein and veg for dinner.
Use a side plate for the dinner meal to keep the portion size small and
Eat two fruits a day as a snack if you are hungry

No sugar in drinks,

You need to use up in exercise or eat 7000cals a week less ( according to intel from dieticians ) to loose 2 lbs ( 1kg = 2.2lbs )

There might be a calc online where you can put in ht, weight, age etc to find out your required calories / day then go from there.
Good luck

tbh with my weight i find it v hard to walk fast im breathless in a minute n just want to go back home... but you are the second person this week to tell me to walk on an incline. I will do it from today 👌

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captainmarvella · 09/11/2024 02:35

FupaTrooper · 09/11/2024 02:20

In my opinion, low carb is the only thing that works. I've tried many things but the reason low carb works is you genuinely are less hungry and you can eat a really good amount.

My mum has thyroid issues and is 68 and she lost a bit more that 6kg in 6 weeks doing very strict keto. She did a 3 hour eating window and I did the same. So from 5.30pm to 8.30pm.

I lost 8kg in 5 weeks on it :)
I have struggled with my weight my whole life and have PCOS.

So, yes it is possible... But if I was you I would consider going low carb.

Also sizing is so weird and varied. You are a UK 20 at 86 kgs?

At my biggest I was 105kg and I fit most high street size 18s and even some 16s lol.

very inspiring to hear your experience (and your mom's), thanks, i'm now feeling more hopeful. i know low carb is the best but i tried it many times annd have always failed... i love my rice pasta and chocolate too much:(

and the sizing oh god i have such a nightmare shopping... my frame is medium (5.5 ft) but everything protrudes, belly, b00bs, so size 18 just looks tight and feels uncomfortable too

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user1473878824 · 09/11/2024 02:34

@captainmarvella honestly, if you’re not prepared to try and portion control three meals a day how do you think you’re going to survive and stick to eating one meal a day for a month and a half?

eat nice, healthy, balanced and filling meals and calorie count and exercise and make that a long term plan.

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Pylwin · 09/11/2024 02:32

You don't have to portion control

Have a banana with your porridge because you need to feel full in the morning

A normal bowl of porridge will fill me up till lunch but if not then I'll have a banana at break

captainmarvella · 09/11/2024 02:32

TheSilkWorm · 09/11/2024 02:18

Fine to try OMAD, it has some health benefits. Expecting to lose a kilo a week is a bit unrealistic. It's also silly to try to change your body just for a holiday. Enjoy the holiday, nobody will care what you look like.

Okay... point taken. I will tone down my expectation and just see if I can do this for the next 6 weeks. Even if I manage to lose only a couple of weeks, Ig that's a win.

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captainmarvella · 09/11/2024 02:31

Pylwin · 09/11/2024 02:13

Only eat though when you actually feel hungry

i'm prediabetic (sorry forgot to add this in my op) so i tend to feel peckish a lot. I do drink a lot of water as i was told that a lot of times hunger is really thirst, but still sometimes I feel really hungry and then end up overeating.

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captainmarvella · 09/11/2024 02:29

Pylwin · 09/11/2024 02:12

And go for as long a walk as you can every day or at least for 30 mins

i walk 15 min each way to work, should I do more? I also swim three days a week. No lifting though, due to a bad back.

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